SOLVED. YA fantasy book read in early 2001

[Jessie]

Fantasy book about two boys eventually become men one s a king conquering the world the other is a wizard. They start off high in mountains saving a caravan, the wizard has a dream or vision about the boy that becomes a king

[Jessie]

Boy thats a wizard discovers he is because he heals a goat, makes little people out if dolls that he makes have sex, wizard and warlord keep falling in love with same woman

[Rainbowheart]

Looks like you found your book?

Wizard of the Winds for the link.