SOLVED. LGBT memoir he had a relationship with an older man, and had a very difficult time telling his parents about it [s]

[Rem]

This is a book I read in 2010. It was written by a man who was born in the 1950's or 60's I believe. It was written by someone who was from New England, though I cannot remember which part. It was published in the mid 1980's I think. It is his memoir of coming out as a gay man. I think one of his parents may have been Jewish. I believe he went to a boarding school as well, some point in the story. Also I remember that he had a relationship with an older man, and had a very difficult time telling his parents about it. I have had trouble finding it again.

[Andria]

Becoming a Man: Half a Life Story, maybe?

[Rem]

I found it!! it is called 'Not like other boys'

[Kris]

Great! Not Like Other Boys: Growing Up Gay: A Mother and Son Look Back by Marlene Fanta Shyer for the link.