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nah I can find it. Be a lot simpler to just post it here if you really want me to know though.
True. Especially if you don't like to read. lol. Ok... (view spoiler) There. Talk about major anticipation though!
That's a bit dramatic . I mean I can't think of anything that would cause them to take such a drastic action? I don't really know your family or the situation but in most cases it would have to be something quite severe to actually put out one or their own. Doesn't make much sense to me.
I almost didn't have a place to go over Thanksgiving break. They can't let go of the past or their grudges. For Thanksgiving, I managed to talk some sense into them. I already decided I wouldn't do it again though. Maybe a separation from me would do them some good
Your talking in circles. They must have a reason to act so harshly and you're already there, so sounds to me like they already let it go and welcomed you home for Christmas, what makes you think they are going to suddenly kick you out? Why not just tell you not to bother coming home to begin with? ...makes no sense.
Because they don't know what's going to happen. They let Thanksgiving go...yes...but with what I'm hoping happens later today...I don't think they'll be pleased.
My grandma misses my mother. So I vc'd her over fb and asked her to come see us. She is, but she wants to have lunch with me. I agreed...but that could cause WWIII in my house. They won't let go of the f*cking past -_-
My grandma misses my mother. So I vc'd her over fb and asked her to come see us. She is, but she wants to have lunch with me. I agreed...but that could cause WWIII in my house. They won't let go of the f*cking past -_-
Sooo you invited your Grandmother without your families approval? That's the wrong that will get you kicked out of the house?
No. I asked my mother to come over to my grandma's because my grandma misses her. The thing that could cause problems is the fact that we will have lunch together, just me, her, and my half sister. That's what caused problems before Thanksgiving
wiat, have lunch with your Grandmother? why are they so against that? especially if your mum is willing to go over to her house and visit with her, none of this makes any sense...there's got to be more to it than that, but that's ok its probably delving into more personal stuff. Moving on. c'est la vie, hope it goes well.
No. I'm planning on having lunch with my mother. I live with my grandma and aunt
Either way, still don't see the problem. You said your Grandmum misses her so...what's the problem?
The problem is I'm sure my aunt and Grandma won't want me to eat with her, especially on our own. It's a whole bunch of bs. I for one, am willing to let go of the past and give my mother a chance to be a part of my life now. When my mother came and had lunch with me at the college, she posted it on fb and my aunt called me a basically told me to not come home for Thanksgiving
You're a big girl, seems like you should be able to make that decision on your own. I don't the full situation and don't want to be it sounds like it goes much deeper than whats on the surface. I would just simply tell your Aunt and Grandmother that you are willing to give your mum another chance and it shouldn't change your relationship with them in any way...just remind them your not a child who needs to be protected from feelings being hurt and to at least give you the chance to make your own judgement good or bad.
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I know. I sorta said it during the Thanksgiving thing.
So, how's your night going?
So, how's your night going?
s'ok I'd rather be out driving a rig but, it is what it is. I'll gut it out ...7 AM can not come quick enough.
haha. What time is it for you?
You're an hour ahead of me. Yeah...you can make it! :D
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Tippy- Read through the chat, sounds like a huge mess. I agree with Nate though- you're 20! Some choices, you should be allowed to make.
Nate- B'day next month, I remember. Never knew the date and you're not one to tell :D But anyway, what you can do to 'celebrate' is do what you LOVE doing the most on that day :D
I do. I celebrate by not acknowledging that day. jk I've gotten better about it, I suppose, but you know why I don't really celebrate it. Ok Moving on
@Nate Personal subject I assume?
@Naura Yeah. I know. I guess the trouble's been postponed though. My mother said there's supposed to be freezing rain at some point today so she won't be coming over :(
@Naura Yeah. I know. I guess the trouble's been postponed though. My mother said there's supposed to be freezing rain at some point today so she won't be coming over :(
I see. Did it get over quickly enough? lol
It was ok, things picked up towards morning.
Well at least my headache's mostly gone now. Minor. It's still there but if I don't move too much, I'm ok
Game plan for today....yeah other than going to the airport I got none
What's at the airport? You traveling?
Planes ...no but Cass is. I convinced her to go see her sister for a bit before heading to visit my family. She's been torn about it, wants to stay here but wants to go at the same time, I finally got her to just go. We've got all year together and yeah I know its kinda our first real xmas on our own together but we'll have a lot more...hopefully.
Obviously lol
Ah. You can have your own Christmas celebration, even if it's not on Christmas. My friend and his girlfriend have like five or six and they aren't on Christmas.
Ah. You can have your own Christmas celebration, even if it's not on Christmas. My friend and his girlfriend have like five or six and they aren't on Christmas.
I was going to just give her the ticket and take her to the airport but everyone was telling me, not to cus it should be her choice though I knew if I gave her the option it was gonna put her in a situation of having to choose and didn't want that, no matter how much I tell her I'd be fine and I'm not much of a christmas person anyway, I get grumpy and I got to work xmas eve anyway. SO finally I kind of just told her I think its best if she just went, I didn't want her to feel guilty though I know giving her the choice created that, I should have just listened to my own instinct ...but I was also afraid of ticking her off, girls are complicated.
I know what you mean. I remember you asking about it. Just have a nice Christmas dinner with her or something when she gets back or before she leaves. Honestly, it wasn't until I watched my best friend with his girlfriend that I realized just how difficult girls can be. That's sad! Considering I'm a girl myself...lol
For the most part she's not usually that hard to figure out but every now and then I come across something that I'm just not sure how she's gonna react. She's normally the type to be overwhelmingly touched to the point of tears at the smallest gesture, but idk this one I was just on the fence. She's been a bit stressed lately.
school and some other things. I think this will alleviate some of that, being able to see the ppl she's been worried about.
Oh. Yeah. People just need a break sometimes. Even those that think they're invincible
bbl Gonna take Cass out to lunch b4 heading to the airport.
k. TTYL. Have a safe trip. And her a safe flight
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Hello Tippy :P
Hello Naura
Hi Nate
How are you two?
Hi Nate
How are you two?
Pretty good. Do you have work tonight?
yeah, and I think I'm on dispatch again. UGH
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