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Buddy Read: Middlemarch and My Life In Middlemarch
Yay! So excited! I've had Middlemarch on my TBR list for ages, so I'm definitely looking forward to reading and discussing this book. :)



Hey lovely ladies! I'm still plugging away on last weeks reading assignment. I'm really enjoying the book, but finding with a holiday weekend and the nature of the book I'm a little behind. I've absolutely loved everyone's comments and involvement here on GR as well as IG. I've giggled and shaken my head in agreement with all comments! :) How far are you in the novel? What do you think of Eliot's writing style, the story, characters, etc.?


Ok, you all are really going to see my inner book geek now. I could have written more, but I made myself stop. :) Also, I don't want to ruin the reading experience of those of you who haven't read this far yet, so I'm trying not to be too specific on plot points. Let me know your thoughts on that.
I found the prologue interesting (had to look up St. Theresa.) This part especially: "Many Theresas have been born who found for themselves no epic life...perhaps only a life of mistakes...perhaps a tragic failure which found no sacred poet and sank unwept into oblivion." So sad, but considering that most people don't have lives like St. Theresa, often true. The yearning desire is there to do something great, but life happens. Still mulling that over. Wondering if that will be a reflection of Dorothea's life, or several characters in Middlemarch?
I like Miss Brooke's passion and desire to do something meaningful with her life. She's quite the martyr. She seems headed for disaster in marriage though and no one can change her mind. She certainly thinks she knows what she wants. Not sure if she's just too young and inexperienced with men to be making this decision, or too stubborn? How old is she at this point anyway- did anyone catch that? She acts very meek and subservient, but she also has strong opinions- Celia mentions her tendency for extremes. Not sure how that's going to work out. They say love is blind. She certainly doesn't seem to see any warning signs in how Casaubon is relating to her. I don't understand this desire for a father-figure type of romantic relationship: someone to teach her and for her to serve. I know much of it was those times, but not all of it, because even Celia and Mrs. Cadwallader don't see it the same way. When it actually comes down to it, I wonder if she's really going to like Casaubon being her "master." Even the way Eliot's narrator comments on Dorothea is fascinating. Doesn't it make you cringe that she's making this decision?
Casaubon seems like a bore, honestly. Not sure how Dorothea isn't seeing that. He seems kind to Dorothea, on a basic level, but I think he's just selfish- he's only in this for how it is going to benefit him. He doesn't love her, he finds courtship wearying. And the blunt things the other characters say about him- yikes! Sir James seems like a better choice, with his admiration for Dorothea's intelligence and interest in the cottages.
I love Celia and find her attitude and the things she says so funny! "I don't think it can be nice to marry a man with a great soul." She's quite perceptive. Mrs. Cadwallader is great with some of her snippy remarks too. She sort of reminds me of Mrs. Lynde from Anne of Green Gables, for those who have read that. Loved her comment on Casaubon's blood: "Somebody put a drop under a magnifying glass and it was all semicolons and parentheses." Fred Vincy, though I feel sorry for him (like I want to yell at him not to make bad decisions) is also funny. Mary Garth has some deep insights: "I am not magnanimous enough to like people who speak to me without seeming to see me." I don't blame her at all!
Finally, I loved these two quotes:
"Souls have complexions too: what will suit one will not suit another."
"Destiny stands by sarcastic with our dramatis personae folded in her hand."


Katie, I LOVE your comments!! You put so much time and effort into this and I appreciate it. I'm almost finished with Book 2. Once I am, I'll reply back in detail. Such great thoughts and opinions! :)
Pages and Cups and Tara, you guys are totally fine! This book is going to take a little longer than we anticipated so no rush at all. Start when you can and read when you get a chance. I'm more than willing to extend this buddy read a bit so we all can enjoy and discuss. And I am sure Katie feels the same way. I'm just so glad you'll be joining us!


Thanks so much everyone! It's so much fun to get to discuss books like this again. I've been taking notes and underlining things as I read, so I'm really just going back through my notes. Looking forward to seeing what everyone else thinks as well!
I just wanted to check in wth everyone! I'm currently working my way through books 3&4. How is everyone else faring?
I must say the story is picking up for me. I've been marking and highlighting like crazy, so once I finish these two books I'm going to post some of my thoughts and reflections.
Hopefully everyone is still enjoying Middlemarch and not feeling overwhelmed!! With the length of this book and everyone's schedules, we'll plan on being flexible with the reading schedule. Right now I'm personally about a week behind on the original reading schedule.
I must say the story is picking up for me. I've been marking and highlighting like crazy, so once I finish these two books I'm going to post some of my thoughts and reflections.
Hopefully everyone is still enjoying Middlemarch and not feeling overwhelmed!! With the length of this book and everyone's schedules, we'll plan on being flexible with the reading schedule. Right now I'm personally about a week behind on the original reading schedule.

I think you should go ahead and post them when you have them. I love having an ongoing discussion instead of a wrap up. But truly it is whatever you prefer!


