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[Goesta]

I'm irked to find out after all this time in ignorance that in the order Lagomorpha, it is attached via the belly button. I DID not know that.

[Anil]

I don't know if I should continue, but I was the one who "set" my role. I hadn't thought of it back then, but retrospectively, I think I gave in a gay stereotype that gays only like to be penetrates by "real men". The only thing I am sorry about it is that I gave in a stereotype. Mind you I was "the only gay in town". There was no one around me to tell me about these things, but guys who thought it should get me enjoy when they only served me their cocks and predicted to be porn stars. They would ejaculate and rush into the bathroom to get cleansed without showing any interest if I enjoyed it or not. Anyway... It is not that all of my experiences have been awful. I still remember fondly the time I spent with a German guy. We snogged for four hours and he treated me as a partner. Also, I met a British guy several times and spent the night at his place in all but one occasion. Such guys help me restore my self-esteem which has been really low.

[[deleted user]]

I am frustrated that Anil, Hector and Eves have not find someone special to love Them, their soulmate.

Everyone have the right to be happy and find the special one, that will love them HEA (since Subaru say, that no one will be happy in the serie X-1999, I have try to disprove this).

I am frustrated because I do not know, if it's best to be alone or have a boyfriend and do not know if I can handle the the idea that there is a likelihood that the disease will be passed on to my children. That is why my mind of choice is to live as a single the rest of my life, be like one of those old ladies who are crazy but sweet. Only the future know what my final choices will be.

Anil you should continue, as Macky say this is Gay sex 101....then maybe Hector and Aves will continue too.

Sorry to hear Anil that some of the guys you have meet, have try to destroy your self-esteem and to hear that your self-esteem have been low.
A lot of hugs

[Macky]

Helle wrote: "I am frustrated that Anil, Hector and Eves have not find someone special to love Them, their soulmate.

Everyone have the right to be happy and find the special one, that will love them HEA (since ..."

Helle sweetie Ive never married either..... Welcome to the sweet crazy old lady club ( perhaps sweet isn't quite the right description..... Warped maybe! Lol. )... but before you fully decide to become a card carrying member just remember you never know who's around the corner!! When you get a new doc and start to get a lot better you're probably going to get swept of your feet by an ex marine turned detective clairvoyant hottie with mad sex skills * woof*!!!!! Don't give up yet or you might end up turning into ......... ME! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!!!!!!!

Meanwhile back to gay sex 101.......... Hmmmmm?

[Anil]

Thanks, Helle. I can't blame only the guys. I searched for a companion at wrong places. Also, I think I am easily manipulated and give too much importance to others' opinions. I need to learn to take everything with a pinch of salt.

I am really sorry to hear that you might prefer being single. I hope you will meet a person who will challenge your decision.

[[deleted user]]

Macky I think you are sweet, lovely and have a lot humor, warped(?!?) why in the world should you be that?!? We have our sexuality, that is normal regardless of age :-)

Have not giving up yet, but to see your childern with the same illness is not something I want to see. If I know they will have a painless life and live a normal life, with job and a few special friends, then I would be very happy. The choices I take will have Consequences on my childern, if I am lucky to ever get that far?!?

Maybe I will know the choice and long time before it happened ;-) I was a reason with the clairvoyance word.

Anil if I have learn something after my illness is that if they do not like me, then that is their own fault, "Treat others as you want to be treated", this proverb I always think about. If others try to manipulate me and treat me that way as I have written before, so they get my wrath to feel.

I've learned that you can not please everyone and but you can try them you know who loves one the way you are(not try to change one and criticize one day in and day out, ex-boyfriend) and will always be there for one, family as well as friends. 

I bad experiences with both old classmates, as well as with lovers( only have two in my life) old classmate who bullied me and now wanted to be a friend on fb?!? when I did not support her when she was in adversity, I got an earful New Year's Eve, she did not even know how I felt at that time and think that I automatically threw everything I had and support her, even though I was in crisis with the disease and did not know the diagnosis at this time and so I do not forget her bullying of me in school, which I was close to committing suicide: all the old classmates was bullying me and the teachers too(no help in School for 14 years).

Thank you for your sweet and kind words that means a lot to me, thank you for your support xxx hugs

[Aves]

Macky wrote: "Helle sweetie Ive never married either..... Welcome to the sweet crazy old lady club ( perhaps sweet isn't quite the right description..... Warped maybe! Lol. )... but before you fully decide to become a card carrying member just remember you never know who's around the corner!! "

I’ve never married and I stand a fair way of remaining terminally single for the rest of my life. It’s not as grim as it sounds, I’m actually welcoming it. I’ve looked, I’ve searched, I’ve waited. And waited and waited and waited.

