Rachel
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Suanne Laqueur:
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(view spoiler)[Hi Suanne! Me again. After rereading TMIL and GMYAT for the...I lost count...a new question has been nagging me: When Erik called Daisy to see if she still had his necklace, how would the conversation had gone if John hadn't picked up the phone? Or if Daisy had been single? Would Erik try to pursue something or was the call really about the necklace? (hide spoiler)]
Suanne Laqueur
You had me at "rereading."
Erik uses the excuse of the necklace to call her. "Just call her. Because you can't breathe without her." If she answered, it could've gone a bunch of different ways. Let's explore them, shallllll we?
1) Daisy picks up but John is home. Right there. Wrinkling eyebrows and mouthing, "Who is it?" She's torn. Erik in her ear. John in her eyes. I thought about this a good five minutes and honestly I think she would struggle a few light-headed seconds and then hang up on him. Ooh. Harsh. Okay, she doesn't hang up on him (though he deserves it) but says something like, "Oh hey, I'm not sure, this isn't a good time. Let me call you back." And then make up some excuse to John about a co-worker looking for a good massage therapist or something.
2) Daisy answers, John is not home. Think about her and Erik's state of minds. She's been through her therapy and done her hard work. Erik hasn't even started his yet, he's spiraling down.
Daisy is a lot like Alex Penda: she has a moral compass that only points one way. If she were living with John, she would say so. It would break her heart and make her feel like shit, but she would not ruthlessly throw Opie over the side. I think she'd be honest, kind and firm with Erik. Convey her sorrow for hurting him and convey her hurt from his actions. Say she hoped he would keep in touch, she still wanted to know where he was. And Erik, having the same kind of moral compass, wouldn't beg her. He'd let go, then continue his downward spiral as written.
3) Daisy answers and she's single. Well then, it would probably go a lot like it did at the end of TMIL. Except Erik isn't that stable. Isn't as mature and self-aware as he is at the end. I don't doubt that shortly into this reconciliation, Daisy would boot his ass into therapy. Either together with her or alone. Or both. But they'd find their way back to each other and find the way forward. And it would've been a 200-page book instead of a 400-something page book :-)
What do you think?
Erik uses the excuse of the necklace to call her. "Just call her. Because you can't breathe without her." If she answered, it could've gone a bunch of different ways. Let's explore them, shallllll we?
1) Daisy picks up but John is home. Right there. Wrinkling eyebrows and mouthing, "Who is it?" She's torn. Erik in her ear. John in her eyes. I thought about this a good five minutes and honestly I think she would struggle a few light-headed seconds and then hang up on him. Ooh. Harsh. Okay, she doesn't hang up on him (though he deserves it) but says something like, "Oh hey, I'm not sure, this isn't a good time. Let me call you back." And then make up some excuse to John about a co-worker looking for a good massage therapist or something.
2) Daisy answers, John is not home. Think about her and Erik's state of minds. She's been through her therapy and done her hard work. Erik hasn't even started his yet, he's spiraling down.
Daisy is a lot like Alex Penda: she has a moral compass that only points one way. If she were living with John, she would say so. It would break her heart and make her feel like shit, but she would not ruthlessly throw Opie over the side. I think she'd be honest, kind and firm with Erik. Convey her sorrow for hurting him and convey her hurt from his actions. Say she hoped he would keep in touch, she still wanted to know where he was. And Erik, having the same kind of moral compass, wouldn't beg her. He'd let go, then continue his downward spiral as written.
3) Daisy answers and she's single. Well then, it would probably go a lot like it did at the end of TMIL. Except Erik isn't that stable. Isn't as mature and self-aware as he is at the end. I don't doubt that shortly into this reconciliation, Daisy would boot his ass into therapy. Either together with her or alone. Or both. But they'd find their way back to each other and find the way forward. And it would've been a 200-page book instead of a 400-something page book :-)
What do you think?
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