“Your need to fit in can override your greatness because it can cause you to stay around people who stunt your growth. •    Surround yourself with people who inspire you. They don’t need to be alive or in your physical presence. •    As you grow in your life, you may outgrow the people around you, and that’s OK. •    Don’t instruct the people around you to change; inspire them by changing and shining your bright light. •    Save your energy for important things: being happy is more important than the Ego game of being right.”