In Sweetened with a Kiss-Stefan's father let him date Jen when she was 18 so why didn't he date her instead of dating & sleeping with Madlyn for 2 yrs? Also Stefan comes across a sleazy hypocrite when he makes Jen promise at 16 to never date. He expected her to be faithful to him but was he faithful to her too? & why not since he knew he was going to marry her also? His love is questionable if he continued to manwhore