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There is no cabal. Repeat, there is no cabal. What there is, is a vibrant community who talk to each other. If someone tells me an author is batshit crazy and gives me a link, I will make up my own mind about what I find at the other end of the link - this is no orchestrated campaign to ruin a career, it's word of mouth, the same as it would be when a book takes off out of nowhere. And you call this a false review? Bullshit.
There was no orchestrated campaign by anyone against Hale. Look at the 4 and 5 star reviews on this very page, there is nobody attacking them, no arguments. All normal people understand that some readers will love any book, and some readers will hate any book.
What there was, was one blogger giving an honest opinion, and people who read and appreciate that bloggers opinion forming their own. Just as you have the right to a) read the book, b) have an opinion all your own about it and c) ignore other reviews.
Seriously. Nobody can ruin an authors career faster than they can sink their own by acting like idiots in front of the entire internet. No blogger or reviewer has that much power. So stop justifying Hale's behaviour, because that is exactly what you're doing with this post.

Said author writes a story flaunting how she online stalks the reviewer, eventually managing to get her home address and SHOWS UP AT HER HOME.
Additionally, the only side we have of the reviewer is written by an unhinged crazy person who writes fiction for a living, and is not motivated in portraying the events accurately as it does not fit her victim narration.

I have been stalked before. I have been followed and called at all hours of the night and felt like my life was threatened. I've nearly been run over. I've had books and desks and paperweights thrown at me. I've had my possessions stolen and hidden. I have had to call the police. Putting someone in fear of expressing their opinion and saying that it is "justified" because they said something negative shows that this author is absolutely insane.
Stalking is not something to be proud of, as this author seems that she is. It is something to be criminally punished for.
The author is the source of the book and I don't think she should be rewarded for her criminal behavior by people reading it. That's like supporting the football player that assaults women with autograph signing sessions.



Do not read.
Ever.
Can't blame the community for warning people about an author because no one wants their life invaded.


Not necessarily true. We have the very sane and reasonable review of the book by Harris and based on that, I believe that Hale is a very, very sick woman for stalking Harris all around the internet in the first place. Had she reacted like a normal person and just said, ouch, I don't like this review, and then forgotten about it, she never would have discovered what she claims she did about Harris's behavior. There was absolutely nothing wrong with Harris' review in the first place and Hale should have just left it alone and gone on with her life.


I agree with you. There can be other side, even many sides, but no one seems to think about it. Sometimes people (or a lot of times) think or act as a mass, sometimes even without researching the subject or just don't think with their own head.
Maybe these 2 (both blogger and author) are just 2 sociopaths that found each other, maybe author's article and this whole was written (and made) on purpose, to get attention or, maybe, to destroy author. Or maybe this author is a freaking lunatic, but why is this blogger isn't at least trying to sue her? "Invading a personal space", or something? It's a crime, but all we see or hear is them tweeting, blogging, etc. I don't know, this whole story sounds weird for me, and I don't know the whole lot of info, just bits from Internet (seriously, guys, there's so much lying there..how can you trust everything that's written there.. it's insane).
Most of the time I try to hear both sides, because that's how you know the truth, and that's how I like to form my own opinion. There are too many questions left for me to make h lies there..how can you trust everything that's written there.. it's insane).
Most of the time I try to hear both sides, because that's how you know the truth, and that's how I like to form my own opinion. There are too many questions left for me to make conclusions this time.
Only thing I can tell, is that this world is full of insane people, and internet doesn't help in this case. And not only insane, but also mean, and corrupted. People got paid for bad and good reviews, authors act horrible towards their audience, publishers can be freaking idiots, people destroy each other's lives... It's hard to know who's wrong and right sometimes, especially when your only tool for seeking the truth is Internet. And everyone can write everything there.
I didn't know about this whole "drama" until today, so I can tell that the reason why I wasn't interested in reading this book in the first place (when I've heard about it many months ago) was not drama surrounding it, but a plot that didn't grab my attention. It still don't sound appealing.:) So I'm not sure that I read it. Not my cup of tea.
But as for other sides, I'm trying to form my own opinion, not forced, but my own. Thankfully, life taught me not to trust everyone just like that. So it helps in cases like this one, too.
Thank you for bringing up this question. I like those who's not afraid to question what community thinks is right or wrong. Because sometimes the mass can be wrong too. And we all need to respect the opinions of others.

@Anna:
I also try to look at the facts. The facts don't support the author's claims: there is no proof that the reviewer had any inappropriate tweets, or any other insults on social media.
The horrific thing (IMHO) is that the author made this claim, but couldn't back it up with any kind of proof, yet people are taking these claims as being FACTUAL. People are grasping onto this claim, not looking for any kind of facts to back it up. No one I am aware of, has been able to back up Kathleen Hale's accusations. Hmmm?
I don't believe these are "2 sociopaths". The evidence suggests otherwise: you have one author (Kathleen Hale) admitting to stalking, and a reviewer she claims harassed her on social media (no proof whatsoever).
In the end, it looks pretty one sided to me?

Yes, indeed. This story is kind of complicated if you think about it.
It's just, I don't usually take everything that's written in social media as 100% true facts. I need more proof, you know. It can be just me.
And, of course, I'm not telling that this author is "alright" and "fine", no. And more than that, if all this is 100% true, then she's insane and needs help, but if there is any chance that someone slandered her or there's any mistake, or they are both equally mad, or anything like that, then I don't want to be among those, who only trusted the Internet and acted as a mass with torches. I prefer to know the whole story, ya know.
That's why I'd like to hear from that reviewer too..
And once again, this kind of stories prove to me, that we all need to be careful in social media, because there're whole lot of maniacs around us. And it can be anyone: from author, to a fellow reader..
But to be honest, I want all "drama" in reading community to end... I hate to see such things in my fav communities. Just read a book, people and stop being evil to each other...
Sorry for this all-over-the-place comment.. Just tired.

I agree 100% Anna.
I did some social media research, and can't find anything that backs up this author's words/story, and it really concerns me. It appears as if all it takes is for an "author" to make claims, and a reviewer is basically screwed?
This author doesn't appear to be a legit historian, and has nothing to back up her claims. It makes me sad that the Guardian went forth with this story, when there was no proof to back up her claims.
After the author's "story" broke, the publisher upped the price of the book. Hmmmm. It all seems sick to me, and I don't buy any of it.
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I've read many articles about people intentionally giving negative review en mass to books here, amazon and other places with the goal to make the book/author look bad. As much as we are in outrage over an Author going to the extreme shouldn't we also be in outrage over these false book reviewers making the rest of us look bad?
As far as this book goes I'm still going to read it because if I didn't read a book, watch a movie/tv show, or listen to music every time the author, producer, or artist did something wrong or something I didn't agree with my life would be very dull indeed.
There said my peace so go ahead and tear it to pieces have fun ^^