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Jun 23, 2017 07:07PM
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does this count as a "date" or just hanging out? idk
I searched up "how to tell if its "hanging out" or a "date"" on google, and I found thisThe Characteristics Of A Date:
1. Someone asks someone out in advance. It doesn’t matter who does the asking, or how, but someone does it. And more than 30 minutes in advance. Let’s say at least 24-hours in advance just to be safe. There is an agreed up day and time for said date. Maybe there are no exact plans until the day of, but you know that on Thursday night after work you and Joe or you and Jane are going to spend time together. That’s a date.
2. You go somewhere. It doesn’t matter who plans it. If Joe comes up with a plan or if you do or if you and Jane collaborate, but you plan to do something together. This could be as simple as getting a cup of coffee, or it could be as elaborate as taking a flying trapeze lesson. I did that on a date once. Really fun!! IMO, a date must include a shared activity for it to be a date.
3. You are alone, just the two of you. Unless it’s a polyamorous type of situation, or you agreed upon it in advance, there should only be two people on the date. Not the two of you and his college buddies. Just you and him or you and her being alone together doing something at an agreed upon time. That’s a date!
What You Can Expect Of A Date:
Well, not much really, I’m sad to say. People can be weird. But I think it’s safe to expect that when going on a date both of you are there to see whether or not a romantic connection exists between you. That’s about all.
The Characteristics Of A Non-Date:
1. Hanging out happens spontaneously, or last minute. No one asked anyone. You had not planned to be together, but rather ended up together. You met at a club in Williamsburg. You ran into each other at a party. You got a late-night text asking, “Sup?” And now you are together.
2. There are more than two people. If he invited you and all your friends back to his place for some whiskey and mac n’ cheese, it’s most definitely a non-date. I once found myself on a date that turned into a non-date the minute he told me all of his friends were meeting us at the concert. I went home pretty soon after that.
3. You’ve don’t leave the person’s apartment or dorm room. If the plan for your date was to go over to one of your places and cook dinner and watch a movie, fine. But if you are invited over to someone’s place to hang out and don’t leave or do anything, that’s a non-date.
4. It’s presented as a professional exchange. If colleague/co-worker/friend asks you to get together to talk business, that’s a non-date. It could turn into a date if both people want it to turn into a date, but it’s not presumed. You are there to talk about business until notified otherwise.
What You Can Expect Of A Non-Date:
Nothing. Seriously. Nada. You should not assume that there is any romantic future awaiting you on your non-date. Could romance evolve? Sure. But really, don’t expect it. More likely scenarios to evolve from a non-date scenario: hookups, FWBs, friendships, work connections.
http://www.thefrisky.com/2013-01-22/d...
I'm nervous about Thursday I know I shouldn't be nervous because it's Jonathan, my best friend, someone that cares for me and loves me for ME, and he knows I'm awkward and he is still my best friend
I know Jonathan is not on GR yet but I just feel like saying this
Dear Jonathan,Thank you for being my best friend, and staying my friend despite my awkwardness and thank you for caring for me, and for not leaving me.
I love you,
Kavya
it means a lot to me, even if we're just best friends rn it still means a lot to me, because he is my world
yesterday I was worrying about Jonathan just liking me as a friend
I love hanging out with Jonathan I love talking to him
and while I was thinking that what if about Jon just liking me as a friend....
my gut feelings: omg Kavya I swear to god, DO YOU NOT SEE IT, DO YOU NOT SEE THE WAY HE SMILES AT YOU AND LOOKS AT YOU, HE LOVES YOU
see the thing is sometimes I can tell if Jon as feelings for me but sometimes it's hard to tell
idk I'm kind of blinded to love, like it's hard to see if ppl love me or not. like REALLY love me without faking it
but Jon kind of opened my eyes a little
then again in the last couple of pics I had with Jon whether it was a group pic or just me and Jon I either had my arm around him or both arms around him or an arm on his shoulder and he didn't say anything he just let me
I noticed that a couple of times when he looked at me, I saw his eyes, the way he looked at me, it's the way he looked at me when we were together I think
when he hugged me he hugs me tightly against his body with my body against his.
I had another dream about baking and I wanted to bake double chocolate chip cookies
also that spider in my room is scaring me
so I'm thinking of baking either cookies or brownies
which one should I bake? cookies or brownies
and if I were to bake cookies, what cookies should I bake?-Chocolate chip cookies
-Double Chocolate chip
-Sugar
-Ginger
-Snickerdoodles
-White chocolate macadamia
-Oatmeal raisin
-Peanut butter
-Macaroons
I just texted Jon making sure that we are going to Round one
also its a good laptop but I can't run any softwares on here and it sucks for gaming
I can play games on here but not the really good games
You will meet your celebrity crush.You might be a blabbering idiot, or you might somehow be totally calm and collected. Either way, it’s going to be an experience you remember forever. Remember to snap a picture!
well I am going to be meeting Andy next month O_O
❄️Princess Kavy of BVBarmy/Books/Music ❄️~Maybe they'll leave you alone, but not me~ wrote: "You will meet your celebrity crush.
You might be a blabbering idiot, or you might somehow be totally calm and collected. Either way, it’s going to be an experience you remember forever. Remember ..."
I'll remember that when I meet my celebrity crushes. (Michael Tait, Tom Hiddleston, Chris Hemsworth, and others...)
You might be a blabbering idiot, or you might somehow be totally calm and collected. Either way, it’s going to be an experience you remember forever. Remember ..."
I'll remember that when I meet my celebrity crushes. (Michael Tait, Tom Hiddleston, Chris Hemsworth, and others...)
I made group chats for the members of the BVBarmy on both twitter and Insta
oh wait my mom bought cookies from costco yesterday cause I asked for sweets XD but I also want to make cookies XD
Jon got his first Job!! I'm so proud of him!!
I wanna go visit him at his work someday XD
I think I'm gonna make snickerdoodles because I already have chocolate chip cookies from costco
now I can't choose between double chocolate chips or snickerdoodles
maybe I'll make Snickerdoodles now and then double chocolate chips some other time
I wanna bring Jon some cookies that I made but idk if he likes snickerdoodles
I know he does like cookies not as much as me tho ;)
I might bake tomorrow because I still need some ingredients and my parents are busy
the bvb army group chats are fun
my bvb army friends and I are doing a fanfic in the group chat on Insta, and it's fun so I'm Andy's little sis and I have a niece
I'm gonna pretend that I'm married to Jon in the fanfic or am dating him idk
it's personal
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