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If you like humor, you should try "Good Omens". He wrote that one together with Terry "Discworld" Pratchet, and it's totally diffrent from "The ocean....", but hillarious. I read somwhere that during the writing proces of "Good Omens" they rang eachother and red to eachother what they had written, and the whole point of the telephone call was not to laugh first......




I listened to it as well and so agree about the songs!


Fantasy writing is not my thing but this really works as a child's memory. I found it beautiful.


I attended a panel at ComicCon 2013 where Neil Gaiman talked about this book and read the first chapter out loud. He told the story of the car being stolen etc. and said ti was strange because he had completely forgotten it until a few years before he wrote the book when his father brought it up.
He also said he wrote the book for his wife, Amanda Palmer, because he never talked about his childhood and she had so many questions. He said "Leave it to me to write my childhood as fantasy."


I stumbled upon this novel in a hospital waiting room. The short length and fantasy elements made this a delightful read and a great afternoon escape. I'm excited to delve deeper as others finish reading.



Barbara, I'm glad you brought this up. It's been awhile since I listened to the book, but I remember pondering just this. It was clear that something was going on that was beyond a child's comprehension. I can't wait for responses and interpretations from readers.


It reminded me a bit of Jenny Nimmo's books, where the big events of childhood are wrapped up in fantasy by the children experiencing them. If I were pressed on the question of "what was real/fantasy", I'd say the money troubles, the kitten, the suicide, the affair, and the violence were real. All of those would be confronting in different ways for a child, and it's so much easier to think of a monster or higher design linking these events together rather than the fallibility of your parents/other adults/your worldview.

I agree with what you have said. Additionally, I would add that it seems the boy is already a kind of outcast within his own family. Because of this, these fantasies may be his kind of escape to a place where he is accepted.


I felt that it was implied by the forgetting, and by the fact that most people have dreamlike or fuzzy childhood memories, that it's possible for any of us to be in the narrator's shoes -- having potentially gone through something incredible, but only remembering when it really matters to us.


The idea reminds me a little of It by Stephen King. Some things are just too much traumatic to remember so our minds "protect" themselves.

The idea reminds me a little of It by Stephen King. Some things are just too much traumati..."
Great connection! I think like this "restorative" or "selective" memory comes from the need to block out the negative things in his life. His childhood was full of dark parts that anyone would want to forget.

I agree that the boy was indeed the only really fleshed-out character, but I was intrigued by the Hempstocks and what they represented, what they embodied: the present that reached back into the distant historical past. Reality. Fantasy. Dreams and projections. And I was upset when Lettie 'died.'

I love how you've put it -- the present reaching back into the historical past. I got a sense that was a core idea in the book :)


Absolutely not. I think part of the allure of Gaiman's writing is that you get plopped in a story with little background. He tells it as if you should know what's going on when in reality you are just slowly putting pieces together as you read.
The fact that their history is so vague or non-existent in the narrative makes you imagine what you will. Or not. Whatever you feel like doing. That's one of his charms for me.

If you take the interpretation that the events are a symbol/cipher for something which happened but didn't happen in that magical way, then I'm not sure how a prequel/sequel would work without affecting that part of the story too much.


I absolutely do! I try not to recommend books to others unless specifically asked, but sometimes I just know in my heart a book will speak to a friend. I hope they read it!
On the other hand, I do try to read books recommended to me, but if I don't already own them, or go out and buy them as soon as they are recommended, I often forget. O_o

And I agree that a prequel or sequel would probably not add anything to the story.



That would be great. :D


This book is dark and has the capabilities of making your skin crawl, it is however also whimsical. Just like childhood. There is only one other person that I can think of that writes about childhood this well and that's Roald Dahl. Both Gaiman and Dahl seem to be able to recall so well what it's like to be a child, including the dark side of it. Growing up is scary and it's hard but it's also wonderful. While Dahl is no longer with us, I'm thankful that there are authors like Gaiman around that can still make us feel like children.
After returning to his childhood home after attending a funeral, the unnamed protagonist recalls the time he use to spend with his neighbour and childhood friend, Lettie Hempstock. He ventures over to his old neighbours and finds Lettie's mother and recalls that Lettie has gone away to "Australia". The protagonist initially remembers very little of his childhood but recalls a pond which Lettie used to say was her ocean and decides to venture down there to recollect some childhood memories. Sitting by the "pond" the man begins to remembers , it started with him losing his room as a boy so that his parents could let it out for some additional income. The opal miner had stayed with them, but after losing all the money that his friends and family gave him, he stole the family car and committing suicide in it. This death causes something unnatural to be released in to the world. While out with his father to retrieve the car, is when he meets Lettie. He is taken back to her home and introduced to her mother and grandmother.
The unnatural spirit that was released when the opal miner died believes that money will make people happy but it's leaving money for people in very horrible ways. When the narrator wakes up choking on a coin, he seeks help from Lettie. The boy quickly comes to realize that there is something very special about the Hempstock women and when he asks about their exact age they never give him a concise answer. The women decide that the spirit must be dealt with and brought back to its own world. Against her mother and grandmother's discretion, Lettie convinces them to let her bring the young protagonist along with her to banish the spirit. Lettie tells the boy that he must not touch ANYTHING while he is in the spirit world and to hold her hand the entire time. The boy fails at this only once while in the surreal spirit world.
After the spirit has been banished, the boy returns home from his adventure believing that everything has returned to normal. He finds however, that he has a gaping black hole in the bottom of his foot in which he can feel something moving around. He pulls out a worm from the hole in his foot and puts it down a drain, though he didn't get all of it. The boy deals with the incident the way a curious child would, but as a reader this scene is has some serious gross factors and leaves you reeling!
The morning after removing the worm, the boy's parent's introduce him to Ursula, their new nanny. Everyone seems to love Ursula, except for the boy. He knows something is not quite right with her. She won over his sister with treats and adoration and his father with too much adoration (complete with some scenes no young boy should ever have to witness his parent doing) all while his mother becomes less present in the home and this is when is nightmare starts to begin...
Sounds unnerving and awesome right?! It really is. Gaiman never lets you down. Gaiman, like in many of his other novels, likes to have mythological connections to his stories because in a way, it keeps them all connected. For example, Lettie, her mother, and her grandmother sound like the triple goddess of mythology: the maiden, the mother and the crone. Equally, Ursula seems to represents the whore. The whole novel seems to revolve around similar dichotomies, such as childhood and adulthood as well as what we perceive as real and what we imagine.
Another interesting item that's worth noting, just off some quick research, apparently some of the incidents in the book are in relation to some experiences that Gaiman had as a child, for example Gaiman's father's car was actually stolen and the thief did commit suicide in it.
This novel is less than 200 pages so it makes for nice quick read and I think you'll find yourself being properly creeped out and just in time for Halloween. You may even find yourself recollecting on your own wacky childhood adventures. A must-read for any adult that still has a child-like spirit.



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