“You think I’m a fool,” I noted.  “That I shouldn’t wait for him.” She shook her head, eyes widening like I’d misunderstood her.  “I didn’t say that.  Only you can say if it’s worth it to wait.  I’ll tell you one thing I learned the hard way, though.  You can’t unlove someone just because you want to.  Trust me on this.  So if you love him, really love him, then of course it’s worth waiting.” “Even years?” “Even your whole life.  What’s the other option?”