I think success at finding and keeping a partner in a marriage is purely a matter of chance, much like winning the lottery, landing a job you love, or coming into a whole lot of money through an inheritance. You can’t plan for it, you can’t prepare for it, you can’t decide it, you can’t work towards it, you can’t do anything about it. And should you be foolhardy enough to try, it will only come to tears.

My former gay male roommates, from a time many years ago when I was only a little older than Lucas is now, are a perfect example. Neither completed more than a basic high school education, both are racially prejudiced, both have a very limited, uninformed view of the outside world, one suffered a crystal meth addiction and created such havoc that the other kicked him out of our house for several months, most especially after I expressed concern about our safety and security. Well, the drug addict hit rock bottom, cleaned up and after I had moved out of the house, moved back in. These two guys are about as self-reflective as a soup tureen. They don’t read - ever, they’ve never been in therapy to the best of my knowledge and have never “worked on themselves” or “dealt with their issues” or gazed at their navel in any kind of conscious way. Yet, they’ve remained partnered for almost twenty years. They maintain a warm and beautiful, joy-filled home with lovely gardens, a plethora of live animals including dogs, cats, birds and a pond of goldfish. You can almost feel the love and the care that has been put into creating a loving and beautiful life together, one that works for both of them. All this without ever having read a self-help book or wasted money attending a “seminar” about “Finding Your Perfect Partner”.

How does this happen? The answer in my mind, is they were meant to be. Some of us were meant to be in successful longterm relationships, some of us are not, and I’m convinced that there’s nothing one can do to change the outcome of your life, not as far as relationships are concerned. Finding love is like having a very happy accident. As southerners say, “The love of your life is gonna have a wreck in your front yard”.

And the most vexing part about this whole thing is that the harder one tries to “find someone”, the more that someone will elude them and the more frustrated and defeated one will feel.

So, for the foreseeable future and beyond, Here’s to f**king around! Until the day Macky and I move in together and sit on our verandah in our rocking chairs, putting in bogus 911 calls just to check out the fire engines and police cars that will come racing down our street. You never know!

[Macky]

Aves wrote: "Macky wrote: "Helle sweetie Ive never married either..... Welcome to the sweet crazy old lady club ( perhaps sweet isn't quite the right description..... Warped maybe! Lol. )... but before you full..."

Aves you took the words right out of my mouth! Except my * f***ing around days are now firmly behind me. When people ask me do I regret staying single , its a big fat NO! I knew pretty early on marriage wasn't for me, I had fun, went through my own slut period, came out of it, settled into a period of more ladylike behaviour and then the poop hit the fan with my health 7 yrs ago. I would now hate to think that how I am now would be thrust upon a family unit so I always think it was sort of fate that led me to singledom. Meanwhile hun you keep shaking that gorgeous tush and have as much fun as you can ( whilst staying safe of course, we must stress that to the young impressionable slut wannabes!) and when your done come see me and we'll have loads of fun on our veranda with our stray cats , endless supplies of smarties and sparkly knitted blankets and yes we will be cackling after every crank call!!

By the way I've just been told Kaje Harper checks in and reads my ' Soap Opera' and she likes it!!!! * giggles* who'da thunk it!!

[Macky]

Helle wrote: "Macky I think you are sweet, lovely and have a lot humor, warped(?!?) why in the world should you be that?!? We have our sexuality, that is normal regardless of age :-)

Have not giving up yet, bu..."

Wise words sweetie. I know what you mean... Sometimes things are thrown at us but we cope the best we can and live our lives accordingly. I just hope things improve greatly for you and who knows your life expectations may change alongside it. I truly hope so. :)
Boo hiss to false friends... Not worth the energy of even thinking about them. File away in delete forever! :)

[[deleted user]]

Thank you Aves for your sweet and kind words that means a lot to me, thank you for your support xxx hugs

I agree with you in what you say, and I am lucky that my parents do not say that I should have a lover/husband, childern etc. they only wish me to be happy the way I find my own happiness with or without lover :-) they give me so much love and help me when I need their help, I think they are one of the few parents I know that not stress about grand childern.

I know I will be as much happy as single as all those I know that was marriage and is still marriage.

Aves I want to be with you in the funny things as a old lady and see sexy men in the fire engines and police cars ;-)

[Aves]

Helle wrote: "Aves I want to be with you in the funny things as a old lady and see sexy men in the fire engines and police cars ;-) "

Yes, Yes, Yes!!!

