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I really enjoy the way Woolf describes people. I just loved this, about Mrs Hilbery: "She was a remarkable looking woman, well advanced in the sixties, but owing to the lightness of her frame and the brightness of her eyes she seemed to have been wafted over the surface of the years without taking much harm in the passage." Wonderful!
What do people think about Ralph? He seems to me to have something of a chip on his shoulder about class - for example in chapter IV, he says "I think you make a system of saying disagreeable things, Miss Hilberry. I suppose it's one of the characteristics of your class. They never talk seriously to their inferiors." I don't think Katharine had been treating him as an inferior!
I like Mary a lot. I love that she is darning stockings at the same time as doing her work. She seems such a sensible and capable figure!

I am not sure that I think they have deliberately limited Katharine's life. It seems it may be simply who they are, and how they are living their lives. In a way, it seems that her parents are weak individuals, both relying upon Katharine. While her mother needs Katharine to help her stay focused, her father leaves it to Katharine to tell her mother about "Cyril's misbehavior." I am wondering if Katharine feels stuck until something better comes along to change her circumstances, even if it might not be what she truly wants; and I am thinking she does not know what she truly wants.

I really enjoy the way Woolf describes people. I j..."
Mary is a good character, one who lives her life according to her circumstances at the time: when she is at the office, she is working; and when she is at home, she is at home tending to those things, such as darning socks or entertaining guests.

"They both looked out of the window, first up at the hard silver moon, stationary among a hurry of little grey-blue clouds, then down upon the roofs of London, with all their upright chimneys, and then below them at the empty moonlit pavement of the street, upon which the joint of each paving-stone was clearly marked out. Mary saw Katharine raise her eyes again to the moon, with a contemplative look in them, as though she were setting that moon against the moon of other nights, held in memory."So far, I find I am much more interested in this friendship than that with either of the men. Mary is very interested in who Katharine is, while Ralph's "will-power was rigidly set upon a single object--that Miss Hilbery should obey him." Ouch!

About Ralph, for some reason I am picturing him like the character Gordon Comstock in George Orwell's Keep the Aspidistra Flying. He has an edge but I like him a lot.
I like them all, actually! I thought this bit tells us so much about Mary:
“She was robbing no one of anything, and yet, to get so much pleasure from simple things, such as eating one’s breakfast alone in a room which had nice colours in it, clean from the skirting of the boards to the corners of the ceiling, seemed to suit her so thoroughly that she used at first to hunt about for someone to apologize to, or for some flaw in the situation.”
I get the feeling we'll be exploring feminism with Katharine's still-living-at-home character. I like Kimberley's comment above about it being just the way they are, and Katharine not knowing what she wants. I agree!
So excited to continue reading this. (Just running very short on time lately!)

About Ralph, for some reason I am picturing him like the character Gordon Co..."
I like Ralph, as well. He seems to me to be trying to find himself as well. He lives at home with his family, but I get the impression he wants to find himself as well. And, aren't we all at that age, truly? But, I do not think we always realize that that is what we are doing while we are in the middle of things. And, some of us make hasty decisions that affect the rest of our lives. I am looking forward to learning how these characters work things out.

For example the first sentence, "It was a Sunday evening in October, and in common with many other young ladies of her class, Katharine Hilbery was pouring out tea. Perhaps a fifth part of her mind was thus occupied." That just sets the scene so beautifully!
Or the satire of, "It may be said, indeed, that English society being what it is, no very great merit is required, once you bear a well-known name, to put you into a position where it is easier on the whole to be eminent than obscure."
And then this ironical summation of so many women's lives, "Katharine, thus, was a member of a very great profession which has, as yet, no title and very little recognition, although the labor of mill and factory is, perhaps, no more severe and the results of less benefit to the world. She lived at home."
And then the revelation of her shameful secret love, "she rose early in the morning or sat up late at night to . . . work at mathematics." The horror!
I think I am absolutely going to love this! It's delicious!

And the description of the guy lecturing about metaphor was really funny! And I also loved this line: "for beneath all her education she preserved the anxieties of one who owns china."

It's fun not knowing what will come next, but I suspect the underlying theme of the role of women in pre-suffrage England will continue. I'm absolutely delighted with this so far.

Loved this Mrs. Hilbery line from the end of this section:
“’What is nobler,’ she mused, turning over the photographs, ‘than to be a woman to whom every one turns, in sorrow or difficulty? How have the young women of your generation improved upon that, Katharine? … But they did more than we do, I sometimes think. They were, and that’s better than doing.’”



Yes. Water literally flows through the imagery . Both Katharine and Ralph are in love with an imaginary person, but Katharine's lover has no particular object, while Ralph is dreaming of an imaginary Katharine: "...he had been much at the mercy of a phantom Katharine, who came to him when he sat alone, and answered him as he would have her answer, .."