“First, there's surrender: “I have a desire and don't know how to fill it. But I know you do.” Second, there's a request: “Please bring what I'm looking for to me so I don't have to go looking, because I don't know what I'm looking for anyway, and I know what you bring to me will be a thousand times better than I could imagine.” And third, there's trust: “I know my job is to have patience and go on with my life, trusting that you will deliver when the timing is perfect.”