Finding a book

[Jackie]

I'm not sure this is where I should post this but here it goes. I read a book a few weeks ago and have forgotten the name and author. The main character is pansexual. Its about a boy who breaks up with his cheating girlfriend with encouragement from his best guy friend. He then is depressed and goes to a bar and meets a man who buys him a drink and they flirt and are attracted to each other. The boys best friend finds him at the bar is jealous and tries to make him leave, but the boy goes home with the man instead. The man works in a museum and they continue to get closer and the boys best friends gets insanely jealous and treats them awful. This book is low heat no sex until close to the end due to main characters taking the relationship slowly. We find out at the end that the boys best friend is actually gay and has feelings for the boy but its too late the boy has already fallen for the older man. Ive searched everywhere and can not find this book! I loved it but deleted it from my kindle unlimited :( please help!

[Jackie]

Found it finally! Decadent by elaine white