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jay wrote: " What is your favorite thing to do when you’re alone?"eat. honestly, thats all i ever do
jay wrote: " What is your favorite thing to do when you’re alone?"Am I the first one to say the obvious thing?
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jay wrote: " What is your favorite thing to do when you’re alone?"That depends on my mood.... I think I'll go with singing. Too shy otherwise
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jay wrote: " How do you cope in times of distress?"...cope? What is that word? XD
Let's see what I can come up with..
.depends on the situation, the severity, and how long it goes on. If it's a smaller, brief moment I bottle it up and try to block ot all out, but have increased stress. If it's somewhere in the middle I stress like mad, journal if I feel comfortable, listen to music, and usually wind up stress eating and avoiding some tasks.
If it's a large, bad moment of distress I tend to at some point or another have a panic attack, be so stressed I throw my body out of natural cycles, become obsessed with something (which a good chunk of the time could help fix the problem - in part), listen to music and stress eat a lot, and spend time with those who make me happy while avoiding those who add to my stress.
So I guess my coping mechanisms are bottling, eating, music, avoidance, and time with those I love
jay wrote: " How do you cope in times of distress?"I listen to Shadow of Whales and talk to them
jay wrote: " How do you cope in times of distress?"I cry. I cry a lot. I'm not really sure if I'm doing this whole coping thing right, but it's at least somewhat better than dying so there's that.
jay wrote: " How do you cope in times of distress?"different types of distress produce different coping mechanisms. mostly crying. sometimes i blow up on myself.
I hope I don’t come off as rude, but how do I get out of groups?
Watch Netflix to unwind, FRIENDS is a show that really unwinds me because nothing distressing ever happens in the show, except for several pivotal points, everything is pretty smooth. Listening to music or audiobooks really soothes me too, and reading books is obviously great. Watching BookTube videos is something else I love to do.
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What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
I love to watch YouTube, or chill at the cafe with a cup of coffee and a good book/music/audiobook, also hang out with friends. I’m not big on parties, I just like to talk and joke around with friends with some junk food, doing each other’s makeup, or binge watching tv shows on Netflix.
Oh!!!! Of course!! Write poetry too... Silly me...
My favorite? Spend time with my man and the pups. Whether at the dog park, snuggled together during a movie, or just laying down in those hazy moments of waking up. There is a reason I wind up spending more time just relaxing with them than I probably should. Lol
jay wrote: "What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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listen to Shadow of whales XD
jay wrote: "What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
"< Probably watch tv shows or Youtube and reading too of course
Think about world peace and world destruction and like if there's any thing that could technically give us both if you just move a little in some direction, and to find a way to relate it to the stars and just the sky in general.
jay wrote: "What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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Free time? what is that? How does one come about getting some of this free time you speak of? Is is sold on Amazon?
...and apparently you have to be a kid to enjoy it. >.<
My favorite thing to do in my spare time, which isn't often, is that I like to go down to the docks, sit at it's bench then lose myself in time.
jay wrote: "What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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watch vine comps and weird indie movies
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what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
home?
jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
home?
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victoria canada or montana
Mykayla wrote: "maggie wrote: "jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
home?
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victoria canada or montana"
I live in montana! XD
the furthest away I have been was to Washington D.C."
oh my goodness it was so beautiful!
jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
home?
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...that's hard to determine. I have lived in Nevada, Ohio, Vermont, Pennsylvania, and Oregon and have yet to travel abroad. My views on where home is always changing. I think the furthest would have to be Alabama/Florida. Anywhere else would be a place I haven't been to long enough to explore, like airplane stops. Although, to be honest, I think it would truly have to be Oregon when we first moved out here because my man was all the way in Rhode Island and I didn't feel complete until he was here.
jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
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I've lived in Dallas my whole life so I've never really moved, other than moving to a different house, but that's it.
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Hmmm define home. XD either Wisconsin or Illinois cuz I used to live in Wisconsin now I don't
jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?"
Kittery Maine was a pretty far travel for me. And I've been to Massachusetts when I was a tiny little thing.
Kittery Maine was a pretty far travel for me. And I've been to Massachusetts when I was a tiny little thing.
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what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
home?
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i apologize in advance for how deep and depressing this is gonna be.
i’ve never actually been home. home is where you feel comfortable and loved and accepted and honestly? i don’t have that. closest thing i have to it is the internet, honestly. the only place where i’m able to be completely myself. i used to think that home was in the arms of someone i loved, but i was very mistaken. with that being said, i have a literal place to live, but no home. so i suppose that the farthest i’ve ever been from home would be any given spot on the map, because they’re all equally spaced out from nowhere.
jay wrote: "what’s the farthest you’ve ever been from
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HongKong.
East Berlin, East Germany (DDR). 1983.
I live in Canada. I have been nearly around the world however Giza in Egypt is the first city I've been to. I also have also toured to Japan, USA, Germany, Peru, France, Jamaica, England, Greece, Australia, Sweden, China, Tanzania and Chile.
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what’s your second favorite thing to eat?
jay wrote: "what’s your second favorite thing to eat?
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SWEETS
jay wrote: "what’s your second favorite thing to eat?
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chocolate bars
Sweet things, first favorite is salty savory things~ 😋
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