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  • #1
    Jacqueline Harpman
    “I thought it was unfair, and then I understood that, alone and terrified, anger was my only weapon against the horror”
    Jacqueline Harpman, I Who Have Never Known Men

  • #2
    “Some men see no contradiction between having a wife, who provides care and stability at home, and a mistress, who provides adventure and sexual release.”
    Dennis Ortman, Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder: The Six Stages of Healing

  • #3
    Jacqueline Harpman
    “My memory begins with my anger.”
    Jacqueline Harpman, I Who Have Never Known Men

  • #4
    Jacqueline Harpman
    “Inevitably, with memory comes pain.”
    Jacqueline Harpman, I Who Have Never Known Men

  • #5
    Johann Hari
    “This creates a different relationship with reading. It stops being a form of pleasurable immersion in another world and becomes more like dashing around a busy supermarket to grab what you need and then get out again. When this flip takes place—when our screen-reading contaminates our book-reading—we lose some of the pleasures of reading books themselves, and they become less appealing. It has other knock-on effects. Anne has conducted studies that split people into two groups, where one is given information in a printed book, and the other is given the same information on a screen. Everyone is then asked questions about what they just read. When you do this, you find that people understand and remember less of what they absorb on screens. There’s broad scientific evidence for this now, emerging from fifty-four studies, and she explained that it’s referred to as “screen inferiority.” This gap in understanding between books and screens is big enough that in elementary-school children, it’s the equivalent of two-thirds of a year’s growth in reading comprehension.”
    Johann Hari, Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention—and How to Think Deeply Again

  • #6
    Sarah Manguso
    “Why are you so angry? My husband frequently asked me why I was so much angrier than other women. It always made me smile. I was exactly as angry as every other woman I knew. It wasn’t that we’d been born angry; we’d become women and ended up angry.”
    Sarah Manguso, Liars

  • #7
    Sarah Manguso
    “He thought he could talk me out of things I remembered.”
    Sarah Manguso, Liars

  • #8
    Sarah Manguso
    “A husband might be nothing but a bottomless pit of entitlement. You can throw all your love and energy and attention down into it and the hole will never fill. ”
    Sarah Manguso, Liars

  • #9
    Sarah Manguso
    “John had taught me a lesson that felt indelible: that there are no assurances. That anyone might do anything to anyone.”
    Sarah Manguso, Liars

  • #10
    Sarah Manguso
    “I needed my suffering to be acknowledged. After that, maybe I’d think about getting through it.”
    Sarah Manguso, Liars

  • #11
    Mel Robbins
    “Focusing on what you can’t control makes you stressed. Focusing on what you can control makes you powerful.”
    Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

  • #12
    Mel Robbins
    “fact: People’s behavior tells you exactly how they feel about you. Your job isn’t to interpret it or second-guess it. Your job is to let people reveal who they are and how they truly feel about you and accept it.”
    Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

  • #13
    Mel Robbins
    “The relationship is largely happening as a fantasy in your own mind, because you live in the potential of what could be, not in the reality of what is.”
    Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

  • #14
    Mel Robbins
    “If you’re single, your love story is far from over. The love of your life is not in your past. They are waiting for you in the future, and everything that has happened and every relationship you’ve been in has prepared you for what is about to happen next.”
    Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

  • #15
    Jen Waite
    “when you come out on the other side of this, the amount of power you walk away with is going to blow your fucking mind.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #16
    Jen Waite
    “Anyone involved in a relationship with a psychopath goes through a long period of something called cognitive dissonance. It is a period of time during which you are trying to merge two realities: that the person you thought was your best friend and the love of your life is actually nothing but an illusion; his sole objective was to build you up so that he could destroy you in the worst way possible.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #17
    Jen Waite
    “Because psychopaths tend to target individuals who are especially empathetic and trusting, the best way to win a target is to appeal to her decency. The psychopath will weave an elaborate sob story, pouring his heart out to his target and making her feel not only sympathetic to the psychopath’s “bad luck” but also extremely flattered that the psychopath has chosen her to divulge his deepest secrets to.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #18
    Jen Waite
    “Psychopaths desire to be consumed whole by someone else because they lack an identity themselves.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #19
    Jen Waite
    “I remember reading that sociopaths cannot and will not, under any circumstances, remain faithful for longer than a few months, that even while idealizing one target, they are still constantly on the lookout for more supply.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #20
    Jen Waite
    “Now I understand why sociopaths are dubbed “human heroin.” I have been shooting pure, unadulterated psychopathic love into my bloodstream for five years. I am coming down from a drug I didn’t even know I was on, and the withdrawal has knocked me on my fucking ass.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #21
    Jen Waite
    “There is no “old Marco” and “new Marco.” Marco was always an illusion; the best magic trick I’ve ever seen.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #22
    Jen Waite
    “And then a voice in my head says very clearly, “She could have been anyone.” The obviousness and the truth of this statement jolts me. If it wasn’t her, it would have been someone else. Marco hunted for someone willing to feed his ego, but it didn’t actually matter to him who it was.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #23
    Jen Waite
    “He targeted her because she’s extremely insecure, and he figured out how to give her whatever validation she needed. For someone who has been looking to be validated her entire life, do you know how powerful it would be to hear ‘I’m giving up everything for you’?” I think back to the person I was when I met Marco. I was desperate for external validation. I needed someone to tell me I was special so that I could believe it myself. I decided that Marco was my missing piece and because of his love, I would finally be whole. I wanted so badly to feel the “magic” of love, to be adored, to find my fairy-tale ending, to be complete.”
    Jen Waite, A Beautiful, Terrible Thing: A Memoir of Marriage and Betrayal

  • #24
    “The workplace has become the new danger zone for both men and women to become romantically involved with others. Dr. Glass’s research revealed that 50 percent of wives and 55 percent of husbands who committed adultery had their first affairs with coworkers.”
    Dennis Ortman, Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder: The Six Stages of Healing

  • #25
    Carley Fortune
    “I pride myself on being a solid friend, a helpful sister, the good daughter. But for the man I loved? I would have done anything.”
    Carley Fortune, One Golden Summer

  • #26
    Carley Fortune
    “I’ve spent years imagining how different everything would have been if I’d just made one different choice.”
    Carley Fortune, One Golden Summer

  • #27
    Freida McFadden
    “Is it such an awful thing to want retribution against people who have wronged you?”
    Freida McFadden, The Tenant

  • #28
    Freida McFadden
    “I imagine what would happen if I went downstairs to the kitchen and boiled some water, then brought it up here and threw it in his face. That would change his life forever. The burns he would sustain would be permanent—his face would be scarred for the rest of his life. He might lose his vision. He’d never cheat on me again, that’s for sure.”
    Freida McFadden, The Tenant



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