And the next time a fire engine and police car go racing by, and we’re feeling particularly energetic, you, Macky and I can get up out of our chairs and practise our “Oooohs” and “Aaaaahs”, and our wiggles and our jiggles, as we sing our rendition of The Three Degrees song, “When Will I see you again?”

Oh my gosh, I just dated myself, from the late 70s!
“Ooooohhh, aaaaahhhh…aaaaahhhh, oooohhh….precious moments…."

[Anil]

May I join you three?

[[deleted user]]

Hehehe LOL that is great Aves ;-)

[Aves]

Anil wrote: "May I join you three?"

Yeah, but you’ve got to bring your oooohs and aaaahs, and your wiggles and jiggles. Super long false eyelashes, bright red lipstick and a Jheri-curl wig wouldn’t hurt either. Then you’re in!

[Anil]

You can count on me.;-)

[Macky]

Aves wrote: "Helle wrote: "Aves I want to be with you in the funny things as a old lady and see sexy men in the fire engines and police cars ;-) "

Yes, Yes, Yes!!!

And the next time a fire engine and police c..."

Altogether now: including you Anil you're in!

"When will I see you again. when will we share, precious moments...... Will I have to waiiiit foreeeeeever or will I have to suffer..... (suffer) and cry the whole night through .... "

Ahhh! The great Sheila Ferguson .....

[Aves]

Macky wrote: "Altogether now: including you Anil you're in!...Ahhh! The great Sheila Ferguson ....."

Gurrrrl! That’s what I’m talkin’ about.

[Macky]

Aves wrote: "Macky wrote: "Altogether now: including you Anil you're in!...Ahhh! The great Sheila Ferguson ....."

Gurrrrl! That’s what I’m talkin’ about."

Playing at a roller disco near you Saturday night .... Glitterball, bellbottom,skinny rib jumper, cork wedge sandals, glitter eyeshadow and biba lippy all ready and waiting..... Oh and don't forget Afro ( don't laugh I have curly hair and In the early seventies when I was a young innocent teen I had one... Yes I did!! )

[Ije the Devourer of Books]

Aves and Macky Count Me In!!!!! I will also be with you , old wrinkled and ogling firemen. Sounds like a plan!

[Macky]

Oops rule 1... We're doing it again!!

So I'd like to complain that all this reminiscing is making me feel old but I'm also glad to know that Aves, Helle, Anil and Ijeoma will all be ogling hot firemen and policemen with me when were all glittery and grey.

[Ije the Devourer of Books]

I used to have Jheri curl for real too! I am sure that's why my hair is so thin. I never had a slut period though. I was married at 22 divorced at 32, then raised my son for the next 15 years and now I am a priest. Alas the opportunity for a slut period has passed me by. Maybe I can fit it in when I retire because generally people ignore the fact that old people do have sex. I can run up a number of clandestine affairs in my eighties. All is not lost :)

[Macky]

Ijeoma wrote: "I used to have Jheri curl for real too! I am sure that's why my hair is so thin. I never had a slit period though. I was married at 22 divorced at 32, then raised my son for the next 15 years and ..."

Woohoo! Errr harrumph!!

[[deleted user]]

Macky wrote: "Oops rule 1... We're doing it again!!

So I'd like to complain that all this reminiscing is making me feel old but I'm also glad to know that Aves, Helle, Anil and Ijeoma will all be ogling hot fi..."


:::grump:: :::grump:: Thank you dearest Macky for being my Rule 1 enforcer to get folks to pose comments as complaints (unless they are in the "chatter" topics.) I'd make that official but I don't think you'd like the title of "deputy dumb jock" :-)

Besides I couldn't stand anything that distracted you from your surrealist soap opera at this link: http://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/1...

[Macky]

Lucas wrote: "Macky wrote: "Oops rule 1... We're doing it again!!

So I'd like to complain that all this reminiscing is making me feel old but I'm also glad to know that Aves, Helle, Anil and Ijeoma will all be..."

Grumpy thanks! You can deputise me any day! Deputy dumb jockess? Hmmmph!

[Rick]

I am extremely annoyed that all of this talk about the 70s is reminding that I survived those terrible years AND do not want to inflict them on myself again.

Insert thought balloon: Now what should I listen to: KISS or Fleetwood Mac? No! Cat Stevens it is!

[Kim]

I am sincerely chagrined that a girlfriend of mine is going to audition for a part in Xanadu, but she doesn't know what that is.

[Rick]

I am so frustrated with people who don't know the film Xanadu that I will have to go home, after eating Thai food, this evening and watching it.

No connection between Thai food and Xanadu, I just have plans for eating Thai food tonight with my own personal superhero (but that's another story...)

