Instructions for Dancing by Nicola Yoon --> Restarting July 25th 2025

[Aly]

Evie Thomas doesn't believe in love anymore. Especially after the strangest thing occurs one otherwise ordinary afternoon: She witnesses a couple kiss and is overcome with a vision of how their romance began . . . and how it will end. After all, even the greatest love stories end with a broken heart, eventually.

As Evie tries to understand why this is happening, she finds herself at La Brea Dance studio, learning to waltz, fox-trot, and tango with a boy named X. X is everything that Evie is not: adventurous, passionate, daring. His philosophy is to say yes to everything--including entering a ballroom dance competition with a girl he's only just met.

Falling for X is definitely not what Evie had in mind. If her visions of heartbreak have taught her anything, it's that no one escapes love unscathed. But as she and X dance around and toward each other, Evie is forced to question all she thought she knew about life and love. In the end, is love worth the risk?

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Ch 13 (view spoiler)[This is cute so far. Don't know how I'd feel seeing people's relationships especially knowing when and how they'll break up. Wouldn't help me believe in love anymore if I was the MC that's for sure lol (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

I started this too!

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Ch 32 (view spoiler)[I don't really blame her for being so mad at her dad. And now he's getting married smh and both her parents are trying to make her go, not cool. (hide spoiler)]

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Aly wrote: "I started this too!"

Lol I had good timing then...

[Aly]

For once I'm not a week or more behind you!

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

It all depends on what I prioritize lmao. I find staying on schedule harder and harder each month, I'm just a rebel I guess lol

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Ch 50 (view spoiler)[OMG what the hell??? He's going to die? What's the point of these visions anyways? (hide spoiler)]

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Ch 52 (view spoiler)[Did her dad legit try to explain away his affair and ask her to accept that?!?! Yeah no, I thought maybe there'd be a legit reason, like maybe her mom cheated first, but nope! (hide spoiler)]

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Finished (view spoiler)[All that matters is right now??? When it comes to love. I guess I disagree. Hate that she went to her dad's wedding. Think I'm more mad at him after hearing his excuses. Not to mention why the hell did she not tell her sister the truth, I think it's messed up to leave her in the dark, convinced their dad can do no wrong! IT's so messed up he's off living his HEA while their mom is just learning to trust in love again! Hope Shirley knows once a cheater-always a cheater!

I don't know if I loved this one. Until the end it was so good and that bittersweet end just makes me want to cry. I'm glad she went back with X to spend the remainder of his time on Earth with him but hot damn that's devastating knowing it's coming. Really I don't get how the visions were supposed to be a gift. No matter what seeing the end of a great love no matter how great is still an end and like knowing when you're going to die, will hardly let the heroine live on and have hope. (view spoiler)[ (hide spoiler)] (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

Ch 14 (view spoiler)[ The older dancing instructor is hilarious. I like that she's so straightforward about things. I hope Evie sees the owners kiss and see how they have true love that won't end. (hide spoiler)]
Ch 29 (view spoiler)[ I know Evie thinks she saw Cass and Sophie broken up, but she might have only seen a fight or something. She could have pretended to be happy and not pushed them away (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

❀ Crystal ✿ - wrote: "Ch 13 [spoilers removed]"

Very cute!

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Aly wrote: "Ch 14 [spoilers removed]
Ch 29 [spoilers removed]"

Yeah I loved Fifi she was so funny and one heck of a teacher lol

[Aly]

Ch 51 (view spoiler)[ I was full on crying when I read that. X can't die! And then she broke up with him over text! No no why are you doing this to me?? (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

❀ Crystal ✿ - wrote: "Ch 52 [spoilers removed]"

So mad about this! (view spoiler)[ it's completely insane that he even pressured her to go to the BRIDAL SHOWER for his mistress, let alone acts like the victim when she wants to bail on the wedding. (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

Finished (view spoiler)[ I really wish X could have lived. I am glad she got back with him and they'll have that time together and those memories but having that knowledge hanging over her head would be really awful. (hide spoiler)]

[Aly]

❀ Crystal ✿ - wrote: "Finished All that matters is right now??? When it comes to love. I guess I disagree. Hate that she went to her dad's wedding. Think I'm more mad at him after hearing his excuses. Not to mention why..."

I agree with all of this so much. (view spoiler)[ I didn't want her to go to the wedding, like everything is okay even though he destroyed her view of love and trust in him. And the younger sister thinking he has no blame in the divorce is shitty.

