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Gloria Clark
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Feb 16, 2009 11:08AM

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I find my challenge is to make sure books that come in my house stay foremost in my mind and that I go to those to read before I buy more. I am really bad about buying a book(s) that I really want to read and because I "own" it taking my time to get to it. Perfect example is Alias Grace. Bought the book when it first came out....Love Margaret Atwood, but because I own it and figure I'll get to it eventually it continues to gather dust on a shelf.
The other thing that kind of gripes me is that I often let the "hot discussion" or a new review dictate to me what I choose to read....I'll just clear my table off and go and buy another book with hardly a thought to the absolutely dead-on
good reads that I had planned on tackling next. Makes me kind of feel like a book slut.
I find if I put a book on my TBR list I never read it. It's like a curse or something for me. I'm sure it's a mental block or something I do but I rarely ever add or use my TBR list.


I use my to-read list here as books that come as recommendations or books that I find intriguing somewhere online. Then I include it to this list so I don't forget them.
I may also put books that I started but didn't finish on this list, too. Only because I had already added it before.



Why books, though I wonder. I realise that I am able to justify buying books, based on the fact that they are books, even if I don' ever get around to reading them, which I inevitably feel guilty about, then I sublimate my guilt with more books. YAY patterns!

I think we allow ourselves books because for 1- they're relatively cheap. I can go to the store and buy a brand new hard cover book for less than a pair of jeans (and if I buy used...!!) For 2- reading is "good." I never got in trouble for reading, and it was highly encouraged in me when I was a kid. I'd like to hear what others think.

I think that the conditioning from our chcildhood is deffinitely at least ONE of the reasons why it's easy to rationalize the purchase of a book.


I'd actually go so far as to call my parents book enablers. I lived with my parents until I got married last March. When my books started to outgrow my bedroom, my mom cleared out space in her sewing room and my dad built several shelves that ran the entire length of the longest wall. I've moved some to my home, but there are at least three times that many still at my parents' house. They're very gracious in insisting that there's no hurry to get them out.

I was/am the same way. I lived with my parents for quite a while (until I was about 24) and in all that time, the only furniture I ever personally bought and owned were two six-foot bookcases, which were both filled by the time I moved out. That was not counting the bookcase I had in the hall or the books I had stored in other bookcases throughout the house. My parents too were “book enablers,” I’ve been the same for my nieces. Now in college, I read now sociological/linguistic-anthropological studies about correlation between school performance and things like bed-time stories and dinner conversations about what books the child is reading, and its like my mom read the studies too and modeled her parenting after it. Now I have some distinct opinions about how “school,” is inclined to reflect the cultural standards of the people it was designed for, but that’s a story for another day. Anyway, my point is that for me and many other people too, apparently, “book culture” is as engrained in us as many of the other more widely recognized value systems in our greater culture. My it’s early for this sort of thinking…



I DO tend ot want have a book with me unless im stuck somehwere and have to wait. What a terrible thing to waste that 15 minutes in the Dr.'s office waiting, when I could be READING.
KATIE
Yeah, I do that kind of stuff. I spreadsheet my grades day-one of class. I spread shet book lists, song-lists.....not really makng myself look any beter am I? *L*


KrisT wrote: "Oh yeah Katie you have got LIst OCD. I love to do that when I find a good site like that. I tend to make it all nice and neat then never get to those. I find new lists of authors and series and the..."

I'm so glad to know I'm not alone!! My wish list is getting out of control. I keep an excel spreadsheet and an Amazon wish list. There is over 350 books on it. That is not counting the many, many books I own that are to be read. My spreadsheet also has all the books I own to be read and the books I've read also.
I really need to go through my wish list and get it better organized. I'm obsessed!!!
I really need to go through my wish list and get it better organized. I'm obsessed!!!