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message 701: by Arekusu (new)

Arekusu | 210 comments Mod
sometimes a non-committal casual relationship isn't a bad situation. The well, not really sexual tension, but tension pulling you two together, can be frustrating yet strengthening aspect. The casual nature can allow a relationship to grow out of friendship, which is a good foundation, as long as neither party focuses or obsesses over the fact that you're together in all but name. And if a committal relationship is necessary to keep it monogamous, then maybe some devotion or feelings is missing. One can decide to be faithful and monogamous without the shackles of a structured relationship.


message 702: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments can u put that in shorter words??...

we are both different, we just got out of a bad relationship. his ex-gf didn't wanna be with him as much as he wanted to be with her. and for me the 1st guy Michael liked me but he had a gf. but that didn't stop us from seeing each other. but he wanted sex and i didn't give to him so he left me. and on the following day joey (the 2nd guy) came to me.

i know he's different from all other guys, he respects his GFs. but they don't show him the same affection towards him. and its hard to convince him that i am different. he doesn't wanna get hurt again and i've told him that i will never hurt him cuz i show the same affection to my BFs that he shows his GFs.


message 703: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments I understand Joey, he sounds like good bf material. :D


message 704: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments thank you


message 705: by Arekusu (new)

Arekusu | 210 comments Mod
that no need to rush into a bf/gf relationship when close friends work. And a guy who dumps you because you won't have sex, while he has a gf of his own, isn't a good bf material, he would have left you for other reasons.


message 706: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments *Michelle* wrote: "I understand Joey, he sounds like good bf material. :D"

he reali does and man that michael guy was deff using you whaat an @$$


message 707: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments yea, i wanna kick his ass lolz


message 708: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments lol 2 of my guy cuzins(who are gangsters) wanna kick his ass already. and so do 2 of my girl friends.

and um i was with joey yesterday at my cuzins house. there were 5 of us. so nothing happened while we were in her room. but we did lean agaisnt each other and held hands. i won't ever kiss in front of family.


message 709: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments o, so when there are just you and your friend, do you then kiss?


message 710: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments maybe but idk

oh my lil brother saw us like that, that day and told me mom, so she knows i'm seeing joey. and i might go over to this house this saturday.... hopefully


message 711: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yer that michael guy needs a bash in the head :P

well everthings good i guess??


message 712: by Michelle (last edited Aug 25, 2009 12:47PM) (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments joey left me

he got back with his gf


message 713: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments aww what an @$$ :( thats so sad! and mean! how come guys are such idiots i mean you were there when he and his gf broke up and the he just goes crawling back to her i mean what are they up^ 2??!


message 714: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments Yea, they are just dumb.

Like this guy when he was dating my friend, he was like "I love you" all the time, but then when she broke up with him cause he was a jack as$, then he was all like "I love another girl".


message 715: by Luna (new)

Luna | 635 comments wow! anyways, to Michelle aka Raven, idk why I ever changed my name to Looneytunes, Ill change it back to Luna


message 716: by Arekusu (new)

Arekusu | 210 comments Mod
If you haven't heard of "a break" from Friends trivia, then yeah you can't expect a relationship to start from a breakup. It's like the cold, there's a chance of recurrence, that people make up, or just don't want to give up, and get back together after a short break, maybe have some hookups during this period.

Even if he had broken up and dated you, and not went back to the previous, it'd have counted as "rebound" relationship which isn't as strong either.

If he's the type the likes you seriously, but can't stay single long enough to start a relationship with you (a mourning period so to speak before starting with you), then I would question his devotion/commitment.