X still dying was completely tragic and I was really hoping the visions would be something that could be changed. The fact that they weren't and all those breakups and his death still happened made it feel pointless (hide spoiler)]

[❀ Crystal ✿ -]

Aly wrote: "❀ Crystal ✿ - wrote: "Finished All that matters is right now??? When it comes to love. I guess I disagree. Hate that she went to her dad's wedding. Think I'm more mad at him after hearing his excus..."

I couldn’t agree more. (view spoiler)[I thought the irony was a bit funny as well. At one point when hanging out with her friends ones of them I think X mentions not wanting to know when he’d die. Well umm it’s just as bad knowing when, how and all the details of how the love of your life will die. Not to mention I mean if she knows he has a mysterious heart issue, I’d be urging him for a stress test, EKG, the works. That old lady telling her this was a gift is a slap in the face. And I won’t even mention her father, he’s garbage and doesn’t deserve either of his children and certainly not love..... (hide spoiler)]

[Karen]

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Date changed. Restarting June 8th 2021. Happy Reading ☺

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[Katie]

My Book of the Month box finally came in!! Is anyone planning on reading this one??

[Karen]

Katie wrote: "My Book of the Month box finally came in!! Is anyone planning on reading this one??"

I am Katie - tend to binge read over the weekend and catch up with things that go by the wayside in the week.

[Katie]

Sounds good, Karen! I'll start this one sometime today/tonight then!! :) :) And I understand the binge reading over the weekend :)

[Katie]

Just started!!! I thought I would try a chapter to get a feel for the book, and the chapters are short and I couldn't stop with just one! :)

I know this sounds weird, but I never read the full blurb about books before I read them. I don't skip to the last part of the book to even see how many pages there are just in case I accidentally spoil something. So I had no idea (view spoiler)[ this book had hints of magical realism in it, which I normally don't like, (hide spoiler)] but I LOVE this author, and so far, I'm really enjoying this one!

Chapter 7- (view spoiler)[ I'm really intrigued by all of this, and I'm sad Shelley and Sheldon will end up braking up (maybe Evie will try to get them to stay together?) even though they aren't the main characters. Sheldon riding the Ferris wheel by himself broke my heart a bit... (hide spoiler)]

[Karen]

Read ch1-6. Totally agree, Katie, short chapters and it has me quite intrigued. Who’s the mystery book lady? What message is trying to be taught?

[Karen]

Up to ch32. Liking the dynamic between these two, and how they accept each other as they are.

[Karen]

Up to ch43. (view spoiler)[ Pleased she went to the hen party, and I’m curious to know what Sharon’s story is. (hide spoiler)]

[Karen]

Finished. Review on home page. Loved this.

[Karen]

Katie wrote: "Just started!!! I thought I would try a chapter to get a feel for the book, and the chapters are short and I couldn't stop with just one! :)

I know this sounds weird, but I never read the full bl..."

I was surprised as this seemed to have more of a focus on (view spoiler)[ magical realism hinted at. It felt a little like it petered out. (hide spoiler)]

[Katie]

Chapter 28- (view spoiler)[ eh...dad is getting re-married. I can see why Evie is so mad at her dad, and I feel bad that she can't share the information with her sister. (hide spoiler)]

[Karen]

Katie wrote: "Chapter 28- [spoilers removed]"

(view spoiler)[ This element of the plot annoyed me. Why wouldn't anyone let her sister know that her dad had an affair? Nobody seems to want to acknowledge this - and it's not like she's a little child who won't understand it. (hide spoiler)]

[Karen]

Katie wrote: "Just started!!! I thought I would try a chapter to get a feel for the book, and the chapters are short and I couldn't stop with just one! :)

I know this sounds weird, but I never read the full bl..."

(view spoiler)[ Those little vignettes floor her. She obsesses over the way they end - but I found them really hopeful. (hide spoiler)]

[Katie]

I’m on my phone app and don’t see a reply button.... but Karen, I’m up to chapter 32 as well now and see your comment about their chemistry together. I agree! (view spoiler)[ the pool date was great!!! I was smiling som much when she found out he could actually play!!! And X wanting to go slow for Evie was sweet! (hide spoiler)]

[Katie]

Chapter 48- (view spoiler)[ What?? Oh no!!! X is going to die?? I think I know where this is going with the message, but I wasn’t expecting this twist... we’ll see I guess! (hide spoiler)]

^^ Karen, I also want to know Shirley's story!

