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  • #1
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “The point of marriage is not to create a quick commonality by tearing down all boundaries; on the contrary, a good marriage is one in which each partner appoints the other to be the guardian of his solitude, and thus they show each other the greatest possible trust. A merging of two people is an impossibility, and where it seems to exist, it is a hemming-in, a mutual consent that robs one party or both parties of their fullest freedom and development. But once the realization is accepted that even between the closest people infinite distances exist, a marvelous living side-by-side can grow up for them, if they succeed in loving the expanse between them, which gives them the possibility of always seeing each other as a whole and before an immense sky.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

  • #2
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke

  • #3
    Gloria Naylor
    “Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.”
    Gloria Naylor

  • #4
    Emily Rapp
    “Ronan taught me that children do not exist to honor their parents; their parents exist to honor them. [...] Ronan was mine but he never belonged to me. This is not an issue of ownership. A child is not a couch.”
    Emily Rapp, The Still Point of the Turning World

  • #5
    “I have heard women complain about men holding doors for them,, as if it is inherently offensive and implies that they are weak. ... I would hold a door for anyone. ... It has to do with noticing our fellow human beings and saying, "I recognize that you're on this planet, and I don't want a door hitting you in the face.”
    Tim Gunn, Gunn's Golden Rules: Life's Little Lessons for Making It Work

  • #6
    Ayn Rand
    “Why do they always teach us that it's easy and evil to do what we want and that we need discipline to restrain ourselves? It's the hardest thing in the world--to do what we want. And it takes the greatest kind of courage. I mean, what we really want.”
    Ayn Rand

  • #7
    Ayn Rand
    “My happiness is not the means to any end. It is the end. It is its own goal. It is its own purpose.”
    Ayn Rand, Anthem

  • #8
    Ayn Rand
    “I worship individuals for their highest possibilities as individuals and I loathe humanity for its failure to live up to these possibilities.”
    Ayn Rand

  • #9
    Lorraine Hansberry
    “The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which must also make you lonely.”
    Lorraine Hansberry

  • #10
    William Styron
    “I get a fine warm feeling when I'm doing well, but that pleasure is pretty much negated by the pain of getting started every day.”
    William Styron

  • #11
    William  James
    “The more details of our daily life we can hand over to the effortless custody of automatism, the more our higher powers of mind will be set free for their own proper work. There is no more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision, and for whom the lighting of every cigar, the drinking of every cup, the time of rising and going to bed every day, and the beginning of every bit of work, are subjects of express volitional deliberation.”
    William James

  • #12
    Daniel C. Dennett
    “I think we should stop treating ["God works in mysterious ways"] as any kind of wisdom and recognize it as the transparently defensive propaganda that it is. A positive response might be, "Oh good! I love a mystery. Let's see if we can solve this one, too. Do you have any ideas?”
    Daniel C. Dennett, Intuition Pumps and Other Tools for Thinking

  • #13
    Daniel C. Dennett
    “No matter how smart you are, you’re smarter if you take the easy ways when they are available.”
    Daniel C. Dennett, Intuition Pumps and Other Tools for Thinking

  • #14
    “If you want to call attention to your good deed then it isn't a good deed, it's a self-serving one. Why? Not only have you patted yourself on the back but you're fishing for others to do the same.”
    Donna Lynn Hope

  • #15
    Oscar Wilde
    “I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”
    Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

  • #16
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche

  • #17
    Bruce Lee
    “I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.”
    Bruce Lee

  • #18
    Peter V. Brett
    “Let others determine your worth and you're already lost, because no one wants people worth more than themselves.”
    Peter V. Brett, The Warded Man

  • #19
    Red Haircrow
    “Dance above the surface of the world. Let your thoughts lift you into creativity that is not hampered by opinion.”
    Red Haircrow

  • #20
    “Creating new people, by having babies, is so much a part of human life that it is rarely thought even to require a justification. Indeed, most people do not even think about whether they should or should not make a baby. They just make one. In other words, procreation is usually the consequence of sex rather than the result of a decision to bring people into existence. Those who do indeed decide to have a child might do so for any number of reasons, but among these reasons cannot be the interests of the potential child. One can never have a child for that child’s sake.”
    David Benatar, Better Never to Have Been: The Harm of Coming into Existence

  • #21
    Diane Von Furstenberg
    “The girls who were unanimously considered beautiful often rested on their beauty alone. I felt I had to do things, to be intelligent and develop a personality in order to be seen as attractive. By the time I realized maybe I wasn't plain and might even possibly be pretty, I had already trained myself to be a little more interesting and informed.”
    Diane Von Furstenberg, Diane: A Signature Life

  • #22
    Åsne Seierstad
    “Be yourself!’ said Gro. ‘No one will hear any of you otherwise, still less trust you. That’s the most important thing of all. If you’re not yourself you just can’t sustain it in the long term.”
    Asne Seierstad

  • #23
    Irvin D. Yalom
    “And what is the most terrible thing about boredom? Why do we rush to dispel it? Because it is a distraction-free state which soon enough reveals underlying unpalatable truths about existence—our insignificance, our meaningless existence, our inexorable progression to deterioration and death.”
    Irvin Yalom, The Schopenhauer Cure

  • #24
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “The problem, simply put, is that we cannot choose everything simultaneously. So we live in danger of becoming paralyzed by indecision, terrified that every choice might be the wrong choice.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

  • #25
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “Maybe the difference between first marriage and second marriage is that the second time at least you know you are gambling.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

  • #26
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “So when modern-day religious conservatives wax nostalgic about how marriage is a sacred tradition that reaches back into history for thousands of uninterrupted years, they are correct, but in only one respect - only if they happen to be talking about Judaism. Christianity simply does not share that deep and consistent historical reverence toward matrimony. Lately it has, yes- but not originally. For the first thousand or so years of Christian history, the church regarded monogamous marriage as marginally less wicked that flat-out whoring but only very marginally.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

  • #27
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “By unnerving definition, anything that the heart has chosen for its own mysterious reasons it can always unchoose later—again, for its own mysterious reasons.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

  • #28
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “Even if my acquaintance at the publishing party was certain that she herself would never abandon her husband, the question was not entirely up to her. She was not the only person in that bed. All lovers, even the most faithful lovers, are vulnerable to abandonment against their will.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

  • #29
    “There is a tendency for humans to consciously see what they wish to see. They literally have difficulty seeing things with negative connotations while seeing with increasing ease items that are positive. For example, words that evoke anxiety, either because of an individual's personal history or because of experimental manipulation, require greater illumination before first being perceived.”
    Lionel Tiger, Optimism: The Biology of Hope

  • #30
    Mindy Kaling
    “People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you're succeeding. People do not get scared when you're failing. It calms them. But when you're winning, it makes them feel like they're losing or, worse yet, that maybe they should've tried to do something too, but now it's too late. And since they didn't, they want to stop you. You can't let them.”
    Mindy Kaling, Why Not Me?



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