“In practical terms, a limit-embracing attitude to time means organizing your days with the understanding that you definitely
won't have time for everything you want to do, or that other people want you to do -- and so, at the very least, you can stop beating yourself up for failing. Since hard choices are unavoidable, what matters is learning to make them consciously, deciding what to focus on and what to neglect, rather than letting them get made by default... And it means standing firm in the face of FOMO, the "fear of missing out," because you come to realize that missing out on something -- indeed, on almost everything -- is basically guaranteed. Which isn't actually a problem anyway, it turns out, because "missing out" is what makes our choices meaningful in the first place.”
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Oliver Burkeman,
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals