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A THOUSAND SPLENDID SUNS (JUNE 2016)



Happy reading to all and yes, I'm really happy that this was chosen as the month's group read :D

like in his previous novels the author depicts afghanistan in a way we cannot imagine it being like that. similar to his previous novels he merges fact with fiction beautifully.
I highly recommend this book and khaled hosseini's other works,
"kite runner" is one of my personal favorites.



I just got to the part where Rasheed is seeking an answer from Laila for his proposition that he sent through Mariam and I feel sick in my stomach - somewhere behind his charitable facade, I just feel that he is mocking her helplessness (something that he did with Mariam too). It isn't the paedophilia that bothers me as much (it may be acceptable in certain cultures and we see examples of it within terror groups too) - it's his intention that irks me. It looks more like spiting Mariam (view spoiler) than be empathetic toward Laila (like I said, mocking her situation). I feel gutted for Mariam, she barely found any happiness in her life and marriage (view spoiler) and now she has to face this.
I presumed that Laila would protest at the preposterous idea but she seems to have other ideas (view spoiler) (that's where I left off today morning).

...I hope that she has a mighty good reason to go ahead with this decision t..."
Oh, she does. You should have read just a few more pages.
Anyway, I felt the same, sickened by the idea, while I was reading the part where he marries Laila just to give him another son. Now I am starting to get the true meaning of it when Nana had said: "Women like us. We endure. It's all we have."
At this point, I am 60% done(view spoiler) .

Wise old Nana :( My heart goes out to her :(

Yes. I couldn't guess it at the time. So, I was confused when she agreed. I thought she was taking the easy way out.
And although, I empathize with Nana, I agree with Mullah Faizullah when he had said to Mariam: "Your mother, may Allah forgive her, was a troubled and unhappy woman."
But we should not blame her. It was natural because of the things she has experienced.

I guessed that reason because Laila was getting sick so often. Her love story was something else altogether *reminiscing the good times*.
I never liked Laila's mother.:/
I understand whatever happened was bad but you don't stop living for dead. She had a living child with her and she kept living for dead.
Forgot the gender of laila's first child. Was it a girl?
I just loved Mariam. Living in fear of husband, suffering so many miscarriages and yet she accepts Laila not in her home but also in her heart. Shd was hesitant and hated Laila first but slowly she saw that Laila is not better than her own. They both were suffering and became sisters in their pain.
I understand whatever happened was bad but you don't stop living for dead. She had a living child with her and she kept living for dead.
Forgot the gender of laila's first child. Was it a girl?
I just loved Mariam. Living in fear of husband, suffering so many miscarriages and yet she accepts Laila not in her home but also in her heart. Shd was hesitant and hated Laila first but slowly she saw that Laila is not better than her own. They both were suffering and became sisters in their pain.

No, I think what he said was not just to relieve Mariam of her feeling guilty. I think it true was of Nana's character. But as I said, she should not be blamed for the way she was.

I understand whatever happened..."
On the other hand, her father was very nice, always having positive attitude, stressing on his daughter's education. (view spoiler) It seems like all the good characters are suffering here.
And you guessed it right. Laila's first child was a girl.


All good things must come to an end.

That stupid brother ditcher at the bus stop - how could he do this to Laila and Mariam? They could have run off by now had he not told on them :-x
Ankit wrote: "Sharadha wrote: "I am LOVING the interaction between Mariam and Aziza and Laila and Mariam's chai nights :D Can this happy phase stay for just a little longer???? *mouths a silent prayer*"
All goo..."
so do the the bad things!:)
All goo..."
so do the the bad things!:)

who is Aziza? I forgot."
Laila's first daughter - she is a sweetheart <3

Yes, so do the bad things.
I remembered that line from Breaking Bad. :)
Ankit wrote: "Manju wrote:"so do the the bad things!."
Yes, so do the bad things.
I remembered that line from Breaking Bad. :)"
I love that show!:D
Yes, so do the bad things.
I remembered that line from Breaking Bad. :)"
I love that show!:D

That stupid brother ditcher at the bus stop - how could he do this to Laila and Mariam? They could have run off by now..."
What a sick mindset that women should always be accompanied by men. There is no shred of logic in that
Also, the laws enforced by Taliban were ludicrous.


Yes, so do the bad things.
I remembered that line from Breaking Bad. :)"
I love that show!:D"
It is THE BEST tv show.
If you liked it, you should also watch the spin-off series Better Call Saul.

I wonder.
Reading such books and watching such films makes us realize that we have much to be thankful for.

I didn't like Hosseini squeezing in bin Laden and 9/11 in the end though, feels a kind of a stretch as I near the last two chapters.
On a lighter note, how much fun was Titanic-mania? :D :D :D :D :D

I love this book, don't get me wrong. But I am not up for a re-read.

Did it really came to be called as Titanic city?

But the game involves only male names. Because, if it's a girl, Laila has already named her.
Salud, Hosseini \m/

Did it really came to be called as Titanic city?"
Check this out, Ankit - http://www.news24.com/xArchive/Archiv... :P Even rice is called Titanic these days hahahahahahaha xD
Found many more such articles lol



While reading the book, we utilise this thread to discuss it for the course of the month it's won. After reading the book, we vote for the Book of the Month for next month :D
If you finish it within the month, then you can pick up any of the other challenges (pick-it-for-me, for example) or buddy read with other members on the group :) Hope this helps, Arun.
Oh, welcome to the group!

Okay. Thanks Sharadha.

I guess that was THE ONLY way she could fight back in the situation. Did she really have any other option?

If not for the Taliban, she would have had many options :( Laila could have saved her as a witness.

They believed her when she said that she killed her husband but didn't (want to?) believe the part where she explained why she did it. I doubt that the Taliban would have admitted Laila's testimony. They seem to do what they want to do.
Mariam's objective was to keep Laila out of it. It was heart breaking for us, but she was satisfied with it: knowing that Laila and her children would be safe for the rest of their lives with Tariq in Pakistan.
And yes, that was the best closing line.


Besides all this Hosseini has subtly dealt with process the rise of extremism in the face of war... first the Mujaheddin and then Taliban... perhaps the seeds of inhumanity lies dormant inside. I see here a theme of self vs the other... first the Mujaheddin vs. the Soviets... then between the different factions of Mujaheddin then the refugees rising against the oppression of war by the Mujaheddin. Obviously in all of this the classes to suffer the most is that of the women who are suppressed under each of these groups.
This is a slice of life and history and the sad part is that as of now the condition remains the same if only the names differ perhaps, regions, languages differ but the stories of so many millions of women remains the same.


I know, the fourth book seemed a little useless to me, Hosseini could have utilised all those pages to describe Mariam and Laila's bond in some more depth.
We are starting the group read for June.
I had read this book as soon as it was released. Couldn't resist a mint new copy seen at the Bangalore Bus stand book vendor shop, and this was even before I came to know of Khaled Hosseini or his writings.
And remember finishing it off in 2-3 longish stretches. It was very heartwarming and touching.
So am glad that this was chosen as group read for June, and those who have not read it yet, will be motivated to read.
BLURB
Born a generation apart and with very different ideas about love and family, Mariam and Laila are two women brought jarringly together by war, by loss and by fate. As they endure the ever escalating dangers around them—in their home as well as in the streets of Kabul—they come to form a bond that makes them both sisters and mother-daughter to each other, and that will ultimately alter the course not just of their own lives but of the next generation.