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Apr 24, 2013 08:08PM
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I DO NOT have any problems at the moment but ALL OF MY FRIENDS come to me when they have problems.....so....if any of you need to talk about anything I will always be here for you!
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I agree with Hopeless!
I have a problem right now. I have a crush on a guy who I have been best friends with for 3 years and he kinda likes me but he doesn't know how I feel. And he is in a relationship with a girl I'm friends with but I really want to tell him how I feel and don't know what to do.
I think you should tell him how you feel.
I agree but let him know after his relationship ends.
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The only problem I have is when my friends insult me when I tell facts or even correct answers in school it is very annoying. Help.
Well I think it wouldn't be quite appropriate for the web site.
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Thank you so much that really helps.
Well here's my problem: I've been friends with this girl for 9 years. We're in high school now and I have made other friends. The girl I've been friends with doesn't like one of my new friends and has made that fact clear. I know I can be friends with whoever I want and she can too (in fact, I have my doubts about some of her friends, which I have not made known). I want to tell her to stop being so rude but I don't want to end our friendship. Of course, we seem to be slowly drifting apart anyway...
You should try to find some commen ground something your all interested in and see if they warm up too each other.
Oh my word Alexandra that happened to me. My friend wouldn't give this one girl a chance. So I told her that I was gonna hang out with the other friend. And if she wants to join us great! If she doesn't, its her problem. Eventually, she joined us and found out that she really liked this girl. Try that!
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And that happened to me too.My friend didn't want to be friends with my other friend.I tried to solve their problems.Then she came with us and we were able to have peace.
Thanks you guys! I'll invite the two over with some common friends and watch movies or hike or something...You guys are great!
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Ok guys, I like this dude, we used to have three classes together, and we sat next to each other in all of them. Untill the class change in January. We haven't had a conversation since. I try to talk to talk to him, but in the end I get nervous and chicken out. What should I do?
Make comments from here and there not full length conversation but when ever you see him say like hi or how's the day then slowly progress into longer conversation and catch up maybe a movie or lunch.
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Ok, I will try that. Thanks!!! :)
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I'm happy to help everyone! :D
first off i love how you are asking people what there problems are its nice to here from another persons point of view. there is this girl at school and she used to be quiet shy kid.I wasnt her friend but i wasnt ever mean to her. ever since a new girl came to school shes been acting quite different. For example loud, disrespecting teachers and always getting into trouble. now every time i go to science she calls me the b word or fat. So i tell her i havent done anything to her but then her and her friend laughs. I was wondering what should i do?
For me it's sounds like this person is a bad influence and you may get caught up in something bad it maybe time to cut the cord of friendship.
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If they ignore you as alex says, then ignore them too!! Eventually she'll get bored and hopefully get another girl to use the b word.
Keep your head up Chantel! Last time someone called me the B word I smiled and said, "Thanks. I've worked hard to achieve that status." Now I'm not saying that it is guaranteed to work, but if all else fails...They may see your change in attitude. And if everything fails and/or the situation escalates get help.
Chantel wrote: "first off i love how you are asking people what there problems are its nice to here from another persons point of view. there is this girl at school and she used to be quiet shy kid.I wasnt her friend but i wasnt ever mean to her. ever since a new girl came to school shes been acting quite different. For example loud, disrespecting teachers and always getting into trouble. now every time i go to science she calls me the b word or fat. So i tell her i havent done anything to her but then her and her friend laughs. I was wondering what should i do?"When people act like that, they're the ones with problems and are just lashing out at anyone without reason. Pray for them and try not to let your feelings be hurt, Chantel, (which of course is difficult.) Remember they're wrong. I pray for my friends - and acquaintances - and enemies - for peace in their soul and lives. :)
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Oh yeah.There's a quote that says:It's not whether you get knocked down,it's whether you get up-Vincent Lombardi.
One of my favorite quotes! :D
Chantel wrote: "Thanks everyone!!!!"You're welcome, Chantel! :)
heres my problem...i got mail from two top art colleges one in nyc the other chicago...theyre interested in me. both places are extremely dangerous and both are once in a lifetime opportunities...i probably could get scholarships to pay for the classes but im not tough. my family even said nyc and chicago are not for someone like me bc im not tough. sigh idk what to do....i dont want to dissapoint them or wind up alone in a huge dangerous city, but this is a great opportunity.
If I were you I'd go to Chicago I live I the area and have a cousin that goes Chicago university it is very safe around the area of the campus but its really your choice so don't let me influence you.
i would perfer chicago more bc i have a cousin in nyc and hes in the mob....but i realy dont want to dissapoint my family thats my main problem
I think they'll support your choice.
no, they arent the supportive kind....theyre more likely to get angry and say "fine, but if you get killed or raped while there im going to laugh...because its your mistake"
Well then that's just kind of wrong no offense.
theyre not supportive unless i do what they want....and even when i do what they want most of the time im invisible. do what they dont want i get yelled at...figures
Sometimes you really have to go against the wishes of the family.