I knew one girl who was incapable of being without a relationship. She would pursue and hookup with the next victim before dumping the previous. She was smart though, she alternated between boys and girls, when she was with a girl, she'd pursue a boy and vice versa, keeping the current without knowing till they get dumped. It's a sign of insecurity in relationships to behave in this manner, and if the behavior doesn't change, will grow up alone. A good indicator was when she was actually dumped herself, she was devastated, didn't know what to do with herself because she had not had enough time to setup the next victim.


message 717: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments ok then...


message 718: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments Ali wrote: "aww what an @$$ :( thats so sad! and mean! how come guys are such idiots i mean you were there when he and his gf broke up and the he just goes crawling back to her i mean what are they up^ 2??!"

idk i talk to him once in a while now and i've been getting in trouble lately and blaming him for it.

but everytime when i saw goodnight he tells me "i'm sry, good things happen to ppl who wait, i love you."

god hes an ass


message 719: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments yupp, hehe.
I hate guys who say "I love you" without meaning it.
Those guys are sucky.


message 720: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yupp he is, im sorry to say. if he breaks up with her dont be there for him because now that you know what will happen.
yer thoes guys are sucky. :(


message 721: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments :D


message 722: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments :P


message 723: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments No guy is really not like that.


message 724: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments ?? like what?


message 725: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments fake


message 726: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yer true


message 727: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments Did you read the book yet?


message 728: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments no it hasnt come to NZ yet :( is it good?? dont tell me what happens


message 729: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments i won't, just don't go on the spoiler descussion.


message 730: by Anahita (new)

Anahita Mehrabi | 1 comments It's Dimitri on the cover of shadow kiss because at the end Rose has to chose between Lissa and Dimitri, (to be Liss's gaurdian or kill Dimitir) and that's an important point so Lissa and Dimitri are on the cover.


message 731: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments yea, i knew that.


message 732: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments Ali wrote: "yupp he is, im sorry to say. if he breaks up with her dont be there for him because now that you know what will happen.
yer thoes guys are sucky. :("


i'm trying to forget him but i can't seem to do that. i wake up thinking of him and i go to sleep hating him. its just hard.

joey won't make eye contact with my brother and my brother wants my permission to kick his ass. i want to say yes since my brother has been in fights before and joey hasn't, but i worry for brian(my brother) cuz he's gotten in TOO many fights already, and i also worry for joey. i don't want him hurt either. cuz fighting won't prove anything it'll just make things worse for me and brian.


message 733: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments *Michelle* wrote: "i won't, just don't go on the spoiler descussion."

kk i wont :P haha

aww that sucks Michelle aka Raven :(


message 734: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments *Michelle* wrote: "yea, i knew that."

haha sorry that sounded funny :)


message 735: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments Michelle aka Raven wrote: "Ali wrote: "yupp he is, im sorry to say. if he breaks up with her dont be there for him because now that you know what will happen.
yer thoes guys are sucky. :("

i'm trying to forget him but i ..."


I agree with Ali, that sucks a lot.


message 736: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yer :(

OMG!!! WELL I HAD A GOOD WEEKEND! (:
the guy i like isnt going out with that girl anymore (i just hope he broke up with her, otherwise i feel real sorry 4 him) but he broke up with her the weekend i talkd to him and we got along real well (:

so i had a good weekend but i hope hes ok


message 737: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments You should ask him if he still likes her.


message 738: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yer, well i never reali talked about his gf to him so it will b weird to, but ill probs ask if he is ok


message 739: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments yea, do you like anyone else?


message 740: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments um well i saw a guy i liked the look of at a dance at the begining of the year but i never go his name so no, but i realy want to see that guy again


message 741: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments does he go to your school?


message 742: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments no i go to an all irls school, he goes to either 2 schools



message 743: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments oh, that sucks, you should go to another dance and try to see if he is there.


message 744: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments yer haha thats whati was thinking :P


message 745: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments :D

How hot is he on a scale of 1-10?


message 746: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments like emmet cullen kinda


message 747: by Ace (new)

Ace (acecombat94) | 542 comments haha :P


message 748: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments hehe, wow.
I would go after him too.


message 749: by *Michelle* (new)

*Michelle* (silversecret16) | 656 comments (g2g, be on 2morrow after school)


message 750: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Ruiz (vampireprincess1991) | 422 comments omg ali i'm so happy for you, don't let go of that guy!! trust me...


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