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message 1: by Diane , Armchair Tour Guide (new) - rated it 4 stars

Diane  | 12949 comments Start discussion here for Finding Nouf by Zoë Ferraris.

message 2: by Diane , Armchair Tour Guide (last edited Jan 15, 2020 06:33PM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Diane  | 12949 comments About the Book (from BookBrowse)

When sixteen-year-old Nouf ash-Shrawi goes missing in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, her wealthy family suspects that she's run away to the desert to escape her imminent marriage. Her brother Othman calls on his good friend Nayir to help find her. However, after ten futile days of searching, it is not Nayir but some anonymous desert travelers who find her body. Unable to let go of his failure to help Othman, Nayir determines that he must at least try to find out what really happened to Nouf—for despite the official coroner's report and the family's desire for privacy, foul play seems likely and the many unanswered questions refuse to leave him in peace. The search will force religiously conservative Nayir to face his dearth of knowledge of women and unfulfilled desire for a wife as he joins forces with Katya, a forward-thinking forensic lab technician who challenges his opinions, and attempts to discover the secrets of rich, coddled Nouf.

About the Author

Zoë Ferraris moved to Saudi Arabia in the aftermath of the first Gulf War to live with her then-husband and his extended family, a group of Saudi-Palestinian Bedouins who had never welcomed an American into their lives before. She first conceived the idea for Finding Nouf at a jacket bazaar in Jeddah, where her ex-husband bought a "Columbo" coat and proposed setting off to solve mysteries - though to Zoë the only mystery at the time was why they were at a jacket bazaar in the hottest country in the world. She has an M.F.A. from Columbia University and received first prize for mystery fiction at the Santa Barbara Writers' Conference in 2003. She currently lives in San Francisco with her teenage daughter.

message 3: by Diane , Armchair Tour Guide (new) - rated it 4 stars

Diane  | 12949 comments Discussion Questions (from BookBrowse)


1. Nayir feels obligated to find Nouf as a favor to his friend Othman, and to the Shrawi family, which has been very good to him. What deeper meaning does the search for Nouf have for Nayir? Discuss the relevance of the title, Finding Nouf.

2. Finding Nouf tells a moving and mysterious story, but also gives readers a peek into the world of conservative Muslims in Saudi Arabia. How do Muslim customs hinder Nayir and Katya in their investigation? How do these customs help the investigators?

3. Nayir's identity is almost entirely contingent on his modesty and righteousness. Do you think he overdoes it? If so, what might Nayir be compensating for? How do other Muslims in the novel, both men and women, seem to feel about his religious conservatism? What do their perspectives tell you about modern Saudi Arabia?

4. In a world that values family and community above individuality, Nayir seems an independent nation. He feels most at home in the desert or on the sea, far away from the city and its populace. Examine Nayir's comparison of the desert with the sea on page 108. What attracts him to each? Why do you think he prefers these places to the city?

5. The task of penetrating the cloistered world of a rich Muslim girl forces Nayir to face his disappointments as a bachelor and his lifelong curiosities about women. Raised primarily by his uncle and with little courting experience, Nayir has had few opportunities for exposure to the feminine. Find examples throughout the book of Nayir's longing for contact with, and insight into, womankind. Discuss how his opinions and impressions change or remain the same by the end of the novel.

6. The novel portrays various levels of seclusion in Saudi Arabian culture. Identify the ways in which people and groups are cut off from one another, both literally and figuratively, and examine how these imposed structures and traditions affect people's opinions of, and interactions with, one another.

7. On page 110, Nayir muses about the confession he's just obtained from Muhammad: Nouf was planning to abandon her husband in New York and make a life in America. He thinks, "She had died in the desert, but her running to America would have been another kind of death." What does he mean? What is it that disturbs him most about Nouf's secret plans?

8. When Nayir meets paper-artist Juliet at the American Ladies of Jeddah meeting, he is both painfully uncomfortable and deeply intrigued. How do you feel about his interpretation of her? What was it like for you to see American culture, particularly as it relates to American women, from a wholly outside, naïve perspective?

9. With reservation, Nayir accompanies Katya to the Big Mix, a desegregated lunch buffet open to families and friendly to unmarried couples. Inside, despite an initial discomfort about the unveiled female diners, Nayir "felt relief, mingled with surprise that a restaurant as modern as this one would be filled with good people acting appropriately." What does this tell you about Nayir? Do you think the experience changes him in any way? Why or why not? What does this scene tell you about Saudi Arabia and its shifting values in the modern age?

