“Instead of looking for how things are the same, we can look for how they are different. Instead of seeking evidence to confirm our perspectives, we can seek to shake them up. Instead of wanting to be right, we can want to be wrong. Of course, this takes a tremendous amount of confidence. Let’s face it, we’d all prefer to be right rather than wrong. But here’s the irony: The more you look to be wrong, the more likely you’ll end up right.”