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Jul 30, 2009 03:17PM

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I don't remember Sookie "checking in" on his thoughts before his rant.





I just checked my cable remote and it has that "Video on Demand" button!
I never took the time to figure out what that meant: I overheard one of my work colleagues talking about watching True Blood "on demand" and I thought that maybe she had somehow won or paid for some kind of special VIP viewer status. I was going to ask her for the inside scoop, but I guess she's watching the same thing I am. LOL!







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I agree with that but I just liked Erics' personality more in the books and then, without spoiling what could happen but probably wont in the show, that one book of Sookie and Eric (ya know which I'm talkin' about :) was really good! And in the show, the guy that plays Eric got ten times hotter when he cut that nasty hair! lol But you're right, they both have been bad news for Sookie along with everyone else she's dated in the books. Anyone else notice her turn into a big tramp in the books after discovering Bills original motives? lol
Yes, Tiffany, every True Blood fan must read the books. They're just sooo good! :)










I think THAT is our point. If you are in love and content and the relationship is solid, pretty baubles shouldn't sway you and you can't be "taken."
If there are problems, then someone flaunting options at you can make you CHOOSE another person. But you still CHOOSE to be taken. The other person can't MAKE you choose them just by presenting an alternative.
I think words like take and steal when used in the context of "you stole my girlfriend" are merely the words of bitter people who failed in some way and need to place the blame elsewhere. Or they just don't understand that the relationship wasn't as perfect as they thought.
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Now, if a vamp glamoured someone into leaving their significant other, making them incapable of choice, THAT would be taking.


heh @ dont hate the player....


But I suppose that's all a matter of opinion. I prefer the gentlemanly approach. Its how my husband won me, actually.

I agree with your assessment about Sookie. She is no tramp. She kept her virginity for quite a long time and under the circumstances, I would have acted exactly like her. She is the energizer Sookie.LOL

I really think Eric is being true to his nature. After all, he was a Viking and what they wanted....they got. Eric is not a gentlemen like Bill. I am glad they have stayed with their true personalities. I have dated men that were Viking-like and Gentlemen-like and I chose a gentleman in the end and have been married for 25 years. Vikings take alot of maintenance...LOL.

Jessica, I see what you mean, but that's looking at it from the other side. The side of the person who's lost their significant other to someone else.
It's very predatorial to go after someone who's already in a relationship, and in polite spheres, you're supposed to just accept and acknowledge that someone isn't free and leave them be.
But to me, that's only for the sake of being polite. If some chick went after my boyfriend, I'd think she was outta line, but moreso I'd expect my man to tell her in no uncertain terms that her advances are unwelcome. The weight of responsibility is his to bear. She owes me nothing.
If he allows her to continue, well, he ain't the man for me then, and I'm not the right woman for him.
I've had men pursue me while I've been attached. Sometimes it's worked, sometimes it hasn't, all based upon how happy I was in my relationship.
If the pursued doesn't discourage the pursuer, I can't blame them for continuing the hunt. Giving off mixed signals gives the pursuer hope. And in the case of Sookie and Eric, she left the door open for him. She was attracted to him, she didn't refuse his "gifts" (even if they weren't of a romantic nature), and she often relied upon him for help. Mixed signals indeed from a girl who used to try to deny a connection between them. And mixed signals means the hunt continues! It ain't pretty and neat, but what about life is?



My tolerance levels for that behaviour are different. She never seemed to push back all that hard after the first book, and to me he never crossed the line into creepy or forceful, so I find it acceptable in the context.
But I personally like cocky arrogance tempered with flirtatious flair. I had a guy with that same attitude pursue me. He exasperated me to BITS, but could also make me laugh more than anyone and was very consistent and reliable. In the process of him trying to "wear me down," he became one of my closest friends. So I can easily see the transition with S & E and don't view his behaviour as negative.
I'm sure another woman would slap the bejesus out of such a man for his impropriety. I found it endearing over time. To each their own!

In the books it shows that Sookie is becoming increasingly irritated because she puts fourth so much in their relationship and sacrafices so much (including her paycheck)and Bill does nothing to reciprocate. He gives his money to the Bellefleurs and nothing to Sookie. Eventually, when he starts the directory, not even his time.
Also, if you stop and think about it, Eric didnt really give her anything inappropriate. He complained about her driveway and she said that she didnt have the money to fix it after missing so much work. He felt bad because it was his fault as well as Bills so he compensated her for it by Buying her the drive way. He also gave her a new coat after Debbie Pelt had the nerve to bleed all over hers when Sookie had to shoot her.
The gifts weren't frivolous, they were things that she needed and couldn't afford or were damaged. Bill bought her a pair of earrings after Sookie got mad at him about not getting her anything. She pretty much had to ASK for something from Bill but Eric gave to her freely.

LOL. Awesome.
PS: I agree.
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