Small problem i have with some books hero pov

[Jane]

I guess im the only adult that is disturbed by it
Im asking about both audio and books ebooks
Is all books with pov of the guy has so many sh** and such in them ?
Im listening to only two so i cant tell
Asuming that romance does newadult is a difrent genre? In heroine pov doesnt have it
Can i also get recomandation for books with both pov in one book and not saparete books