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  • #1
    Marilynne Robinson
    “Love is holy because it is like grace--the worthiness of its object is never really what matters.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #2
    Marilynne Robinson
    “There is no justice in love, no proportion in it, and there need not be, because in any specific instance it is only a glimpse or parable of an embracing, incomprehensible reality. It makes no sense at all because it is the eternal breaking in on the temporal. So how could it subordinate itself to cause or consequence?”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #3
    Marilynne Robinson
    “It all means more than I can tell you. So you must not judge what I know by what I find words for.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #4
    Marilynne Robinson
    “These people who can see right through you never quite do you justice, because they never give you credit for the effort you're making to be better than you actually are, which is difficult and well meant and deserving of some little notice.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #5
    Marilynne Robinson
    “I’m writing this in part to tell you that if you ever wonder what you’ve done in your life, and everyone does wonder sooner or later, you have been God’s grace to me, a miracle, something more than a miracle. You may not remember me very well at all, and it may seem to you to be no great thing to have been the good child of an old man in a shabby little town you will no doubt leave behind. If only I had the words to tell you.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #6
    Marilynne Robinson
    “In every important way we are such secrets from one another, and I do believe that there is a separate language in each of us, also a separate aesthetics and a separate jurisprudence. Every single one of us is a little civilization built on the ruins of any number of preceding civilizations, but with our own variant notions of what is beautiful and what is acceptable - which, I hasten to add, we generally do not satisfy and by which we struggle to live. We take fortuitous resemblances among us to be actual likeness, because those around us have also fallen heir to the same customs, trade in the same coin, acknowledge, more or less, the same notions of decency and sanity. But all that really just allows us to coexist with the inviolable, intraversable, and utterly vast spaces between us.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #7
    Marilynne Robinson
    “It's not a man's working hours that is important, it is how he spends his leisure time.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #8
    Marilynne Robinson
    “Nothing true can be said about God from a posture of defense.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #9
    Marilynne Robinson
    “... but it's your existence I love you for, mainly. Existence seems to me now the most remarkable thing that could ever be imagined.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #10
    Marilynne Robinson
    “It has seemed to me sometimes as though the Lord breathes on this poor gray ember of Creation and it turns to radiance - for a moment or a year or the span of a life. And then it sinks back into itself again, and to look at it no one would know it had anything to do with fire, or light .... Wherever you turn your eyes the world can shine like transfiguration. You don't have to bring a thing to it except a little willingness to see. Only, who could have the courage to see it? .... Theologians talk about a prevenient grace that precedes grace itself and allows us to accept it. I think there must also be a prevenient courage that allows us to be brave - that is, to acknowledge that there is more beauty than our eyes can bear, that precious things have been put into our hands and to do nothing to honor them is to do great harm.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #11
    Marilynne Robinson
    “People who feel any sort of regret where you are concerned will suppose you are angry, and they will see anger in what you do, even if you're just quietly going about a life of your own choosing. They will make you doubt yourself, which, depending on cases, can be a severe distraction and a waste of time. This is a thing I wish I had understood much earlier than I did.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #12
    Marilynne Robinson
    “I think the attempt to defend belief can unsettle it, in fact, because there is always an inadequacy in argument about ultimate things.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #13
    Marilynne Robinson
    “And often enough, when we think we are protecting ourselves, we are struggling against our rescuer.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #14
    Marilynne Robinson
    “I would advise you against defensiveness on priciple. it precludes the best eventualities along with the worst. At the most basic level it expresses a lack of faith.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #15
    Marilynne Robinson
    “It seems to me there is less meanness in atheism, by a good measure. It seems that the spirit of religious self-righteousness this article deplores is precisely the spirit in which it is written. Of course he's right about many things, one of them being the destructive potency of religious self-righteousness. (p. 146)”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #16
    Marilynne Robinson
    “Light is constant, we just turn over in it.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #17
    Marilynne Robinson
    “It is one of the best traits of good people that they love where they pity. And this is truer of women than of men.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #18
    Marilynne Robinson
    “I felt, as I have often felt, that my failing the truth could have no bearing at all on the Truth itself, which could never conceivably be in any sense dependent on me or on anyone.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead
    tags: truth

  • #19
    Marilynne Robinson
    “I’m not going to force some theory on a mystery and make foolishness of it, just because that is what people who talk about it normally do.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #20
    Marilynne Robinson
    “But I believe also the rewards of obedience are great, because at the root of real honor is always a sense of the sacredness of the person who is the object... When you love someone to the degree you love her, you see her as God sees her, and that is an instruction in the nature of God and humankind and of Being itself.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #21
    Marilynne Robinson
    “So my advice is this—don’t look for proofs. Don’t bother with them at all. They are never sufficient to the question, and they’re always a little impertinent, I think, because they claim for God a place within our conceptual grasp. And they will likely sound wrong to you even if you convince someone else with them.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #22
    Marilynne Robinson
    “When you encounter another person, when you have dealings with anyone at all, it is as if a question is being put to you. So you must think, What is the Lord asking of me in this moment, in this situation? If you confront insult or antagonism, your first impulse will be to respond in kind. But if you think, as it were, This is an emissary sent from the Lord, and some benefit is intended for me, first of all the occasion to demonstrate my faithfulness, the chance to show that I do in some small degree participate in the grace that saved me, you are free to act otherwise than as circumstances would seem to dictate. You are free to act by your own lights. You are freed at the same time of the impulse to hate or resent that person.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #23
    Marilynne Robinson
    “And they want me to defend religion, and they want me to give them proofs. I just won't do it. It only confirms them in their skepticism. Because nothing true can be said a out God from a posture of defense.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #24
    Marilynne Robinson
    “So you must not judge what I know by what I find words for.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #25
    Marilynne Robinson
    “These people who can see right through you never quite do you justice, because they never give you credit for the effort you’re making to be better than you actually are, which is difficult and well meant and deserving of some little notice.”
    Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

  • #26
    Peggy O'Mara
    “Don't stand unmoving outside the door of a crying baby whose only desire is to touch you. Go to your baby. Go to your baby a million times. Demonstrate that people can be trusted, that the environment can be trusted, that we live in a benign universe.”
    Peggy O'Mara

  • #27
    Vimala McClure
    “A wise mother knows: It is her state of consciousness that matters. Her gentleness and clarity command respect. Her love creates security.”
    Vimala McClure, The Tao of Motherhood

  • #28
    Ann Brashares
    “Please don't judge me too much until you are older and know more things. (Spoken from mother to daughter)”
    Ann Brashares, 3 Willows: The Sisterhood Grows

  • #29
    Alexandra Katehakis
    “All infants and children require and deserve comfort in order to develop properly. Soft cooing voices, gentle touch, smiles, cleanliness, and wholesome food all contribute to the growing body/mind. And when these basic conditions are absent in childhood, our need for comfort in adulthood can be so profound that it becomes pathological, driving us to seek mothering from anyone who will have us, to use others to fill our emptiness with sex or love, and to risk becoming addicted to a perceived source of comfort.”
    Alexandra Katehakis, Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence

  • #30
    “I've learned that instead of sending him to time out for melting down on the ball field, what he really needs is something no behavioral book has recommended, no other parent has suggested.
    He really needs me to love him anyway--love him so much that his outbursts are only a small part of the beautiful and gifted person he is. He needs me to see him as more than the sum of his bad behaviors. Sometimes it seems he needs more love than I have to give. But I also feel my capacity expanding. And that gives me hope for my son--and for myself.”
    Maralise Andersen



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