“Myth: “If I admit I’m lonely, even to myself, I’ll seem desperate.” Reality: Loneliness and desperation are different. Loneliness says, “I’d like to be with someone else. I crave companionship, romance, and intimacy.” Desperation says, “I can’t stand being alone and my self-respect is low. I will take anyone, even if I know he’s not right for me.” Loneliness is not undignified. It’s a natural human emotion that we all feel at times.”