Melania asked Kristen Ashley:

Hi Kristen! In your books we usually read about strong themes, like violence against women, rape, drug problems or PTSD. I was wondering: How do you approach this kind of problems? I mean: before writing about it, do you research or ask question to professionals who deal with this kind of problems? And how hard can be for an author write about all these awful things which unfortunately happen in the real life?

Kristen Ashley With this, its a mix of web research and discussions with folks in the know. I do my best to kind of "get into" the end part of such a journey which, my guess, puts the foundation in my head so as my characters go through it, they can draw from that foundation with their experiences, actions, etc.

Though I think it's very important to share how to find tools to deal with these problems (seeking counselors, hotlines or crisis centers, peer discussions, openness with family and friends so they can be sensitive and supportive). I feel it's crucial to be responsible about that kind of thing, in bringing "reality" to this kind of fantasy, to make certain it isn't used simply as a plot device to create drama or tension...but carried through appropriately because these kinds of things devastate lives and that is no plot device.

Lastly, it's not easy writing about it. Though one thing about writing about it that you don't get in real life is total control over the situation. You can have characters who deal with this kind of thing, and then you can give them what they need to help them heal.

I wish I had that control in real life. But at least I have it in my books. :-)

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