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~the sea does not like to be restrained (Kavi's journal)~
because i'm in love with her, rn. it's not romantic tho, but it's still strong. i've got so much strong feelings for her.
I am so happy for you because you deserve the best! But I'm also jealous of you 😅Oh, and hey - I think there should be more books, stories and movies with the concept of being in love without it being romantic!
Hallie wrote: "I am so happy for you because you deserve the best! But I'm also jealous of you 😅Oh, and hey - I think there should be more books, stories and movies with the concept of being in love without it ..."
thank you so much!!!
i agree!!!
i hate that society made it seem like the concept of being "in love with someone" is only a romantic thing.it's not. i'm in a queerplatonic relationship with kat (that's her name), and i am in love with her. there is no romance between us, and i have no romantic feelings, as i don't experience romantic attraction. but my feelings for kat, is just as strong.
we've only been in a relationship for 3 weeks, but i love her so much, and it feels right.
Alex ~They/them~ ~Annabeth Chase and Alex Fierro are the best~ wrote: "i hate that society made it seem like the concept of being "in love with someone" is only a romantic thing.it's not. i'm in a queerplatonic relationship with kat (that's her name), and i am in lo..."
Exactly! People have got to realize that!
Agggh but you have no idea how warm these posts make me feel!!! xP She's a lucky girl :)
Hallie wrote: " Alex ~They/them~ ~Annabeth Chase and Alex Fierro are the best~ wrote: "i hate that society made it seem like the concept of being "in love with someone" is only a romantic thing.it's not. i'm in..."
exactly!!!
ily
like my relationship does have the same elements that romantic relationships have. it's just without the romantic part.
i hate when people say there's difference between "i'm in love" "i love you" as if one is romantic and other is platonic because i feel like it just makes platonic love seem lesser than romantic. a lot of people think platonic love is lesser but it's not. platonic love is just as strong as romantic love is??
What's with the question marks? You're right.
Alex ~They/them~ ~Annabeth Chase and Alex Fierro are the best~ wrote: "i hate when people say there's difference between "i'm in love" "i love you" as if one is romantic and other is platonic because i feel like it just makes platonic love seem lesser than romantic. a..."YESSSSS OMG YESSSS
tbh I feel like that's the kind of relationship I actually wanted with that one girl I told I loved her and she disappeared. But I feel like because society makes it feel like we can only have romantic relationships that neither of us realized it
Erin wrote: "tbh I feel like that's the kind of relationship I actually wanted with that one girl I told I loved her and she disappeared. But I feel like because society makes it feel like we can only have roma..."yeah, i agree :(
society sucks, but after i realized i'm aro, i felt so free, and even tho.i don't experience romantic attraction, i still experience other types of love, and they are so strong. my feelings for kat is strong, even tho there is no romance between us.
i hate that i thought i had romantic feelings for jon, for so long, for like 2 years (i think) until i realized that i didn't experience romantic attraction towards him, or anyone, and i only realized that 5 months ago. and i'm aromantic. but it was something else that i felt towards him.
the thing is, i liked hugging, cuddling, holding hands, and i also felt alterous attraction (which is the grey area between platonic and romantic attraction) but i thought i could only have those in romantic relationships because you know, how society is with friends that are of different genders.
i just, i wish i could take all those years, that i thought i had romantic feelings towards him, back.
lmao i really went the most of my senior year, and a few years after that, stressing, because of the feelings that i thought i had for him, feelings that never really existed, because i'm not even romantically or sexually attracted to guys, or anyone!!!
i can't believe i used to think we were romantic soulmates and that we were "meant to be" when i'm not even attracted to him.
also, i just wanna say that the lgbtqia+ community isn't just homosexuals, it's more than just homosexuals.i'm a member of the lgbtqia+ community, but i'm not romantically or sexually attracted to the same gender (or anyone).
i'm aromantic and asexual and nonbinary.
wow, angels really are real.
i know, because kat is an angel.
i am not a girl!!!! i am NONBINARY!
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my parents don't know i'm nonbinary, but when they call me a girl, it makes me feel....dysphoric.
i wanna know why jon came in my dreams last night, he'd come in my dreams multiple times. like there's nothing about it being romantic- but is this a sign we need to talk or-
i've been in a relationship for 2 months (our 2 month anniversary is on sunday)? i'm so happy!!!
Heyyy Alex! (Kavy! :-P) It's me, Albus! Remember me??? It's been yearsssss
Jon wrote: "Heyyy Alex! (Kavy! :-P) It's me, Albus! Remember me??? It's been yearsssss"oh, hey!!! it's been so long!!!!
also, hi, i keep disappearing.
i've just, i've been more active on twitter. but i do miss you all
one of the best days of my life.
you know why?
i don't think i'm as big of fan of harry potter anymore, sorry.
percy jackson on the other hand.....i'm still as into it, and always will be because pjo is very special to me.
i'm not very good at talking about my feelings but- i love her
i wanna hug her and cuddle her so badly.
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you can be in love with someone, without being it romantic, and it is a really amazing feeling.
i speak from experience.