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I think most abused children would have said that at 18. Certainly most abused wives would have.
Our clue as the reader that it was abusive is that every character that knows them thinks she was too hard on Phoebe.

That was really funny.

I just noticed that Sherwood Smith posted a message in " Sylvester Group Read April 2017 Spoilers thread". She's a successful fantasy writer who has a couple of Regency romances that I enjoyed. (But I didn't know of her influences when I started reading Heyer).


I think most..."
i don't think Phoebe was abused. strictly brought up, but that wasn't uncommon in her era. Her stepmother is a hard, cold woman, but Phoebe has been able to please herself as far as her enjoyment of horses and riding goes, has a good relationship with two of her three half sisters, and is fond of her governess. So her life has not been all misery.

I agree that Sylvester isn't rude - he's just very, very detached. It takes a lot to move him out of his aloofness, and it's interesting that those situations which do are those which threaten to involve him in anything that involves "forcing" him to do or think anything that isn't his idea. He takes independence to a new level!

So true! His pride, independence and reserve remind me of my own dear husband, and to some extent our son, so I am prejudiced in his favor. Sylvester is responsible for so many and would never let anyone down because of what he owes his position and family name - but he deeply cares for only a few people, and would do anything for those he loves.*sigh*

Well, as long as you're in the inner circle... But, seriously, I do know what you mean!

And as he told Tom later, "what she said to Lady Marlow I shall always be happy to think I was privileged to hear!" Sounds like "the day my mama socked it to the Harper Valley PTA" --doesn't it? LOL!
When Sylvester catches up with Tom & Phoebe at the Blue Boar, though, I kind of hate him -- first of all for telling Phoebe, thoughtlessly but unkindly, that her mother is with him -- scares that poor girl half to death. He doesn't notice Keighley's illness until Phoebe points it out to him, which makes him angry with himself. And that leads to him being angry with her.
This is really the first strong emotion we see from Sylvester -- I'm fascinated, on this reading, to see the way his character is developed and revealed, and not always in a flattering way. He is absolutely furious with Phoebe -- not just for turning up her nose at him, but for pointing out his own selfishness.
It's telling that none of his five finalists in the marriage pageant spur any strong reaction, but Phoebe -- now, she gets him all riled up. So much so that he determines to "teach Miss Marlow a lesson. ... Something of greater importance than his consequence had been hurt."
A little foreshadowing, methinks, in his spiteful assessment of her as "a little too cock-sure ... but let us see if you can be made to feel sorry!"

LOL! ;-)

Yes! And the reference to the whippings she received. Was that common for girls in this era?

Tom is a great friend to Phoebe. He's not the type of man I'd want to marry but he is a supportive friend. I wonder if he really would marry Phoebe if push came to shove?

Yes! I loved that Sylvester didn't leave the room - he had had such an awful time with the Marlows that he was ready to throw his manners out the window!

Are you thinking of the one I cited @6, about him having been given good principles but left to follow them in pride and conceit?

It's so relatable because we've all experienced those horrid dinner parties or weekends with in-laws or holidays with extended family where you just want to hop in your curricle in the middle of a snowstorm and get as far away as possible.

Yes! And the reference to the whippings she received. Was that co..."
yes, corporal punishment was very common for boys and girls in this era. No doubt phoebe's half sisters were whipped as well.

I like Tom much better than Sylvester, I wish he had been the hero.


It's..."
Oh Lord yes! And not lose a wheel off of your curricle or end up in a snowdrift or creepy haunted inn...

Agreed - Tom would be a pleasure to know, but Sir Nugent, yikes!

He was a great gun, wasn't he? My admiration for him grew throughout the story, and I kept thinking the Squire and his mum must be really wonderful parents to turn out such a decent, kind, smart, good-natured son (besides thinking I'd love to share a glass of wine with Tom's mom after she tore a strip off the Marlows!)
I like how Tom and Sylvester bonded over the mere thought of disappointing their fathers, in Tom's case, because Trusty and True were injured; words were barely needed, the reader knows that neither father was a "Bad Man", but the two sons would sooner cut off a limb than disappoint their father! Quite a tribute.

Phoebe, however, has no such deviousness in mind. She's just being intentionally provocative in putting down Sylvester's pretensions, because she can. And she clearly enjoys it. You go, girl.