[Rick]

While I'm at it: I am so aggrivated with myself for being addicted to Thai food.

[Aves]

Rick wrote: "While I'm at it: I am so aggrivated with myself for being addicted to Thai food."

That's fine! Just remember the cutoff time of ten hours.

[Rick]

Aves wrote: "That's fine! Just remember the cutoff time of ten hours."

Ex-squeeze me?

[Aves]

Rick wrote: "I am extremely annoyed that all of this talk about the 70s is reminding that I survived those terrible years AND do not want to inflict them on myself again.

Insert thought balloon: Now what should I listen to: KISS or Fleetwood Mac? No! Cat Stevens it is!
"

I was thinking more along the lines of Cheryl Lynn and “Got To Be Real”, and Taste of Honey and “Boogie-Oogie-Oogie”, but please!!! Leave out “Ring My Bell”!

[Aves]

Rick wrote: "Aves wrote: "That's fine! Just remember the cutoff time of ten hours."

Ex-squeeze me?"

Oh, puh-leeze…must I really?! Okay…minimum time between Pad Thai and Penis in Bottom, ten hours. If you don’t observe this rule, scrupulously, you’re gonna be smelling that Thai food again in a way that you simply don’t want. Oh. And this goes for Mexican food too.

[Goesta]

Rick wrote: "I am extremely annoyed that all of this talk about the 70s is reminding that I survived those terrible years AND do not want to inflict them on myself again.

Insert thought balloon: Now what shou..."

Did I mention that the novelette I am not submitting to LHNB (but which everyone will hopefully be dying to read after the short) mentions YMCA and Macho Man?

[Ije the Devourer of Books]

You can ring my bellllllllllllll. Ring my bell!!
You can ring my bellllllllllllll. Ring my bell!


Aves you cant omit it. I want to complain about that!

[Rick]

Aves wrote: "Oh, puh-leeze…must I really?! Okay…minimum time between Pad Thai and Penis in Bottom, ten ho..."

I am very saddened that Aves has to observe so many rules while consuming Thai food, while I've never had that issue come up before. Of course, I love the smell of Thai food - although I suppose not everyone loves it as much as I do.

I'm also annoyed that the cute college boy in the computer cubicle opposite me keeps giving very odds looks whenever I snicker. You'd think he couldn't hear my chuckles when he has those earbuds so firmly entrenched in his cute, shell-like ears.

[Ije the Devourer of Books]

That's because he isnt really studying. He is probably surfing the net and wondering why you are snickering.

[[deleted user]]

I am frustrated that not all my books with the Authority have not been sent yet and I would really like to read these DC comics and see Northstar's wedding from Marvel.

[Ije the Devourer of Books]

Helle wrote: "I am frustrated that not all my books with the Authority have not been sent yet and I would really like to read these DC comics and see Northstar's wedding from Marvel."


That's just so frustrating when that happens. I hate waiting for books especially graphic novels, comics and manga. Sometimes I have to order them from abroad and it takes ages.

[Rick]

Ijeoma wrote: "That's because he isnt really studying. He is probably surfing the net and wondering why you are snickering."

Then I guess I'm really upset if he thinks I am studying. Actually he's types pretty quickly in fits and spurts, then looks around the room for a few seconds, runs his hand through his short, thick black hair then goes back to typing. So he's probably working on a paper.

[Rick]

Helle wrote: "Northstar's wedding from Marvel."

I'm very upset that Helle hasn't gotten to read about Northstar's wedding yet. It was nice, not great, but certainly enjoyable. I wrote a paper for a sexuality studies class on Marvel's treatment of Northstar and how about ten years ago they killed him off in three different continuities in the span of about a month.

One of Marvel's most homophobic periods. I'm glad he's back and got married and I love Hulkling and Wiccan over in the Young Avengers.

[[deleted user]]

I agree with you in that Ijeoma, I order them from abroad too and hate the waiting before I have the comics and manga home. I hate that I need to wait to next month to buy some mangas and books that I know I will buy as soon as possible.

I am frustrated that I can't see a dvd, because it's not code free and to see on a computer will only make the pain worse *grrr* need to wait to be better so I can come home in my apartment again and no banko for a long time too :-(

[Rick]

Ijeoma wrote: "That's just so frustrating when that happens. I hate waiting for books especially graphic novels, comics and manga. Sometimes I have to order them from abroad and it takes ages."

I HATE having to wait for Doctor Who to come out on DVD to watch the new episodes. I'm too cheap to pay for cable or internet at home so I have to watch TV shows online when I'm on campus and I can't seem to get Doctor Who without having to pay an additional cost and since I'm going to buy them on DVD anyway - well, like I said I'm too frugal - anyway I'd rather spend the money on delicious Thai food (although I did break down and buy to watch the last Christmas episode).