[Katie]

Finished- (view spoiler)[ Oh man! So good! I don't think I was expecting that outcome when I picked this book up, but I really enjoyed this. There were some pretty big loopholes that I wanted to know more about, but overall, I really like this! (hide spoiler)]

[Jenn]

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[Bayan]

I wrote a few notes for this book because I didn’t get to join on the buddy read early so I just thought i’d write in my notebook and also I want to say I read this in June not July so I’m hoping this one counts for a June buddy read lol
(view spoiler)[ I really like Fifi.
at first I didn’t like the visions especially that she gets to see break up and not just the high of the relationship.
I kind of really liked her character at the same time I thought like her parents didn’t do a good job like I think her character was at her own development and not her parents’ contribution obviously they’re not doing a good job (in my opinion) but her mom I feel bad for her but at the same time I don’t know…
part of me really enjoyed the romance and another didn’t (got the vibe of instalove for some reason) but not for the reason that most readers are annoyed by it a few of my friends were saying like if she didn’t know the ending she would’ve just went on with the relationship and didn’t go through the thing that break up through texts and stuff but I disagree I like the fact that she got the visions because this girl doesn’t believe in love so if she’s met X without seeing the vision she would have moved on with her life but she started a relationship with him, and after she saw the vision I mean she did end up deciding to go back to him so thats awesome.
My friend said stuff like why are they focusing on the now I mean in the end she gonna be all alone but I thought it was actually a selfless act like when you know that they are leaving soon and youre out here trying to give them the time of their life being in love is such an amazing feeling so why would you take that away from them when you can be the reason they have it
To me love means the impact that it leaves on us and not how long it lasts some people’s true love isn’t the one theyre with right now but it’s just the remnants of a specific person..
Just my opinions!
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[Lydia]

Page 87/300
(view spoiler)[ Let me start by saying, I have very high expectations for this book cause I just loved her 2 previous books. But it just feels quite plain so far. Not that I don't like plain meet cute romances, it's just, there usually is a bigger subject matter in Celeste's Ng books and I'm missing it here. The writing is spot on as usual, but the story is a biiiiiiit too cheesy. I doubt anyone just goes to a dance lesson alone and finds a male dance partner whom they will eventually marry or smt I guess. I just wanted a bit more depth. I'm really liking the characters thoughhh (hide spoiler)]

[Kirsten]

I read this in October and really liked it. The ending threw me. I still think The Sun Is Also A Star is my favorite Yoon book!

[Jenn]

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[Jenn]

Found my copy hidden deep on my shelves but now i can join in on this!

[Jenn]

Chapter 8: (view spoiler)[ yeah so i did not read the sypnopsis for this book at all. Did not realize theres a touch of magic or mystic in it with her having visions and seeing people's relationships play out. Interesting concept esp since shes so jaded with love now. Is she only destined to see those who break up? (hide spoiler)]

[Gohnar23]

Woo cool! Starting nyeow

[Gohnar23]

Not even chapter 1 yet:

(view spoiler)["ALSO BY NICOLA YOON"

"The Sun Is Also a Star"

I literally already buddy read that just this month and 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬

Ok, definitely not expecting this one to be any good (hide spoiler)]

[Gohnar23]

Chapter 2:

(view spoiler)[okay here we go with random information that we totally didn't need 😭😭😭😭😭😭. It's the exact same thing with "The Sun Is Also A Star". It's not even trying to hide the fact that it's putting random information. IT DEDICATES AN ENTIRE CHAPTER (hide spoiler)]

[Jenn]

Chapter 16: (view spoiler)[ ok evie's attitude is pure shit. Shes super rude to X for no reason. All because she heard one part of a conversation. Im actually not really liking her (hide spoiler)]

[Jenn]

Chapter 29: (view spoiler)[ wow evie. Way to ruin your friendship with your best friends. Shes blaming all of this on love when that was 100% her fault. Her entire cynical attitude is just a tad too much. On the other hand, i get why shes upset with her father and honestly her sister doesnt think its weird that their dad is already getting engaged? (hide spoiler)]

[Gohnar23]

Chapter 10:

(view spoiler)["I grab my bike and head out and tell myself I’m not in a romance novel."

Gurl you are in one 😭😭😭, what is this wannabe meta 4th wall break 💔💔💔 its so cringe. I'd rather love a romance book between the two founders of that smol dance club, Archibald & Maggie anyone? (hide spoiler)]

[Gohnar23]

Dance #172:

(view spoiler)[Same as last one but with more fillers (hide spoiler)]

[Jenn]

Gohnar23 wrote: "Chapter 10..."

(view spoiler)[the staff at the dance studio is definitely more interesting than Evie, thats for sure (hide spoiler)]

[Gohnar23]

Ch 27:

(view spoiler)[ok i can admit im not exactly "hating" this book 😒😒😒😒😒. Its somehow...."good". It fits the style of a silly and funny ya book which i really like and even the little interactions between her and her friends are memorable. (hide spoiler)]