“Unfortunately, the fastest way to kill or impede a man’s emotional attraction to you is to chase him for attention.  Therefore, it is crucial for you to allow him to initiate most of the contact, especially at the beginning of a new romance. If you dominate the initiation of contact from the beginning, he will KNOW that he “has” you, and thus, the very excitement, curiosity, and anxiety that once drove him to keep in touch will slowly fade with every”