Upamanyu Sengupta asked this question about The Remains of the Day:
Why do people think that the life of stevens was a waste ? Yes he does indeed have some regret but that does not mean he wpuld have been happy if he changed something in the past ,like for eg if he left the job or if he stopped miss keaton that evening and married her later.He might have had an uneventful life and would have had other regrets.Suppose ,what if lord darligton was not chastised but acclaimed universally.
MTK I think because both his obsession with being the perfect butler drive him to professional and his romantic choices lead to failures? On a personal le…moreI think because both his obsession with being the perfect butler drive him to professional and his romantic choices lead to failures? On a personal level, he is so focused on his job that he fails to understand that Miss Kenton loves him and lets her go to marry someone else. If he had attempted a relationship, they might have married and had children and he would now have a wife and family instead of being a solitary old man. He probably wouldn't even have to leave his job; if Anthony Trollope and Agatha Christie are to be believed, it would have been very suitable for the butler and the housekeeper to be a married couple.

On a professional level, the problem with devoting yourself to the service of one person is that your life's work depends on their success. He chose to devote himself to Lord Darlington, who made dreadful mistakes in choosing to involve himself with international politics. If Lord D was right about Germany wanting peace, or if he had realised early on what was happening with the Nazis, Stevens might have ended up the butler of an internationally renowned statesman, or at least a respected old aristocrat, and the house might have stayed in the family after his death. Instead he had to see his master become disgraced and die alone and the house go to a stranger. (less)
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