“apply these three questions to every option that comes your way: 1. Does this option violate God’s law? 2. Does this option violate a principle? 3. In light of the story I want to tell, what is the wise thing to do? If, while in the throes of decision making, you pause and temporarily detach yourself from the emotion and the urgency of the moment and ask these three questions, you will gain extraordinary clarity. They will enable you to see each option in a new light.”