“Take a simple scenario: a child does not listen to a parent. •  Guilt (Maybe I’ve done a poor job parenting.) •  Disrespect (How dare he not listen to me!) •  Rejection (He doesn’t love me.) •  Embarrassment (If others are around, what do they think of me?) •  Fear (What’s going to become of him? What will become of our relationship?) •  Injustice (After all I’ve done for him.)”