Phoebe treats Sylvester like she's a Duchess and he's a lesser person. I think he is surprised but kind of likes it much like Darcy likes how Lizzie is "impertinent" with him.
(I'm on chapter 10 so far).

I love how surreal the whole experience at the Marlowe's was for Sylvester. And the moment Phoebe looks at him and says, "I haven't any conversation,"--that's it. That's the moment the hook went in; he just didn't know it yet. It reminds me of that moment in the Pride and Prejudice mini-series when Elizabeth walks past Darcy with the ghost of a smile on her lips after he's rejected the idea of dancing with her. That's the moment he learns that she's not like the others.


This is so exactly it, and it is what begins to give him a glimpse of what his behavior looks like to those around him. Despite Burns' words, "to see ourselves as others see us" is not always gratifying.
Phoebe's casual critiques of his behavior are, at this point, expected. But he is genuinely taken aback when he "realised, with a slight shock, that [Tom] was trying to prevent the Squire's being wounded by a snub. ... he wondered now if it could be true that he, who prided himself on his good manners, appeared to others to be insufferably high in the instep."
The hook is in, as Cindy says -- love it! -- and now it's twisting.

This is so exactly it, and it is what begins to give him a glimpse of what his behavior looks like to thos..."
Yes! Very affecting scene with Tom and the squire, especially when we know Sylvester held his own father in such great high esteem and loved him dearly.


Timothy Dalton could have done it forty years ago.




She has them share their senses of humor.
That has the added benefit in that we are also sharing the humor, even when it might not have been directly funny (as in spending too much money for a horse).

And oh, how I adore Lady Ingham. Just the fact that she only ever refers to Phoebe's stepmother as That Woman is all it takes to win me over.
She is sharp as a tack, too, and sees what Sylvester's game is: "whether it had been with the intention of punishing Phoebe rather than her grandmother that Sylvester had sent her up to London."

She has them share their senses of humor.
That has the added benefit in that we are also sharing the humor"
Oh, yes. That's crucial in a marriage. It makes me think that must have been something that Georgette Heyer shared with her husband, because it is such a joy and a comfort to know that, when something makes you laugh, your loved one will find it funny too.
We see it in A Civil Contract, with (view spoiler)
I'm reminded, too, of Anne Shirley, in Lucy Maud Montgomery's Anne of the Island, who (view spoiler)

She has them share their senses ..."
Yes! I think all readers relate to that - when the H and h share a sense of humor, you somehow feel it'll all work out, no matter what the social difficulties or conflicts in their way.

She has them shar..."
Years ago, a large group of us marrieds answered the question, "What is the one thing which you appreciate in your spouse?", and when I replied, "His sense of humor" you could have heard a pin drop. Everyone else was ever so much more romantic, but the truth is I value laughing more than anything else.

I completely agree. Heyer nails that in Venetia when Venetia is telling Damerel how bereft her life has been of companionship in laughter. She has people who love her, who are kind to her, but no one who shares her sense of humor. When she laughs at something, no one else gets the joke. It's one of those things you take for granted unless you don't have it. Then you realize how vitally important it is.

Yes! And when Adam and Jenny start to share funny things in A Civil Contract, you realize (with relief!) that things are looking up. Humor is necessary - unless, of course, you don't have any and then it's just perplexing...

She has them share funny things in A Civil Contract..."
Another one is Black Sheep





Still reading myself, Anne (I've had a lot of other books interrupt me. Terribly rude.), so you're not alone!
P.S. The only reason I've let them interrupt is that I have read Sylvester before and I didn't want to rush it this time!
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He's very like Darcy in Pride & Prejudice, isn't he? The same age, too!
And he doesn't think he's rude, because, really, he isn't. He just assumes that what he wants is what's going to happen. You can definitely see that in his meetings with both his godmother and with Marlow, and I find both interactions entertaining for that very reason. He has set up this plan and how it is supposed to play out, and then it's supposed to happen just like that. He is annoyed at his godmother because "she was not playing the game as he had planned it ... she ought to know that hers was not the first trap set for him." Marlow elicits the same reaction by making the purpose of Sylvester's visit so obvious -- although, to give him credit, Sylvester realizes that he has set himself up for that.
Despite only meeting him a few times, Phoebe has his measure: "so sure of his consequence that he never thinks of it." She & the Duchess see the same thing -- which tells us that (1) writers are smart! and (2) (view spoiler)[they both care (hide spoiler)].