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Averin | 114 comments Ije the Devourer of Books wrote: "I am reading Personal Dispatches: Writers Confront AIDS
It is a series of essays written between 86 - 88 during the AIDS crisis (not that the crisis is over) before treatments starte..."


I've been meaning to read that one for years! John Preston was a gifted storyteller, whether fiction or nonfiction, as well as a brilliant editor/anthologist.


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Varecia | 956 comments Jax wrote: "Josh wrote: "This is why I have had to all but stop reading m/m. "

I am certainly trying fewer new authors these days. I no longer actively seek out new reads by checking review sites. There's rea..."


Very true, same here. Maybe it's a kind of overindulging, I have the feeling that I read too much of it in too short a time. So it's not only the sappiness, but the sameness of everything. That's maybe my problem with genre fiction and the reason I love authors going - subtly - against the "rules" of a genre: in m/m Alexis Hall comes to mind. I had a look at my virtual shelves and saw that nearly all the "strict" m/m books I read and liked during the last months were written by British authors. Usually the dialogue is so lively and witty that I don't mind the absence of a plot :-)


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HJ | 3603 comments KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories Hmm...alternating these short stories (which are all about Ollie) with the Strackey mysteries, c..."

I've just finished this and I really enjoyed it. I'm going to indulge in a Ben Monopoli re-read: The Cranberry Hush and The Painting of Porcupine City. I've read each of those at least three times but they're always excellent. I think The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories is going to join those two as favourite books. I recommend it!


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KC | 4897 comments HJ wrote: "KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories Hmm...alternating these short stories (which are all about Ollie) with the Strackey m..."

Good to know! Enjoy the reread!
I read all his books and I love them all so much, every word. :-) I find them very intense emotionally, similar in a way to the way I feel after I read a Harper Fox book, so it will probably take years before i'll be ready to reread, but i do want to reread them someday.


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Steve Leonard (stevelonard) | 485 comments HJ wrote: "KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories Hmm...alternating these short stories (which are all about Ollie) with the Strackey m..."

Oh gosh - I snot-sobbed through the last 50 pages of 'The Cranberry Hush' but haven't read the others. Their blurbs didn't sound appealing. But you liked them?


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Antonella | 11565 comments Steve wrote: "Oh gosh - I snot-sobbed through the last 50 pages of 'The Cranberry Hush' but haven't read the others. Their blurbs didn't sound appealing. But you liked them?"

My 5 stars review of The Painting of Porcupine City says:

This book is beautiful and heartbreaking. I don't know if it is more beautiful or heartbreaking. It left me thinking of the main characters now and then a long time after I read it.


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HJ | 3603 comments Steve wrote: "HJ wrote: "KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories ... Oh gosh - I snot-sobbed through the last 50 pages of 'The Cranberry Hush' but haven't read the others. Their blurbs didn't sound appealing. But you liked them? ..."

I loved them. As Antonella says, they stay with you. I don't know if it would be possible to write a successful blurb for them because they really don't fit the usual way books are written and described.

This is what I wrote about Porcupine City when I first read it: "Wonderful. Compelling and distinct characters who have credible, complex relationships and develop and change. Superb evocation of place - the difference between Boston and San Paulo is realised so well, as is the feel of the different types of heat and humidity. Hauntingly good."

I didn't like Homo Action Love Story! A tall tale nearly as much, but I think I should give it another go. I remember that something is revealed very near the end which, had I known it earlier, would have affected the way I felt about a couple of the characters.


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Karan | 265 comments Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author friend who say..."
Yes! Yes to every word here. I'm not a gay man and I totally agree...and I'm sick of Skimville.


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Karen | 4449 comments Mod
I remember loving Cranberry Hush when I read it, but I never finished Porcupine City. There came a point where it was too long a story for me and one with too long a road for the MCs to travel, and I had to set it aside. That was some time ago and I may come back to it some day.


message 8460: by Karen (last edited Jun 11, 2015 11:31PM) (new)

Karen | 4449 comments Mod
Steve, I suspect that some of the sex scenes you're thinking of, well, certainly some that I've read, are neither m/m nor m/f. At least the actions and dialogue have nothing to do with what any real men or women would say or do in bed or elsewhere.


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Steve Leonard (stevelonard) | 485 comments I think you're right, Karen! Some of the dialogue is completely stilted and the scenes are overly choreographed. I remember a line in The Boy With the Painful Tattoo to the effect of it being clumsy and lots of moving parts. Something like that.


