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message 101: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Arch wrote: "God is a he."

we will have to agree to disagree...not going to even debate this...i don't even debate it in divinity school...however anyone sees God all good...God is changeable to me.


message 102: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Eugenia wrote: "Only two, I got back and forth on trying to start a PhD program for business, I like to teach. Heck I just like school if I could go for the rest of my life and just take stuff I wanted to learn, I..."

i actually hate school but i am greedy for knowledge...and i now have a little age and experience to go with it so it is even better


message 103: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Danielle wrote: "new_user wrote: "..."


funny thing is...i am a writer and englishis my worst subject...
the math is kicking my azz but now that i won't have to rush through it..can take my time, it will hopefully be different...going back b/c i want to get my degree from NC A&T State U...they graduate the most minority engineers and that means something to me...plus with the babyboomers retiring they are woefully short in the engineering field...so that will give me options ....

my best friend is an attorney, they are laying atty's off left right and center...if i do it, it will be as an asset for my own practice and in my field of social justice.





message 104: by Arch , Mod (new)

Arch  | 6707 comments Mod
Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Arch wrote: "God is a he."

we will have to agree to disagree...not going to even debate this...i don't even debate it in divinity school...however anyone sees God all good...God is changeable to..."


Jeanieandjayha, I am not debating.

God is a he and he's not changeable.




message 105: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Arch wrote: "God is a he."

we will have to agree to disagree...not going to even debate this...i don't even debate it in divinity school...however anyone sees God all good..."


that's how you have to be...God is such a personal choice...but it's a choice...


message 106: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments dreamwild1985 wrote: "wow, you are both smart ladies! i applaud your education."

ah thank you...i'm blessed...blessed to live in a context where women getting an education is not frowned down upon, blessed to have parents family friends who support me, blessed to be able to even read...


message 107: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Arch wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Arch wrote: "God is a he."

we will have to agree to disagree...not going to even debate this...i don't even debate it in divinity school...however anyone sees God all good..."


whatever floats your boat...i'm not debating either...God is who s/he is to every individual


message 108: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Eugenia wrote: "My lawyer friends that I might while getting my paralegal certification, kept telling me they didn't make any money and the loans repayments were killer. My friend does intellectual property but sh..."

everything in school kicked my behind...it took having a job i hated...one that seemed to suck my soul out of me...to make me go back to school....bf i went back to school i majored in getting kicked out of schools


message 109: by Arch , Mod (last edited Jul 21, 2009 04:26PM) (new)

Arch  | 6707 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Yea, whatever people believe or don't believe or acknowledge or don't acknowledge is their business. I mean I have literally seen people's heads blow off debating religion, LOL. I mean I believe what I believe about who and what God is to me and it's just a waste to debate that with someone, nobody can change that belief for me except God. If you don't want to believe, I'm all good with that too."

Eugiene, because I have said that God is a he, doesn't mean that I am debating with anyone.

The Bible states that God is a he.

A math book states that 2 + 2 = 4.

I'm not looking for an answer to this question.

Question: Should I believe that 2 + 2 = 4, because a math book states that 2 + 2 = 4?



message 110: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (last edited Jul 21, 2009 05:33PM) (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Arch wrote: "If Interracial books are heading to erotica land, then I guess I will no longer be reading interracial books. I know that a lot of interracial books are in ebook form and many of them are erotic books.

Sex doesn't sell my way. "


If this is the case, then I'll have to agree, Arch. I know of a few who are focused on romance and not erotica though but the authors are usually spread out. Some even delve into both but offer a few romance focused books (I found one good author who did this and she's epublished). Even though Genesis Press cut down on their IR offerings, they're still an option and I believe they go to libraries as well. Plus new authors are coming up with some interesting offerings so I don't think it'll completely move over to erotica just a majority may have that focus.



message 111: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Arch wrote: "I also wish that more interracial books were written in print. I like holding a book, when I am reading a book. Plus, I don't want to have to go out and buy a machine to read an ebook. "

You can also tell the authors this directly to let them know there's a demand there. Even if the publishing company won't offer it, there's still a chance they have their print rights and are able to use those to bring their work to you in print format whether in short run or print on demand.


message 112: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I have a shelf for boss/employee relationship theme called "sexual harassment" here on goodreads. It's a joke b/c I always think of those cheesy sexual harassment videos and modules they made us do at work.


message 113: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Arch wrote: "If Interracial books are heading to erotica land, then I guess I will no longer be reading interracial books. I know that a lot of interracial books are in ebook form and many of them ..."

I think the marketing needs to be more clear about the sweet IR books. I hear about the erotic ones a lot more, and I do some shopping, believe me. That's why I hope members will keep adding books to the shelf (hint hint).


message 114: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Danielle wrote: "new_user wrote: "You know what's funny? There were some slaves or servants that were treated well, but to read HR, you would guess that every Southern girl o..."

