“Perhaps the best advice for facing indecision is to recognize that we can make a choice and it doesn’t have to be the right one—because there is no such thing. Either it’s impossible to determine how we got it right, or we will convince ourselves we were right in time. Maybe we could save ourselves from the turmoil of indecision if we stop trying to find the “right” choice and just go with what feels good right now in our hearts. That might sound trite, but if a pro-and-con list is, at best, projection, who is to say the heart can’t be a better guide? I’m reminded of the words of writer Maya Angelou: “I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.”