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Anne | 6816 comments Josh wrote: "There are so many lovely, lovely people writing m/m, but they are drippy. Their work is emotionally drippy. And I just can't put up with it.

*Put a fucking stopper in it! Grow the hell up! If I w..."


Oh yes, this.


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Anne | 6816 comments Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author friend who say..."

And this, too.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author friend who say..."

Hear, hear.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Ije the Devourer of Books wrote: "I agree. Sometimes those sex scenes are just so long, boring and add nothing to the plot."

Yes. When there's too much sex it gets awfully boring extremely fast. If those various sex scenes don't add anything in the plot or give us fresh glimpses into the characters, tell us something about who they really are, OR if the scenes are only about mechanics of sex, I tend to start skipping forward in the book and IMO that's always a bad sign.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
HJ wrote: "KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories Hmm...alternating these short stories (which are all about Ollie) with the Strackey m..."

So glad to hear you liked The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories, HJ! I loved both The Cranberry Hush and The Painting of Porcupine City. I like Ben Monopoli's unique voice a lot and there's something very refreshing about reading a book that you can't count on having a traditional happy ending. It really keeps you on your toes. :-)


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
KC wrote: "HJ wrote: "KC wrote: "Ben Monopoli's new book is out, yay! The Youth & Young Loves of Oliver Wade: Stories Hmm...alternating these short stories (which are all about Ollie) with the..."

"I read all his books and I love them all so much, every word. :-) I find them very intense emotionally, similar in a way to the way I feel after I read a Harper Fox book, so it will probably take years before i'll be ready to reread, but i do want to reread them someday."


This is exactly how I feel about Monopoli's books.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Antonella wrote: "Steve wrote: "Oh gosh - I snot-sobbed through the last 50 pages of 'The Cranberry Hush' but haven't read the others. Their blurbs didn't sound appealing. But you liked them?"

My 5 stars review of The Painting of Porcupine City says:

This book is beautiful and heartbreaking. I don't know if it is more beautiful or heartbreaking. It left me thinking of the main characters now and then a long time after I read it."


LOL. I went to read your whole review and ended up reading mine too, because your review ends with: "See also the reviews by Johanna or John." :-D

I do love John's review. :-)


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
HJ wrote: "This is what I wrote about Porcupine City when I first read it: "Wonderful. Compelling and distinct characters who have credible, complex relationships and develop and change. Superb evocation of place - the difference between Boston and San Paulo is realised so well, as is the feel of the different types of heat and humidity. Hauntingly good."

I agree with every word. Well said, HJ.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
HJ wrote: "I didn't like Homo Action Love Story! A tall tale nearly as much, but I think I should give it another go. I remember that something is revealed very near the end which, had I known it earlier, would have affected the way I felt about a couple of the characters."

I haven't read this one yet, but I've bought it already — long time ago, actually.


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Karen wrote: "I remember loving Cranberry Hush when I read it, but I never finished Porcupine City. There came a point where it was too long a story for me and one with too long a road for the MCs to travel, and..."

The Painting of Porcupine City was my first book from this author and the reason I ended up reading it in the first place was because it was gifted to me by a dear friend. And I also remember our HJ recommending it even back then. :-) Even though the book stole my heart, I can totally see why you never finished it. There were parts that were emotionally exhausting. But it also spoke the same language my inner street artist does. :-)


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Karen wrote: "Steve, I suspect that some of the sex scenes you're thinking of, well, certainly some that I've read, are neither m/m nor m/f. At least the actions and dialogue have nothing to do with what any real men or women would say or do in bed or elsewhere."

Heh. I never stop being delighted by the moment when Adrien and Jake bang their heads and noses together, and there seems to be knees and elbows everywhere. :-) Best sex ever, that. :-D


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Johanna | 18130 comments Mod
Steve wrote: "I think you're right, Karen! Some of the dialogue is completely stilted and the scenes are overly choreographed. I remember a line in The Boy With the Painful Tattoo to the effect of it being clums..."

Exactly. :-) :-) :-)


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Susinok | 5205 comments Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author friend who says the basic rule (rule?) is three sex scenes per a 200-250 page book, and authors get savaged by readers if they aren’t there. Really? Come on, people. I don’t like reading sex for sex’s sake. I want it to mean something in a story. I want it to mean something to the characters. I want it to move the plot forward. I’ve been more satisfied with off the page sex than with a lot of the sex scenes I’ve read these days. A ten-plus page sex scene? Welcome to Skimville!! And the way some scenes are written seem physically impossible unless the guys are double or triple-jointed. What I like the most about the sex in Josh’s books is that it’s very real. He writes men. Men having sex. Men relating to each other in the bedroom. I had this same discussion with a couple of guy friends last summer and we agreed that so many of the sex scenes in m/m read very much m/f, except the female has a penis as well. Maybe that’s sexist? I don’t know. But what I know as a gay male reader is most of the sex scenes I’m reading these days don’t seem authentic...."

