“I know the explanations, and there’s no doubt that during the busy years, hobbies and personal passions tend to fall by the wayside. People will sometimes make space for flexible fun like reading, crafting, or solo exercise, and that’s great. But committing to something out of the house, and involving other people, that meets at a particular time, seems like an entirely different matter. There are all the logistics to consider. Plus there are other people’s schedules, and the question of whether chaos”