“I question because I accept nothing. I don’t accept that it is instinct and say that I can’t help it. I don’t accept that it is heredity and that therefore I am not to blame. As I don’t accept any of these things, I ask, ‘Why is there this loneliness?’ I question it and remain with the question, not try to find an answer. I have asked myself what is the root of this loneliness; and I am watching, I am not trying to find an intellectual answer; I am not trying to tell the loneliness what it should do, or what it is. I am watching it for it to tell me.”