Totally agree 100% on this one. Even though I am NOT a gay man, I like my scenes to be more about the emotions than the physical description. I don't CARE who put what where. I want to see what the act does to further their emotional journey. And if it doesn't, leave it the heck out.

I just recently read a book by a writer I really like, but her scenes, though emotional, were too long. Skim skim skim...


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Na | 354 comments Steve wrote: "What I meant about that, Carli, is that some sex scenes read like they're between a man and a woman but somebody's changed all the female pronouns to male."

I have a tendency to avoid books by unknown authors because I'm weary of excessively sentimental writing. I like reading romance, but I don't appreciate stereotypical romantic settings. I find those boring. I want something unique and singular -- or you loose my interest. That there are many or no sex scenes I don't mind. As long as they're significant to the plot.


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KC | 4897 comments Johanna wrote: "Heh. I never stop being delighted by the moment when Adrien and Jake bang their heads and noses together, and there seems to be knees and elbows everywhere. :-) Best sex ever, that. :-D"

That is still, and probably will always be, my all-time favorite scene :-)


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author friend who say..."

The whole "savaged by readers" thing is silly anyway. What readers? Who are these readers and why would anyone care what they think? You can't please every reader -- nor should you try.

I don't care who you are or what you write. You cannot please every reader.

And you will make yourself crazy trying.

I'm writing for readers who aren't looking for three sex scenes per every 200 pages. That's my audience. I have to find a jazzier way to describe them though.

:-D


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Ije the Devourer of Books wrote: "I am reading Personal Dispatches: Writers Confront AIDS
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Congratulations! That's a great project to be part of.


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Carlita wrote: "Steve wrote: Here is my little rant on drippy . . .

Couldn't agree more, Steve. Except for the female with a penis thing because I wouldn't know. What I do know about Josh's writing of sex scenes..."


To me, the minute you turn sex into a mathematical equation, you've failed.


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Varecia wrote: "Jax wrote: "Josh wrote: "This is why I have had to all but stop reading m/m. "

I am certainly trying fewer new authors these days. I no longer actively seek out new reads by checking review sites...."


Well, looking at the earliest titles on my Kindle, yes. I think I did a LOT of shopping just because it was all new and there wasn't a huge amount of selection. And I did quickly glut myself on what there was.

And I suppose that's a lot of my boredom now. There's just so much more of the same old thing. New writers -- many new writers -- but there's just not a lot of originality.

I've reached the point where even the blurbs make me sigh.


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Varecia wrote: "Jax wrote: "Josh wrote: "This is why I have had to all but stop reading m/m. "

I am certainly trying fewer new authors these days. I no longer actively seek out new reads by checking review sites...."


I have to agree with you about the British writers. Hall, KJ Charles, Harper, Joanna Chambers, JL Merrow... many good and interesting efforts.


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Karan wrote: "Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author ..."

Skimville. LOL.


message 8483: by Josh (last edited Jun 12, 2015 11:42AM) (new)

Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Happily, there is plenty of every kind of m/m fiction out there so that every reader should be able -- with a little diligence -- to find exactly what they like to read.

For the people who like to use a book in place of a vibrator, there's no shortage of titles. And for people who like plot, there are plenty of plotty stories.

Where I grow impatient is when authors say idiotic things like...oh, you can't write X because readers don't like that!

As if readers were all one size, one flavor.


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Steve Leonard (stevelonard) | 485 comments Josh wrote: "Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author ..."

There are readers who are quite rabid. There are readers who pick fights on Goodreads and Amazon and Facebook. There are readers who demand freebies and what not. More authors I know are starting (finally) to keep their personal lives separate from their author lives, and are learning to not engage to random rabid reader.

No, you can't please everybody. When you go about trying to please everybody you end up pleasing nobody - least of all yourself.


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Steve Leonard (stevelonard) | 485 comments Josh wrote: "Steve wrote: "Here is my little rant on all the drippy m/m books. Sex. Now I like sex as much as the next person and as a gay man, I especially like m/m sex. But enough is enough. I have an author ..."

I'm writing for readers who aren't looking for three sex scenes per every 200 pages. That's my audience. I have to find a jazzier way to describe them though.

