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Jul 09, 2019 01:11PM

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I absolutely loved this book. I had never read it before, but I do remember having to watch the movie when I was in middle school. I loved the complexity of the characters, seeing them grow over a decade or so, and viewing the world through Scarlett's eyes. I also loved how long the book was - I always feel more attached to characters the longer I get to spend with them.
I was a silent participant for this book, but I really enjoy reading everyone's commentary for each section. It really makes you think. I can't wait for the next book! (Also, because I just reread the instructions and I forgot, I'm from West Virginia.)


I definitely agree its a 5 star book. It was my mothers favorite book. She grew up in Mississippi and my sister and I read it when we were about 12 and 11. Mom always quoted from it.
Mom always admired Scarlett as she said she was a "survivor". She was immature but so young. She had enormous courage. I enjoyed the movie which I finally saw when I was about 19 or so but the book is way better as so many interesting details are missing from the movie.
I don't much care if Rhett and Scarlett ever get back together. As Mom said it was realistic book and people often fall out of love or have other problems with each other.



Daphne, thank you for the honest response. I've heard this mentioned many times, the unrealistic portrayal of history, and believe that is why this classic does not show up on reading lists in high schools anymore. It's definitely making me want to look up critiques online to learn and better understand our own history.

I was trying to think of another book where I don't like the main character, but love her like I do Scarlett.. does that make sense? I mean she starts out so whiny and selfish and just NOT someone I would want to be around,, but yet I still just love her..


It is easy to forgot the life’s challenges of our past ancestors. This book is a great reminder of the things others went through to get us to the current days! The hardships & sacrifice is eye opening. Scarlett & Rhett have both gone through a lot. I couldn’t imagine losing a child. Scarlett realizing her love for Rhett & her feelings for Ashely were not what she had thought most of her life. The death of Melanie & her asking Scarlett to look after Ashely & Beau I think really opened Scarlett’s eyes.
Loved the reading challenge over the last couple of months & enjoyed all of the comments.
Thank you for organizing this adventure

It is wonderful to watch all of the characters grow and change over the decade this novel covers. It really helped me to understand how the war and reconstruction shaped and forever changed those in the deep South. Mitchell’s vivid descriptions easily transported me into the setting and added to my appreciation of the book.
At times though, I found myself cringing while reading this book. Although I realize that we need to read it as a period piece, it often was not easy to go beyond my 2019 sensibilities. The descriptions of freed slaves, the apologist attitude for the Klan, the marital rape scene, the fact that a 37ish year old Rhett was pursuing an 18 year old Scarlett. All of these made me cringe and did affect my reading of the novel.
I am from NJ. I followed along with the comments, but didn’t contribute much online. My daughter had reread this book earlier this year, so we ended up having some very interesting conversations along the way.

I absolutely loved this book. I really admired Scarlett's bravery and
I also loved Melly in this book- she had a lot more gumption and guts than Olivia de Havilland's portrayal of her. I loved the scene where Scarlett was crying because she saw girls in pretty dresses riding in a carriage and she had to wear black- Melly and Aunt PP both though she was crying for her husband- she was just being a seventeen year old girl. Some of the attitudes are difficult, but I viewed it as anachronistic-a reflection of attitudes of some people of the time. I have no doubt that Scarlett will win Rhett back in the future. I will read this again but I am sad that I can never read it again for the first time-if that makes sense; there were so many exciting and shocking parts that I know about now. A great, great book.
This book explored crevices of the human condition that I felt were not easily depicted by just judging the cover alone or the books place in pop culture.

The history I think is pretty accurate, so it helps me understand the effect it had on society. Like all great books, there are some things I took to heart, such as "trash come out of de high places, same as de low", "there's as much money to be made from the tearing down of a civilization as there is in building one up," and of course "I won't think about that today, I will think about it tomorrow." But now, I see the rise of the for-profit prisons and I wonder how we came full circle. In this light, I dont see Scarlett as a hero any more. Johnny was right, she might fuss at first, but it was more convenient to ignore. A remarkable book on humans and how they cope and react to what life throws at them.

Though for ppl like me who hated the ending, I just gotta say, I really do think they end up together. Every time Scarlett says she'll think about it in the morning, those things turn out in the end and she succeeds. Also, Tara is like her stronghold, and she can go and sort out her thoughts there. Another thing, he says he'll come back every couple months so that no one will think anything of it and they can keep scandal at bay, so my belief is that she'll slowly but surely win him back.
All that said, I still can't get over Bonnie and that's another reason why it lost a star. If it hadn't been for her, I would have said four stars bc I did really like it - until that point and then I quickly started to hate it. I understand that it was well-written, but that makes it worse bc it makes it believable. I do recognize good writing though and am astonished at how hooked I was from the very first. The writing and the storytelling is either like nothing I've ever heard before or it's just about a time that is so different from mine that it was fascinating. But I loved the writing and it just wouldn't let me stop reading, I got way ahead of the group and had to make myself do other stuff to distract me from thinking about the book - it was unlike any book I've ever read and by now you're probably bored so I'm done! If you want to be discouraged and annoyed, go read the book! It's probably worth it, maybe, I think, I hope?
(edit: first time reading it, btw, I forgot to mention that)
My rating is 5+
I live in Noblesville, IN. I fell in love with all the characters. But, I must admit Captain Butler was my favorite. He was able to transcend between the two societies and still kept his suave and charm. His most amazing triumph was gaining the trust of the Old Guard again which is not an easy task. Beautiful written novel that has every range of emotion of the human experience.
Without this GR group I would not have attempted reading such a giant novel on my own. To know others were reading with me and sharing comments gave me the confidence to take on such a big challenge. Enjoy Reading, 📚
I live in Noblesville, IN. I fell in love with all the characters. But, I must admit Captain Butler was my favorite. He was able to transcend between the two societies and still kept his suave and charm. His most amazing triumph was gaining the trust of the Old Guard again which is not an easy task. Beautiful written novel that has every range of emotion of the human experience.
Without this GR group I would not have attempted reading such a giant novel on my own. To know others were reading with me and sharing comments gave me the confidence to take on such a big challenge. Enjoy Reading, 📚