[[deleted user]]

Rick I love Hulking and Wiccan too and Northstar was my first superhero that I fall in love with, only because my cousin had their first meeting, I found out about the group and I would also like to have the comics about Northstar, Hulking and Wiccan too. I am angry that he destroyed that comic, because I would have want to have that comic.

But I need to be patient, and buy the comics month by month, or see if Marvel have the comics as ebooks. But it seem most are normal books yet, I am frustrated about that.

[[deleted user]]

Damn Rick that serie I want to buy too and a lot of others, this is very frustrating.

[Rick]

I am saddened that I must report that I must now disconnect from the internet and go meet my personal "superhero" and eat delicious Thai food. But I promise not to engage in the sexual activity as described by Aves until the designated time has elapsed so as not to provoke worry.

[Hector]

I hate how shallow gay world really is... I just came back from several gay dating sites. As usual, no men want me simply coz Im far. Im really worried about myself.

People told me not to worry, that a man will come eventually. Don't chase him, let him come, and so on. But the truth is I'm growing old. I'm 33 but years pass so fast. And no gay man want long distance. No man want to come and sweep me off my feet.... It's just not gonna happen. Coz this is reality...

Will I grow old and die single... ??? :'(

[[deleted user]]

Goesta wrote: "Did I mention that the novelette I am not submitting to LHNB (but which everyone will hopefully be dying to read after the short) mentions YMCA and Macho Man? "

Chagrinned that Goesta is not submitting his novelette to Love Has No Boundries (LHNB) but pleased Goesta is submitting his longish short story to LHNB in the M/M Romance Group. I hope it's very cerebral because Goesa has such a big brain he could write something more challenging than the normal sweetness and light love stories .

[Macky]

I am disconcerted and .slightly queasy because I feel since our beloved Goesta mentioned the awesome 70's disco classic YMCA that we should honour its awesomeness in a singalong:
I think this should be our group song!

On the count of 3........Baggsy being the Native American *woof*


Young man, there's no need to feel down.
I said, young man, pick yourself off the ground.
I said, young man, 'cause you're in a new town
There's no need to be unhappy.

Young man, there's a place you can go.
I said, young man, when you're short on your dough.
You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find
Many ways to have a good time.

It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.
It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.

They have everything for you men to enjoy,
You can hang out with all the boys ...

It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.
It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.

You can get yourself cleaned, you can have a good meal,
You can do whatever you feel ...

Young man, are you listening to me?
I said, young man, what do you want to be?
I said, young man, you can make real your dreams.
But you got to know this one thing!

No man does it all by himself.
I said, young man, put your pride on the shelf,
And just go there, to the y.m.c.a.
I'm sure they can help you today.

It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.
It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.

They have everything for you men to enjoy,
You can hang out with all the boys ...

It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.
It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.

You can get yourself cleaned, you can have a good meal,
You can do whatever you feel ...

Young man, I was once in your shoes.
I said, I was down and out with the blues.
I felt no man cared if I were alive.
I felt the whole world was so tight ...

That's when someone came up to me,
And said, young man, take a walk up the street.
There's a place there called the y.m.c.a.
They can start you back on your way.

It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.
It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a.

They have everything for you men to enjoy,
You can hang out with all the boys ...

Y-m-c-a ... you'll find it at the y-m-c-a.

Young man, young man, there's no need to feel down.
Young man, young man, get yourself off the ground.

Y-m-c-a ... you'll find it at the y-m-c-a.

Young man, young man, there's no need to feel down.
Young man, young man, get yourself off the ground.

Y-m-c-a ... just go to the y-m-c-a.

Young man, young man, are you listening to me?
Young man, young man, what do you wanna be?

please feel free to to the dance moves as you sing along

[[deleted user]]

Macky wrote: "Grumpy thanks! You can deputise me any day! Deputy dumb jockess? Hmmmph!."

I would but you'd have to enforce rules which nobody likes and more importantly you would then fall under he rule that says you can be criticized and I could not stand anyone complaining about my magnificent Macky our treasured story teller who is among the most elite compassionate commiserators here.

Besides I think the official term is depouty used jockette which is kinda of a stinky title,

[Macky]

Lucas wrote: "Macky wrote: "Grumpy thanks! You can deputise me any day! Deputy dumb jockess? Hmmmph!."

I would but you'd have to enforce rules which nobody likes and more importantly you would then fall under h..."

* blushes* how annoying that you always say the nicest things.... :D