Lobstergirl Brace your feet about 1.5 to 2 feet apart. Lower your center of gravity a bit by bending your knees slightly. Grasp man about hips or waist. Lift. Alternatively, if man is heavy, obtain a loader such as a Bobcat. Have man lie on ground; roll, push, or prod into loader.
Susanj Realize you're fine without them. If you want kids you can go to a bank. If you want sex, go find the hot, full head of hair, great physique, great smile, nice eyes, rich guy of your choice. Protect yourself from disease by bringing protection. Know that you don't really have time to cater to his fragile ego, you have a life. Go have fun with your friends, be great at your career, and do whatever you want to do today. Any man that's worth sharing a life with, will find you come hell or high water.