“Grace overcomes shame, not by uncovering an overlooked cache of excellence in ourselves but simply by accepting us, the whole of us, with no regard to our beauty or our ugliness, our virtue or our vices. We are accepted wholesale. . . . Accepted once and accepted forever. Accepted at the ultimate depth of our being.[1] Many of us feel shame not for our too-badness but for our not-good-enoughness.[2] Grace heals our shame . . . by removing the one thing all our shame makes us fear the most: rejection.[3]”