10. On page 214, Katya takes issue with Nayir's belief that Nouf "had everything," arguing that Nouf only "had everything her father let her have." What is the difference? Outline both Nayir's and Katya's perspectives on what might have happened to Nouf and explain where each is coming from. Do you see Nouf as spoiled and ungrateful, as Nayir seems to, or do you sympathize with her desperation, as Katya does? Explain your opinion.

11. Compare and contrast the relationships between Muhammad and Nouf and Ahmad and Katya. How would you characterize each? Do you agree with Nayir, that Muhammad failed to protect Nouf because he was too busy spoiling her, probably out of his own secret desire for her? How do Muhammad's indiscretions stack up against Ahmad's? He similarly keeps Katya's secrets as she breaks the law and otherwise behaves in what her father (and others) might deem an inappropriate manner. Do you think these men are doing their jobs? Why or why not?

12. When did you first begin to suspect that Othman's interest in finding out what happened to Nouf might be more than brotherly concern? What clues were there that he was the father of Nouf's child?

13. Discuss the interaction between Katya and her future in-laws. Friends have told her that a woman should choose a husband based on his mother and sisters. Why? Do you think Katya would ever have assimilated into the Shrawi household? Why or why not? What does Othman's behavior in the coatroom on page 226 indicate to Katya? Why do you think she bursts into tears after leaving?

14. Discuss how Nayir's stereotypical "knowledge" of women limited his theories to possible motives a man would have for kidnapping or killing Nouf. Did you suspect she might have been killed for other reasons, or by a woman? Why or why not?

15. How does the author comment on certain aspects of conservative Islam, such as the Saudi religious police and rules restricting women? Do you feel that you know her opinion by the end of the novel? If so, what is it? If not, why not? Did reading this novel at all affect your opinions of the American lifestyle? Why or why not?

message 4: by Mome_Rath (last edited Jan 26, 2020 04:36PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Mome_Rath | 1401 comments Well that was fun! I enjoyed the mystery, and it certainly keeps Jeddah on my radar as a potentially interesting place to visit, especially as Saudi Arabia is opening up a little more to tourism. I'd be up to reading more in this series of mysteries.

I've been to Saudi Arabia once before, and that was to visit expat family members in Riyadh several years ago. Parts of the mystery reminded me of the visit -- all the guys driving around just for something to do (traffic was a nightmare around Riyadh); the separated "men only" and "family sections" in restaurants; the desert bazaars; the dry heat (oh, the heat!). That said, I was only there for a long weekend, so I know my perspective was extremely limited, and I can't speak to the total accuracy of the novel for what life was actually like.

The author was a foreigner who married a Saudi, and she lived in Saudi Arabia for less than a year in the early 1990's, so I'm sure her insights are limited to her experiences as a foreigner and the timeperiod she was there. Still, I felt like she portrayed a fair version of Islam and family life, though I feel bad for the philanthropic family at the center of this mystery because of what happened to them. I also felt she did a good job humanizing Saudis and giving a voice both to women (with Katya's desire to work and her uncertainty about what marriage would portend) and to outsiders (such as Nayir, the Palestinian desert guide who serves as one of the protagonists).

For those who were reading this as an insight to Saudi and Muslim society, I might recommend following this up with books by other authors from Saudi Arabia and the Middle East/North Africa, such as Abdul Rahman Munif's Cities of Salt; Rajaa Alsanea's Girls of Riyadh; Saud Alsanousi's The Bamboo Stalk; and Naguib Mahfouz's The Cairo Trilogy: Palace Walk / Palace of Desire / Sugar Street.

Jacquie Mome_Rath wrote: "Well that was fun! I enjoyed the mystery, and it certainly keeps Jeddah on my radar as a potentially interesting place to visit, especially as Saudi Arabia is opening up a little more to tourism. I..."

The Cairo Trilogy: Palace Walk / Palace of Desire / Sugar Street sounds so interesting. Thank you for the suggestions and the great review without spoilers. I always struggle with that.

Mome_Rath | 1401 comments Thanks! Just as a note, none of the other books I mentioned are mysteries; they range from classics/historical fiction to contemporary fiction. The Cairo Trilogy is a great way to learn more about early 20th century Egypt (well, Cairo, at least).

message 7: by Diane , Armchair Tour Guide (new) - rated it 4 stars

Diane  | 12949 comments I loved the Cairo Trilogy! I highly recommend it.

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