SOLVED. YA book about Jamie who lived in a conservative rural town [s]

[Lori]

I'm looking for a YA contemporary I read in high school, which was 2000-04. It was about a girl named Jamie who lived in a conservative rural town with her grandparents or aunt and uncle. They turned out to be her actual parents but I think she had been led to believe they were other relatives. Anyway, they die and she finds out she has an older brother also named Jamie who had been thrown out for being gay. He is now a male nurse living with his boyfriend. The book might've had "Jamie" in the title.

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Is it Looking for Jamie Bridger?

[Lori]

That's it! Thanks!