“The intention of acceptance is to allow for complexity. As humans, we are faced with managing an extremely complex world. Preconceived knowledge, beliefs, and agendas are often used to manage the complexity of the therapeutic process, but they can also get in our way of being present and open to the direct experience with our clients. To truly understand another’s internal world, we have to free ourselves from what we believe we know, to the best of our abilities, so as to be able to make real contact. Once we can say “I don’t know,” we can be open to new learning and greater complexity. As philosopher Jiddu Krishnamurti taught, “You can learn only if you do not know.”4 The reality is that we will never fully know our client’s internal experience, but we can continue to learn as we deepen into relationship with them.”