I found about about Douglass' wife on Wikipedia. They actually have some good articles on African American history.


message 115: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
JAJ (if you don't mind the abbreviation, Jeanieandjayha), I agree with you about the power balance, and the tension if the relationship fails.




message 116: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Adultery is a big pet peeve of mine (a lot more than most people), so you're not alone in that.


message 117: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
I would love to be a professional student. :)


message 118: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Eugenia I think you would love law school. My sister went. I don't even try to win an argument with her. It won't happen. She's not the kind of person who needs to be right, either. She's just really good at dissecting what is said and rebutting it. Very analytical although she says she's not that smart. Whatever!


message 119: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Danielle wrote: "I think the marketing needs to be more clear about the sweet IR books. I hear about the erotic ones a lot more, and I do some shopping, believe me. That's why I hope members will keep adding books to the shelf (hint hint)."

I agree. And not to open up the shelf debacle again (lol) but I notice the group shelves don't have a "sweet" section. Can we still add that shelf because that would be tremendous help.



message 120: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Rae wrote: "Arch wrote: "I also wish that more interracial books were written in print. I like holding a book, when I am reading a book. Plus, I don't want to have to go out and buy a machine to read an ebook...."

that is a great point rae...totally forgot about that..


message 121: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I have a shelf for boss/employee relationship theme called "sexual ..."


we get those too...even had sex harrassment talks in our check stubs...


message 122: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Danielle wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Danielle wrote: "new_user wrote: "You know what's funny? There were some slaves or servants that were treated well, but to read HR, you would guess that every..."

i have a massive collection of af-am history books...i haunt the used book stores after semesters end and get a stack of books...


message 123: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Rae wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I think the marketing needs to be more clear about the sweet IR books. I hear about the erotic ones a lot more, and I do some shopping, believe me. That's why I hope members will k..."

Please do, Rae.


message 124: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Danielle wrote: "JAJ (if you don't mind the abbreviation, Jeanieandjayha), I agree with you about the power balance, and the tension if the relationship fails.

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we use that abbreviation ourselves so all good...
i've read some good ones but that is usually the last type of book i'd pick up...smile but you know i like to be proven wrong...


message 125: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Danielle wrote: "Adultery is a big pet peeve of mine (a lot more than most people), so you're not alone in that."

glad to hear...i once had someone tell me off about cussing (because i cuss a lot when i email/talk to close friends...and get really passionate)...and the whole time they were delivering their sermon i had to bite my tongue being that they were habitual adulterers (spelling?) although they didn't consider it adultery since their spouse was okay with it...
i just had to walk away.


message 126: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I have a shelf for boss/employee relationship them..."


feel you...i'd audit a lot of classes....unlesss i could take more online courses..




message 127: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Danielle wrote: "Please do, Rae."

Okay cool. :-)


message 128: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Jeanieandjayha wrote: "dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I have a shelf for boss/empl..."


while i loved the debate...i got all warm thinking about plugging in my laptop and having class that way while at home with cocoa and wearing footy pjs...
dragging my carcass to class was the worst part of it.


message 129: by Yolonda (new)

Yolonda | 406 comments Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I hav..."


I'm in an online class now. It started yesterday, but I've ignored it. I guess your conversation is my sign to log my butt into the class....sigh.




message 130: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Loni wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I do..."

enjoy your class...smile


message 131: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Loni wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I do..."

Ehug for encouragement, Loni. Pretty soon I need to get my Masters Degree in Public Health. I'll probably do online. I'm so not motivated to do an online course.


message 132: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Have a good class, Loni. :-)

That would be awesome, Danielle. You can definitely kick butt at it.

All this class talk is really motivating me to go back to school. I took some time off and am now looking at options for where to sign up to get my Masters in Psychology. I love Psychology so much. I just have to pinpoint a target and then charge forward.


message 133: by Yolonda (new)

Yolonda | 406 comments Thank you all. I need to stop complaining. This is actually my last class for my master's degree in accounting and finance.

Hallelujah!!

I don't know what possessed me to go into accounting but I'm glad to see the light at the end.

Rae, I've always liked psychology. I don't know why I never majored in it. Well now that I think on it, you need to be a great listener...and that I am not. I have the attention span of a toddler.


message 134: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Thanks, Rae. Same for you. You'd be a really good counselor. You're so warm, calm and supportive.

I need to get an MPH to advance into the field I'm looking at (epidemiology. I'd love to work for the CDC). Sadly, just a DVM ain't enough. If I had the money and the time, I would go to medical school. I'm wishing I had just done the Master's degree while I was in school, but I didn't get a lot of guidance when I was in vet school. It was sink or swim.


message 135: by Yolonda (new)

Yolonda | 406 comments Danielle wrote: "Loni wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "Jeanieandjayha wrote: "dreamwild1985 wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's prob..."