Are you looking for a jazzier way to describe the sex scenes or your readers?? ;)


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Karen wrote: "Steve, I suspect that some of the sex scenes you're thinking of, well, certainly some that I've read, are neither m/m nor m/f. At least the actions and dialogue have nothing to do with what any rea..."

DING! DING! DING!

You are correct. And it's kind of sad, frankly, when stupid, sappy characters are labeled chicks-with-dicks when NO self-respecting woman would act like these drips.

It's about writing real people. But, as I have said countless times, far too many stories are peopled with Book People not motivated and believable characters.


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Na wrote: "Steve wrote: "What I meant about that, Carli, is that some sex scenes read like they're between a man and a woman but somebody's changed all the female pronouns to male."

I have a tendency to avo..."


And I am all in favor of emotion and romance! But I think it is more emotional -- resonates more? -- and much more romantic if it feels "real."

Like...the best (as in romantic, moving) dialog for me is dialog that I can picture a real person saying under stress or great emotional turmoil.

What I am never going to believe -- or be moved by -- is that kind of corny I-would-shake-the-stars-from-their-moorings-for-one-night-with-you dialog from a roofer or a contractor or (God in heaven!) a cowboy.

Even two writers wouldn't talk that way to each other!


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Johanna wrote: "Karen wrote: "Steve, I suspect that some of the sex scenes you're thinking of, well, certainly some that I've read, are neither m/m nor m/f. At least the actions and dialogue have nothing to do wit..."

People who have suffered through real life first sexual encounters love that scene. ;-D


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Ame | 1744 comments Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline tonight, he must be disgusted by those stubbles"

"I hope he's not a neck licker.... eeewww, he's licking my neck!"

"His tongue technique is seriously lacking"

"Already?"

"How long does one orgasm take?"

"God, I'm sweating so much"

"He's SUCKING my earlobe/toe/finger! EEWW!"


Yeah, I'm all for unrealistic sex in my romance books.


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Varecia | 956 comments Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline tonight, he must be disgusted by those s..."


OMG, I just snorted coffee all over the kindle!!! If you put it that way... :-))


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline tonight, he must be disgusted by those s..."


LOL

The ILLUSION of reality. Not reality.

:-D :-D :-D


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Ame | 1744 comments Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline tonight, he must be disguste..."



:D

I know. I just couldn't resist ;)

(It's Friday after all and I've had one beer)


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Steve Leonard (stevelonard) | 485 comments I rely more on the recommendations of friends than reviews when it comes to books. When I first started reading m/m I had to rely on reviews because I had no idea such a community of readers existed, but now I feel fortunate to have so many good resources on hand (although I've found myself muttering WTF a few times).


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Josh (joshlanyon) | 23709 comments Mod
Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline tonight, he mus..."


However, I think this real life bedtime dialog should be continued. :-D


OWWWW!! TELL YOUR DOG I'M NOT ATTACKING YOU!!!


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Ame | 1744 comments Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and bikiniline ton..."


LOL

"Sorry. I didn't realize using ice cubes would be quite this... wet."


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Sabine | 3041 comments Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave my legs and b..."


Ähm I don't thought, that's quite so messy, to lick whipped cream from your pecs and where are the pills against heartburn?


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Anne | 6816 comments Sabine wrote: "Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Josh wrote: "Ame wrote: "Real sex in romance books? I don't know.... that would mean:

"shit, I hope the kids don't wake up and walk in"

"why didn't I shave m..."


STOP! I got a cramp in my leg! Ouch ouch ow ow!!


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HJ | 3603 comments Josh wrote: "I have to agree with you about the British writers. Hall, KJ Charles, Harper, Joanna Chambers, JL Merrow... many good and interesting efforts. ..."

This really pleased me! I think they're good too, but was aware I might be biased.


Ije the Devourer of Books | 1994 comments Steve wrote: "I rely more on the recommendations of friends than reviews when it comes to books. When I first started reading m/m I had to rely on reviews because I had no idea such a community of readers existe..."

I am very similar. I will read some books that friends have recommended and i follow their reviews but I don't use review sites just GR and AMZ. I make most of my purchase decisions by reading the blurb and I like using the various book awards to find new writers. I found some great authors and non-fiction by going through the LAMBDA nominees from the different years.


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Susinok | 5205 comments Hmm you know my book buying patterns have shifted a bit too. I am relying on authors I know rather than finding new ones.

And right now I'm reading an urban fantasy again. I think some diversity in my reading is needed lately.

That said, Amy Lane's Bluewater Bay book is out today for pre-order. I'll be reading that one. ;)


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