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  • #1
    Erich Fromm
    “If other people do not understand our behavior—so what? Their request that we must only do what they understand is an attempt to dictate to us. If this is being "asocial" or "irrational" in their eyes, so be it. Mostly they resent our freedom and our courage to be ourselves. We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them. How many lives have been ruined by this need to "explain," which usually implies that the explanation be "understood," i.e. approved. Let your deeds be judged, and from your deeds, your real intentions, but know that a free person owes an explanation only to himself—to his reason and his conscience—and to the few who may have a justified claim for explanation.”
    Erich Fromm, The Art of Being

  • #2
    Gloria Steinem
    “Once we give up searching for approval we often find it easier to earn respect.”
    Gloria Steinem

  • #3
    Bernard M. Baruch
    “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”
    Bernard M. Baruch

  • #4
    “When you blame others, you give up your power to change.”
    Robert Anthony

  • #5
    E.E. Cummings
    “A bouquet of clumsy words: you know that place between sleep and awake where you’re still dreaming but it’s slowly slipping? I wish we could feel like that more often. I also wish I could click my fingers three times and be transported to anywhere I like. I wish that people didn’t always say ‘just wondering’ when you both know there was a real reason behind them asking. And I wish I could get lost in the stars.

    Listen, there’s a hell of a good universe next door, let’s go.”
    e.e. cummings

  • #6
    “Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.”
    Robert Anthony

  • #7
    “As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are - what others say is irrelevant.”
    Nic Sheff

  • #8
    “Dude, suckin’ at something is the first step to being sorta good at something.”
    Jake the Dog

  • #9
    C.S. Lewis
    “Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
    C.S. Lewis

  • #10
    Leonardo da Vinci
    “I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but they whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves their conduct, will pursue their principles unto death”
    Leonardo da Vinci

  • #11
    Ayn Rand
    “Listen to what is being preached today. Look at everyone around us. You've wondered why they suffer, why they seek happiness and never find it. If any man stopped and asked himself whether he's ever held a truly personal desire, he'd find the answer. He'd see that all his wishes, his efforts, his dreams, his ambitions are motivated by other men. He's not really struggling even for material wealth, but for the second-hander's delusion - prestige. A stamp of approval, not his own. He can find no joy in the struggle and no joy when he has succeeded. He can't say about a single thing: 'This is what I wanted because I wanted it, not because it made my neighbors gape at me'. Then he wonders why he's unhappy.”
    Ayn Rand, The Fountainhead

  • #12
    Margaret Thatcher
    “If you just set out to be liked, you will be prepared to compromise on anything at anytime, and would achieve nothing. ”
    Margaret Thatcher

  • #13
    Sherry Argov
    “Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.”
    Sherry Argov, Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart

  • #14
    Elizabeth Wurtzel
    “Whenever I talk to anyone I care about, I am always seeking approval. There is always a pleading lilt in my voice that demands love. Even the people I work with, the ones I am supposed to have a professional relationship with, all business, get pulled into my need. I can't help it. I want to be adored.”
    Elizabeth Wurtzel, Prozac Nation

  • #15
    Susan B. Anthony
    “Forget conventionalisms; forget what the world thinks of you stepping out of your place; think your best thoughts, speak your best words, work your best works, looking to your own conscience for approval.”
    Susan B. Anthony

  • #16
    Marquis de Sade
    “My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! ”
    Marquis de Sade

  • #17
    Asa Don Brown
    “All children should be taught to unconditionally accept, approve, admire, appreciate, forgive, trust, and ultimately, love their own person.”
    Asa Don Brown

  • #18
    “Education costs money, but then so does ignorance”
    Claus Moser

  • #19
    Mark Manson
    “Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for.”
    Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life



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