For now I'd say that I think language is the finer medium of representation- but wouldn't most book lovers say that? ;) I was never an artist (ie, painting, drawing, etc), so I couldn't ever express myself that way- words were much more my medium. I'm sure I'll have more insight on this farther on.


I'm planning on finishing Middlemarch by the end of the week. I only have about 150 pages left! And I love the idea of that t-shirt, Lisa! Too funny! :D
It's funny because I really am enjoying Middlemarch, I am just surprised at how long it is taking me. Normally I can cruise through a book fairly quickly, even at almost 1000 pages. But, for some reason I have been slower with this one. A part of me is trying to really pay attention to the text and dialogue in the book and I think another part of me finds that Eliot's writing (at times) can be laborious and so I can only do about 50 pages per sitting or I start skimming or daydreaming (true confession right here!)
I am glad we picked this to read though, and even though we are all at different stages of the novel. I'm excited to discuss and go over what we've read when everyone is finished and ready!
I do have to mention, Katie, Lisa and I were talking on IG about doing a read/reread of the Deborah Harkness trilogy in the winter. I think this will be a perfect respite after Middlemarch! So something to look forward to!
And I am in total agreement with Tara. I love the t-shirt idea! Great idea, Lisa!
I am glad we picked this to read though, and even though we are all at different stages of the novel. I'm excited to discuss and go over what we've read when everyone is finished and ready!
I do have to mention, Katie, Lisa and I were talking on IG about doing a read/reread of the Deborah Harkness trilogy in the winter. I think this will be a perfect respite after Middlemarch! So something to look forward to!
And I am in total agreement with Tara. I love the t-shirt idea! Great idea, Lisa!



I'm almost halfway right now. I agree with you, Cate. I 'm normally a pretty fast reader, but there are sections that seem very slow. I do like the parts about Dorothea, Casaubon, Will, Fred Vincy- anything about the marriages or relationships. There are parts I've really been struck by how insightful her prose is and heart-broken her words make me feel. If it goes into the town politics or Featherstone's relations, I start to drift a bit. I don't want to miss anything good though!
The All Souls Trilogy does sound like a wonderful respite after Middlemarch! I am definitely dedicated to finishing it, but it will be nice to read something a little lighter after this.

I thought the latter part of the book moves a lot faster than the beginning. I'm positive you'll get through it. I really did enjoy reading this book for our buddy read. Kept me motivated to press on! :)


I have a love /hate relationship with Casaubon. I think marrying just to marry isn't the best idea, but that could be my modern sensibilities coming out. I do think what happens later on in the novel makes him somewhat of a tragic character and just shows what one can do, to oneself. I don't want to give anything away, so I won't say more right now.
And yes! I am really looking forward to My Life in Middlemarch. I think it will help cement some of the thoughts and opinions of the novel for me.
And yes! I am really looking forward to My Life in Middlemarch. I think it will help cement some of the thoughts and opinions of the novel for me.

I did feel like the first book or two dragged, but it quickly picked up for me!
I know Katie is still working on finishing the book, so we can hold off on discussing, but when we do discuss, do you want to do a general discussion for the entire book, or do you want to break it down by books or the original reading outline, Katie and I posted?
I know Katie is still working on finishing the book, so we can hold off on discussing, but when we do discuss, do you want to do a general discussion for the entire book, or do you want to break it down by books or the original reading outline, Katie and I posted?
I was going to start it this month myself, so I think you definitely can. It might even help with the discussion of Middlemarch.

Those are great question prompts, I'm going to take a look again, since it was a while since I read through them.
And I'm so glad you're liking The Diviners. It totally sucked me in, especially the plot with Naughty John and the hoodoo/voodoo summoning parts of the novels. I also loved the gothic feel to the novel, with a serial killer from the past....
And I'm so glad you're liking The Diviners. It totally sucked me in, especially the plot with Naughty John and the hoodoo/voodoo summoning parts of the novels. I also loved the gothic feel to the novel, with a serial killer from the past....

Michelle! I'm so glad you joined the GR group and discussion. We still have a couple of people who are reading Middlemarch, so we'll be discussing whenever everyone's ready. Katie posted great discussion questions at the first of the thread. Which I think we'll base the discussion questions on! Welcome!!
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My Life in Middlemarch
Katie (@thornfieldhall) and I were discussing how Autumn is the perfect time to crack open a classic book. So, we decided to do a buddy read for George Eliot's Middlemarch. We'll be reading Middlemarch during the month of September then follow with My Life In Middlemarch by Rebecca Mead in October. This novel was recommended to me on IG and I can't wait to read it!
Below is a reading schedule for Middlemarch, (mainly for pacing). Katie and I are planning on discussing a reading section each week.
Sep 1-7: Prelude, Book 1 and 2
Sep 8-14: Book 3 and 4
Sep 15-21: Book 5 and 6
Sep 22-30: Book 7, 8 and Finale
If you're interested in reading great classic literature I hope you'll join us!