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Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "also someone on twitter asked if we can have a relationship without sex"and some ppl are like no, because that's just a friendship, and apparently sex is vital
I said yes, because relationships are more than just sex
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "I said yes, because relationships are more than just sex"
preaaach
I'm just going to say this if your relationship is just about sex I don't think it's a healthy relationship, because a healthy relationship is more about trust and loyalty and commitment, and communication and honesty and other stuff, if you want to have sex you can, as long as you're not forcing anyone to have it, but if you don't want to have sex then you don't have to
these days society tends to glorify sex and romance and apparently sex has to happen in a relationship
but tbh no sex and romance aren't important
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "but tbh no sex and romance aren't important"at least not for everyone
I love romance but I don't mind waiting
i think one of the reasons that sex is being glorified is because women are finally starting to get the sexual liberation that they have been fighting for. women aren't getting judged as much for being a so-called "slut" or "whore" and they are allowed to be as sexually active as they want. unfortunately, this has started a trend of women not accepting people who don't feel the same way.
maggie wrote: "i think one of the reasons that sex is being glorified is because women are finally starting to get the sexual liberation that they have been fighting for. women aren't getting judged as much for b..."that is true but it's not just women it's guys too
because it's expected for guys to want to have sex, it's expected for guys to not have feelings because it makes them "less manly" but tbh guys are allowed to have feelings too and they are allowed to not want to have sex, and there are asexual and aromantic guys too
like not all guys are bad and not all girls are good, I know some guys that are actually really sweet and kind and nice, and I love them so much
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "maggie wrote: "i think one of the reasons that sex is being glorified is because women are finally starting to get the sexual liberation that they have been fighting for. women aren't getting judge..."
oh absolutely, i just mentioned women because men have been more forgiven by society in the past for their sexual apathy.
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "like not all guys are bad and not all girls are good, I know some guys that are actually really sweet and kind and nice, and I love them so much"Jonathan included and the shadow of whales guys included as well, they are all honestly some of the sweetest ppl I ever met and they've been nothing but so kind and nice and caring to me. And I love them all so much
maggie wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "maggie wrote: "i think one of the reasons that sex is being glorified is becau..."yeah....this society is so judgmental and terrible like girls are shamed for their bodies and how they dress and how they act and behave like no matter what they do they are judged by ppl but guys? they don't get shamed by their terrible actions,
E *I tried being resonable I didnt like it* wrote: "And im completely ignored...."
Hey there lol
Hey there lol
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "maggie wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "maggie wrote: "i think one of the reasons that sex is being glo..."I mean guys are judged by society too everyone is judged by society, but I'm talking about the guys that do really bad things
E *I tried being resonable I didnt like it* wrote: "Hey whats up im just gonna join the convo whatcha doin?"E *I tried being resonable I didnt like it* wrote: "And im completely ignored...."
Hey, sorry, I'm just ranting about society
also another thing, straight and cis ppl are accepted by default in society, but LGBTQ+ ppl have to face so much
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "also another thing, straight and cis ppl are accepted by default in society, but LGBTQ+ ppl have to face so much"and this includes aces and Aros because they don't have it easy either
like straight and cis ppl don't have to come out but LGBTQ+ do?
straight ppl are allowed to love who ever they want to without being judged but lgbtq+ ppl? nope. they get killed they get judged they get bullied just for loving whoever they love
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "straight ppl are allowed to love who ever they want to without being judged but lgbtq+ ppl? nope. they get killed they get judged they get bullied just for loving whoever they love"and again this includes aces and aros
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "straight ppl are allowed to love who ever they want to without being judged bu..."because they get shit for not having sexual or romantic attraction because sex and romance is glorified
Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvba..."also I only cuss when I am upset or really pissed off
E *I tried being resonable I didnt like it* wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "E *I tried being resonable I didnt like it* wrote: "Hey whats up im just gonna..."society being really terrible and judgemental and stuff
also non binary ppl are important too
and girls and boys are expected to like certain things, like makeup and nail polish and dresses are seen as girly and boys are expected to be seen with boy stuff but tbh all clothes are gender neutral and makeup should be gender neutral too
guys can wear dresses or things that are seen as feminine
also I've seen a few ppl say "I'm not homophobic but I constantly see lgbtq+ stuff shoved in my faces everywhere" on twitter, but yet every day and everywhere we see straight couples, on tv, in books, irl.
we need some LGBTQ+ representation too. we should be able to love who ever we want without getting judged too!! we are ppl too!!
also some ppl say "we're too young to know we're lgbtq+" but yet we're not to young to know we're straight?
I grew up thinking that I was straight even tho I was actually asexual, and I've always been asexual
you can't choose your sexuality it doesn't work like that
Sorry I'm remembering that one episode of friends where everybody finds out Phoebe is married to a gay man so he could get his green card, and he asks for a divorce because he's not actually gay and he's been drunkily sleeping with women and he was like "I thought it was because I was drunk. But it was just an excuse. I'm straight." And Phoebe was like, "Have you come out yet?"
"No, i havent. But my brother is straight so my family should accept it."
Regina •• going through changes wrote: ""No, i havent. But my brother is straight so my family should accept it.""Regina •• going through changes wrote: "Sorry I'm remembering that one episode of friends where everybody finds out Phoebe is married to a gay man so he could get his green card, and he asks for a divorce because he's not actually gay an..."
omg this is amazing
there is an LGBTQ+ club at my college tomorrow on Thursdays and I wanna go so bad but my parents won't let me
yay I asked ppl to call me they/them on twitter, even tho I already had my pronouns on my bio
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Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "I said yes, because relationships are more than just sex"Love and lust are two different things hahaha
¢нιкσяιтα-яανєη wrote: "Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "I said yes, because relationships are more than just sex"Love and lust are t..."
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I thought I accidentally found you on twitter until I realized the person's name was Elliot XD
Regina •• going through changes wrote: "I thought I accidentally found you on twitter until I realized the person's name was Elliot XD"omg XD
Regina •• going through changes wrote: "I thought I accidentally found you on twitter until I realized the person's name was Elliot XD"what's your twitter
Regina •• going through changes wrote: "@reginaawohletz"I couldn't find you
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Shadow of Alex ~They/them~ (The Phoenix Reincarnated) (Shadow of Whales) (Bvbarmy) (aa family) (Royal council) wrote: "also someone on twitter asked if we can have a relationship without sex"
what a dodo.