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I hate guys!!!....(sometimes)

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PurpleObsessor_15 (hunnybunn13) This one guy, TOTALLY used me. He knew I liked him so the first chance he got he grabbed some ass (as well as lip). Then the next day I don't exist, nothing happened, and I get NO explanation. Guys are such FREAKS sometimes!! no offense intended to you nice ones out there :)


message 2: by [deleted user] (new)

It sounds like something an asshole would do.

Lots of assholes are guys, but not lots of guys are assholes.


message 3: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) Yes a lot of guys are assholes. What world do you live in Amy, and are there any homes available near you? Texas, right? I've been looking for something to stir up life a bit. And now that I'm single, an asshole free zone might be fun. woo hoo!

Goth, I hate it when young women have such low self-esteem that they feel like they need to give up some ass just to make men like them more. I have to warn you that those young women usually grow into adult women with the same low self-esteem. Please feel free to complain about guys all you want, but if it is a by-product of how you feel about yourself, then I feel very sad for you.


message 4: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) No, you're in Oregon, too, A. Damm you all. I'm jealous.


message 5: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) I'm just jealous of all the Oregonian-ness going on around here.


message 6: by [deleted user] (last edited Mar 23, 2008 09:36AM) (new)

So...was he hot?


message 8: by [deleted user] (new)

Awww! & in the 'I hate guys' thread, no less!


message 9: by Kat (new)

Kat (aliceinlove) AWWW such love.

but yeah men suck except for my kentonis who i've been friends with forever. but other than that they just suck


message 10: by [deleted user] (last edited Mar 24, 2008 07:16AM) (new)

Well Amanda, get your ass out here then! Portland is better than anywhere in Texas I ever lived, or visited (with Austin being close, but still...it's in Texas, so Portland wins).

Not all guys are assholes, I know some perfectly lovely ones!

I stand by my:

Lots of Assholes are guys, but not lots of guys are Assholes!

I agree though Goth, keep your zipper up longer...or don't let yourself get so attached so soon. You have to keep some defenses up at first, let em down gradually. It's self preservation darlin! Casual sex can be fine for lots of people (I'm not one who is good at it), but if you're going to get your feelings hurt when the guy doesn't call...you're not one of them!


message 11: by Tracy (new)

Tracy at least you figured him out early on. sometimes it can take years before you realize what an asshole a guy is, and by the time you do, you're a completely different person than you should be and it's a hell of a lot of work getting yourself back again.

although, speaking from experience, you can't let one bad experience (or two, or a hundred) close you off or make you assume that everyone is an asshole. a lot of people aren't. but if you spend a whole relationship trying to prove the person you're with is just as bad as the last guy, they're either going to prove you right or leave.


message 12: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) Don't tempt me, Amy! Ok, no I'm kidding. PLEASE tempt me. :) I have a friend--I guess he's a friend, I let him borrow my CDs, though I don't know him that well--who is moving to Portland at the end of the summer. A couple weeks ago I forced him to agree to letting me sleep on his couch for a visit. I am bound and determined to escape this mundane old scenery SOON!

As to the issue at hand: I'd like to argue that all people are both nice AND asshole-ish. The universe seeks balance.


message 13: by [deleted user] (new)

Not that I'm naturally suspicious or anything Amanda...

But make sure to get your CDs back before he moves :D


message 14: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) That mo fo better give 'em back or our friendship is off! They're two Ass Ponys albums no less...


message 15: by Valerie (new)

Valerie Please tell me that you didn't lend out The Muppet Movie soundtrack!!!

:)


message 16: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) Oh no way!!!! I have looked for that CD a hundred times and havent' been able to find it. Nor do I know anyone who owns it. :( sigh...

The muppet movie is how I remember which direction the sun rises--Kermie and Fozzie singing Movin' Right Along, and there's a line that goes "Have you ever seen the sun come up in the west?" So I just sing that line to myself and then say, "No way, Fozzie, that would be crazy! The sun comes up in the east!!!"


message 17: by [deleted user] (new)

Amanda, maybe us nicer folks just balance out the assholes instead (you know, like people obsessed with your mother!).


message 18: by Kim (new)

Kim (kmdoubleday) Is there a reason we're hating in a gender specific way? or even within a species?

There are plenty of gals and sting rays that have my hatred

why not just embrace the hating of humanity?

And Amanda, I can't hear the phrase 'fork in the road' without that large utensil just begging for comment. :)


message 19: by Kim (new)

Kim (kmdoubleday) Amanda, you still have a turntable?

http://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-listin...





message 20: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) Awww, Kim that is so sweet of you to find that for me. I think I love you now! (Don't tell Dash...)

I think my old turntable is buried in my parents' attic somewhere. Along with my Dirty Dancing record and Ian Anderson plays with the London Symphony Orchestra.


message 21: by Kim (last edited Mar 25, 2008 04:49AM) (new)

Kim (kmdoubleday) Dash will just have to share you... and when will he have the time with all those soundtracks he has to listen to???? We'll just chill with The Electric Mayhem until he gets around to us. :)


message 22: by Amanda (new)

Amanda (randymandy) I still want to paint a car... :) While singing songs in my driveway, of course.


PurpleObsessor_15 (hunnybunn13) he wasn't THAT hot...al of my friends think he's UGLY....but i thought him kinda cute. didn't know he's so forward.


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