Go for it Danielle. Do what you love.


message 136: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Thanks, Loni.

I am not quite ready, but probably soon.


message 137: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Loni wrote: "Thank you all. I need to stop complaining. This is actually my last class for my master's degree in accounting and finance.

Hallelujah!!


--That's great news. Give yourself a pat on the back, Loni!

I don't know what possessed me to go into accountin..."





message 138: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Danielle wrote: "I firmly believe in the don't _____ where you eat rule. And since I work all the time, that's probably why I don't date much.

I have a shelf for boss/employee relationship them..."


I know it works for me, even though I don't date much as a result. I wouldn't want that stress and I wouldn't want people at work knowing stuff about me they don't need to know. People can be vindictive when things end badly.




message 139: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (last edited Jul 21, 2009 07:16PM) (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Well I need to find a rich husband first.:) I'm still paying off vet school. Plus I'd like to have a family. I'm terrible at portioning out my time. When I have kids, I want to devote time to them outside of working. But if the stars are in alignment, maybe I still will. I appreciate the support.


message 140: by new_user (new)

new_user Woo, education! I love learning, not so much the technicalities. *wince*

There are some fields in law still going strong though. Patent law is one, LOL. I hear it's quite boring, but you do what you got to do.

LOL, Danielle, I love that sexual harassment shelf. I probably wouldn't start a relationship with a coworker either, but I don't mind reading about it. Maya, that vid is hilarious! LMAO, I can't believe I haven't seen that before as much Family Guy as I watch.


message 141: by Arch , Mod (new)

Arch  | 6707 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "I'm sorry, I don't know how I got dragged into this but Arch I never said you were debating anyone, you have a belief I respect that. It's not a big deal to me. I'm sorry if you misunderstood me and thought I was debating with you actually I was just commenting to Jeanieandjayha, not too you. Sorry about that."

There's no need to apology Eugenia. When I have read your statement, I have seen "debate". I was making it generally known that I wasn't debating.

Generally speaking. A lot of people believe that a person is debating with them, if that person states something opposite of what they have said.

I'm not a debater!




message 142: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "I get the school itch every three years or so and I just have to go back, have to. I'm now in the interview process to be an adjunct professor of paralegal studies. I'm really excited I love teaching just about as much as I love learning, LOL."

Congrats Eugenia! That's an awesome opportunity. :-)



message 143: by CaliGirlRae, Mod Squad (new)

CaliGirlRae (rae_l) | 2017 comments Mod
Danielle wrote: "Thanks, Rae. Same for you. You'd be a really good counselor. You're so warm, calm and supportive.

I need to get an MPH to advance into the field I'm looking at (epidemiology. I'd love to work f..."


Thanks Danielle. :-) I'd really love to help people as much as I can. Even if it's just lending an ear. Plus the the human mind fascinates me so much.


message 144: by JeanieandJayha (new)

JeanieandJayha | 139 comments Rae wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "I get the school itch every three years or so and I just have to go back, have to. I'm now in the interview process to be an adjunct professor of paralegal studies. I'm really excit..."

go YOU...go YOU...go YOU...that is awesome that you have the patience to do that


message 145: by Arch , Mod (new)

Arch  | 6707 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Cool, we good, LOL."

LOL! Yes we are!



message 146: by Arch , Mod (new)

Arch  | 6707 comments Mod
I enjoy tutoring. I haven't done it in years. I've tutored kids in math.


message 147: by new_user (new)

new_user LOL. Cool, Eugenia. Would love to teach. :)


message 148: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Yeah, NU, I think the sexual harrassment shelf is appropriate, because in real life that's what a boss might find himself looking at if he/she was dating their employee. (Maybe, maybe not).




message 149: by Danielle The Book Huntress , Sees Love in All Colors (new)

 Danielle The Book Huntress  (gatadelafuente) | 7331 comments Mod
Eugenia wrote: "Rae wrote: "Eugenia wrote: "I get the school itch every three years or so and I just have to go back, have to. I'm now in the interview process to be an adjunct professor of paralegal studies. I'm ..."

That's cool, Eugenia. I hope you enjoy teaching the class. I enjoy teaching as well.


message 150: by Justine (new)

Justine | 1362 comments Loni wrote: "I can't stand romances were the hero/heroines constantly jump to conclusions and blow things out of proportion. This creates unnecessary drama and gets old real quick if done frequently.

I also..."


Preach it Loni girl!!!!!!!!! One writer everyone seems to love, in my opinion does that in every book! I so am planning not to read another one of her books!!!


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